We were sitting down next to each other on a bench when were chatting, she was touching me a few times on the leg and arm. Anyway, I put my hand on the inside of her knee/thigh and she didn't like that at all, afterwards it totally changed the manner of which she interacted with me.
To me, this highlights the calibration issue already pointed out. The inside of the leg is a very intimate area and one doesn't generally go straight there as a first touch. You start with platonic areas (brushing back of hands, shoulders, elbows) and gauge reaction, then escalate from there. It's ok though - you learned something from it, right?
You need to stop feeling so entitled and understand you have a long way to go in your journey. The entitlement will only lead to frustration and victim mentality. Women are a challenge and it is truly an art for many men to learn how to deal with them. Most of us are still learning to varying degrees. Recognize it as a challenge that your intelligence can work to overcome instead of feeling like it should be served to you on a platter because of (insert literally any reason here).
One you get your mind right on that, leverage the advice many have given you already and seek every and any opportunity to interact with women and when you do,
don't be so outcome dependant!!! Literally the only outcome you should be focused on is your taking action. You seem to do this, on occasion, when you are in the right frame of mind, but if it doesn't result in your getting a number from a 7+ and sleeping with her, you get frustrated and go back to your entitlement story (I'm 6'4", don't drink, don't smoke, good job, broken record). Wrong. You must practice to become skilled with women. You must accept you will fail to close 100% of the time at first. You must be happy with your *action* and understand it will lead to progress over time, instead of treating every failure as yet additional proof that women are nuts and the universe doesn't want you to be successful with them. You need to practice more often, more consistently. I think you would do well to do as others have suggested and get some unattractive platonic female friends so you can start learning how to act around them in a low-pressure environment. Join some Meetup groups or sports groups etc.
Entitlement is going to speed dating and complaining that women you personally feel are less attractive than you are not interested in you, but should be. Attraction has many aspects, and what has been told to you many times but seems to not be getting through is that your social ability with women is far more important than the broken-record list of qualities you have that you feel entitle you to success with attractive women. To summarize: Attractiveness is part looks, part success, and part attitude. I would argue that attitude is the most important of these three and success is the least, but they all factor in. You KNOW you have an issue with the attitude.... Yet you still feel entitled? Why?
Let me ask you, where do you think your statement of, "If women don't like an attractive muscled 6'4" guy who blah blah blah, then there must be a problem with women. What I have should be good enough for women" is going to get you? Will that help you improve? Will that change what women want in men? So what will it do? What it looks like to me is a plea for sympathy. I'm happy to provide a little bit of that, and I have in the past, but I don't think it's what you need now.
Again, it doesn't matter if you look like Brad Pitt,. if you have no game, women will run. You can complain about that as much as you like but it won't change reality. You can learn game, but you can't fix ugly. You should be thankful (not entitled) you were born with height and enough looks that some attractive women check you out and initiate conversation. Now you just need to learn to interact with women. If you don't want to do that and would rather complain and look for sympathy, you'll have better luck on an INCEL forum.
