Went to a speed dating event last night and these are the results

[sangheilios]

I went to a speed dating event last night, which I had signed up for a few weeks in advance.

Anyway, before the event started I was hanging out and just observing the people that were there. All of the guys ranged from very unattractive to maybe average at best, none of the guys were fit or anything which didn't surprise me.The women ranged from unattractive to average, no particularly attractive women at all. There are 10 women and after 6 minutes the men rotate and take a seat at the next table, again repeating this process. I had a pretty good time overall but nothing in particular stood out to me at all, meaning no one I was really all that interested in seeing again. The event concludes and I quickly fill in the sheet for my interests to the event coordinator before leaving. I had said yes to 4 women, who I thought were decent enough to go out with but I wasn't really all that into any of them.

This morning I get an email from the event coordinator and to be honest I was shocked. I had 0 matches and out of the entire event I only had 1 women actually say yes to me lol, it includes the contact info of people who were interested whom you didn't say yes to initially. I was honestly extremely surprised by this, especially since I was engaging with the women and also the only attractive and fit guy there.

The only issue I can see was that there were by chance 2 other men with my same name and there was an error with that. Still, if that isn't the case this just proves my point......a 6'4", fit and attractive guy can't even land a match at a speed dating event with a bunch of unattractive women lol. I don't get it.

 

[zekko]

It could be the usual "women have too many options" situation. Or possibly (and this may go against PUA Bro Theory) they sensed that you weren't really into them. Women are good at sensing emotions, after all.

 

[sangheilios]

It could be the usual "women have too many options" situation. Or possibly (and this may go against PUA Bro Theory) they sensed that you weren't really into them. Women are good at sensing emotions, after all.

Who knows lol.

Being tall, fit, attractive, educated and normal isn't good enough for even land whales today lol.

 

[Robert28]

How much of a dog was the one woman that said yes to you?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Who knows lol.

Being tall, fit, attractive, educated and normal isn't good enough for even land whales today lol.

Negative thinking. Stop complaining. Do several more of these sessions. Enjoy the interaction.

 

[jaymbrs]

Intimidation factor. Women who are attending these things are more than likely looking to settle down. You possibly looked too risky.

 

[allancc3]

I went to a speed dating event last night, which I had signed up for a few weeks in advance.

This morning I get an email from the event coordinator and to be honest I was shocked. I had 0 matches... this just proves my point......a 6'4", fit and attractive guy can't even land a match at a speed dating event with a bunch of unattractive women lol. I don't get it.

This guy is a professional troll. Why does he bother posting the same garbage over and over again?

 

[LiveYourDream]

In your eyes you clearly believe you were the best man there. By your logic, if the women did not pick you than they would also have picked no man below you, as well. You teally think 9 of the women picked none of the men??


If you were just half as amazing as you think you are, you would have still gotten 5-7 numbers.

Perhaps... how you ACTUALLY come across to women, including your vibe, is NOT attractive in the way you believe it to be???

Try logic there.

Maybe there is a reason you are getting the feedback you are from those 9 women and us here.

Maybe you are NOT as perfect as you think??

Maybe your physical characteristics are actually not enough to compensate for your off putting vibe?

You seem to go on and on as if your vibe is irrelevant. The feedback you have received here is, from the photo you presented, creepy, feminine, etc.

Not trying to be brutal...trying to be real so you wake the f up and consider that YOU may be the reason for 1 of 9 last night. Same for zero to no responses on tinder or OLD etc

You are the common denominator!!

 

[sangheilios]

How much of a dog was the one woman that said yes to you?

I didn't say yes to her, so it wasn't a mutual match, but she was overweight and not particularly attractive. I enjoyed the conversation I had with her but I just was not into her at all on a physical level.

The best woman there was maybe a 6, the rest ranged from 2-4 for the most part. I wasn't expecting much from the event but I was honestly shocked by the fact I only got one yes out of all those unattractive women who really weren't all that interesting. There were only 3 women there that actually had something of substance to discuss. The rest were boring AF lol.

 

[LiveYourDream]

This guy is a professional troll. Why does he bother posting the same garbage over and over again?

Every additional post by him, makes him look more and more like BigDave reincarnated.

 

[Billtx49]

This guy is a professional troll. Why does he bother posting the same garbage over and over again?

Temporary emotional boost, feeling intellectually superior, or online compassion from others are my best guesses. He’s a Bigdave replay…

 

[sangheilios]

Intimidation factor. Women who are attending these things are more than likely looking to settle down. You possibly looked too risky.

That's what I was thinking to be honest. I dressed like I normally do when I "go out", so last night was a black fitted t shirt that shows off my muscles/body, I was wearing a bit of cologne, boots, etc.

Probably perceived me to be a player, **** boy, etc.

 

[sangheilios]

Every additional post by him, makes him look more and more like BigDave reincarnated.

Except I'm actually going out and having these experiences that I write about on here lol.

 

[corrector]

Every additional post by him, makes him look more and more like BigDave reincarnated.

BigDave would not try speed dating. His pics are different too. He would not date single moms and complains about.the quality of women. This guy sounds more like a true incel.

 

[sazc]

Maybe you are so attractive you are intimidating. Them women feel like, "why waste my time trying, he's not going to be into me"?

 

[guru1000]

The women ranged from unattractive to average, no particularly attractive women at all.

Here was the problem.

And such reflected in your sub-communications. You are projecting aversion without being conscious of your projection. Vibe problem.

Change your intent "from wanting a hot girl to desire you--to--just enjoying the NOW with ANYONE," and your results will change with everyone.

 

[Trump]

Still, if that isn't the case this just proves my point......a 6'4", fit and attractive guy can't even land a match at a speed dating event with a bunch of unattractive women lol. I don't get it.

Anything over 6’3 women won’t choose at speed dating events.

 

[LiveYourDream]

This guy is a professional troll. Why does he bother posting the same garbage over and over again?

A person who actually spends their time contining to make this sh1t up, has issues WAY deeper, than the BigDave and other characters they present here as real. Beyond sad.

 

[sangheilios]

BigDave would not try speed dating. His pics are different too. He would not date single moms and complains about.the quality of women. This guy sounds more like a true incel.

Exactly lol. I've already got a 5 figure crypto portfiolio, my house is paid off and I'll be starting physical therapy school next year and have that lined up. My goal now is to keep improving with that stuff and just rely on high end escorts to satisfy my sexual needs. I already have friends, hobbies and all that so I don't really need a woman's companionship.

I actually know of someone who is hyper busy with his career, he travels a lot and makes tons of money and he pays for high end escorts as well. He's actually a pretty decent looking guy, but beyond that I only know about his career/financial situation and what he is like on a basic level, as he isn't a close friend of mine.

 

[sangheilios]

A person who actually spends their time contining to make this sh1t up, has issues WAY deeper, than the BigDave and other characters they present here as real. Beyond sad.

I actually did go to the speed dating event lol. I honestly went in there with no expectations and genuinely had a good time and thought it was an interesting experience.....but it just proves my point about women today.