I think the key word here in which I forget is LOW INTEREST...NOT ZERO INTEREST. WITH LOW INTEREST WOMEN WILL SAY YES TO DATES AND MIGHT FIND YOU PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE, HOWEVER THEY DONT GET A SERIOUS ENOUGH VIBE TO MAKE EFFORT TO MEET YOU/ETC.
Did you cancel next Fridays date?
I cancelled and rescheduled for this Monday, she said she sent 3 texts saying she has rotation Monday, she might go to Starbucks today(to hint she MIGHT want to meet me up today)....yeah I don't like that bs lol. So I friendzoned her and told her good luck in medical school(she replied 'thanks' )than I deleted number. I ain't trying to have comfy dreamy convos and never hang out with her.........
You didn't friendzone her, she friendzoned you.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Well done, she is not going to waste your time.
Me: No can do, I've been booked by others for some scuba diving action.1 week ago I met a medical student at Starbucks who was sitting in front of me, I conversated with her and asked her out
Text thread-
Saturday(5 Days ago)
Me: Hey, it was great meeting you. You seem very interesting and I'd like to find out more about you over a casual coffee Tuesday at 6 at the same Starbucks. How about that?
Her: It was great meeting you too!
Her: I'm leaving for Dallas tomorrow and coming back wed/Thurs. I can do it than?
Me: Thursday at 6 is cool. Have a fun trip!
Her: Thanks!!
TODAY around 5:15
Me:Looking forward to tonight, see you around 6
Her: I don't think I can make it
Me: No problem
Her: Maybe we can meet up next weekend
What would you text back?
I agree.
Does the intiating
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It's always easier when you're not in the situation to see these things. I have a very good friend who helps give me perspective on women like that and I do the same for him.
What I don't get it is, she was very interested initially at the coffee shop, so I gave her benefit of doubt when she flaked. From now on I'm going no contact and deleting a chick when she first cancels without going out of her way to send a text (like this one did). If she does send a text before, I'll give her a second chance to reschedule....if she in fact wants to reschedule in her initial fake cancel/text.
