Flaked on first date than asks to reschedule next weekend, should I delete contact or reschedule 2nd?

[GeeMale]

If he his forgotten before next date, good for him. He just got rid of a low interest women without wasting his time.

I think the key word here in which I forget is LOW INTEREST...NOT ZERO INTEREST. WITH LOW INTEREST WOMEN WILL SAY YES TO DATES AND MIGHT FIND YOU PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE, HOWEVER THEY DONT GET A SERIOUS ENOUGH VIBE TO MAKE EFFORT TO MEET YOU/ETC.

 

[lamath]

I think the key word here in which I forget is LOW INTEREST...NOT ZERO INTEREST. WITH LOW INTEREST WOMEN WILL SAY YES TO DATES AND MIGHT FIND YOU PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE, HOWEVER THEY DONT GET A SERIOUS ENOUGH VIBE TO MAKE EFFORT TO MEET YOU/ETC.

Did you cancel next Fridays date?
Tbh i would not cancel unless she give me a reason.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

If a girl cancels a date, she is done with you. Any excuse she gives is bullsh1t and counter offers after she cancels are not really counter offers.

 

[GeeMale]

Did you cancel next Fridays date?
Tbh i would not cancel unless she give me a reason.

I cancelled and rescheduled for this Monday, she said she sent 3 texts saying she has rotation Monday, she might go to Starbucks today(to hint she MIGHT want to meet me up today)....yeah I don't like that bs lol. So I friendzoned her and told her good luck in medical school(she replied 'thanks' )than I deleted number. I ain't trying to have comfy dreamy convos and never hang out with her.........

 

[B0redandl0nely]

I cancelled and rescheduled for this Monday, she said she sent 3 texts saying she has rotation Monday, she might go to Starbucks today(to hint she MIGHT want to meet me up today)....yeah I don't like that bs lol. So I friendzoned her and told her good luck in medical school(she replied 'thanks' )than I deleted number. I ain't trying to have comfy dreamy convos and never hang out with her.........

You didn't friendzone her, she friendzoned you.

 

[lamath]

I cancelled and rescheduled for this Monday, she said she sent 3 texts saying she has rotation Monday, she might go to Starbucks today(to hint she MIGHT want to meet me up today)....yeah I don't like that bs lol. So I friendzoned her and told her good luck in medical school(she replied 'thanks' )than I deleted number. I ain't trying to have comfy dreamy convos and never hang out with her.........

Well done, she is not going to waste your time.

 

[Spaz]

1 week ago I met a medical student at Starbucks who was sitting in front of me, I conversated with her and asked her out

Text thread-

Saturday(5 Days ago)

Me: Hey, it was great meeting you. You seem very interesting and I'd like to find out more about you over a casual coffee Tuesday at 6 at the same Starbucks. How about that?
Her: It was great meeting you too!
Her: I'm leaving for Dallas tomorrow and coming back wed/Thurs. I can do it than?
Me: Thursday at 6 is cool. Have a fun trip!
Her: Thanks!!
TODAY around 5:15
Me:Looking forward to tonight, see you around 6
Her: I don't think I can make it
Me: No problem
Her: Maybe we can meet up next weekend

What would you text back?

Me: No can do, I've been booked by others for some scuba diving action.

Then ignore until she comes up with some alternatives.

 

[B0redandl0nely]

Your initiating text was cringeworthy

 

[GeeMale]

You didn't friendzone her, she friendzoned you.

Your initiating text was cringeworthy

I agree.
I actually got it from a 'senior don juan' on here to test a response....looking back it looks retarted and and something I wouldn't really say...I usually say something like 'Hey let's meet at 'place' ,'time' 'day' or something super simple ..... This dude I copied from had an old fashioned frame where you try to 'loo' a girl.

 

[GeeMale]

Your initiating text was cringeworthy

Does the intiating
text change a girls interest level? Would a girl be more interested if it was soemthing better than I wrote and not flake?

 

[Steel_Neurons]

Makes me feel like an idiot when I have to read these posts that pinpoint the obvious in which I believed and knew before....

It's always easier when you're not in the situation to see these things. I have a very good friend who helps give me perspective on women like that and I do the same for him.

 

[GeeMale]

Well done, she is not going to waste your time.

What I don't get it is, she was very interested initially at the coffee shop, so I gave her benefit of doubt when she flaked. From now on I'm going no contact and deleting a chick when she first cancels without going out of her way to send a text (like this one did). If she does send a text before, I'll give her a second chance to reschedule....if she in fact wants to reschedule in her initial fake cancel/text.