Circumcision conversation

[Billtx49]

The last lady I was with was soaking wet, but after 30 minutes or so, she became dry and the latex bothered her. I am just saying, perhaps the lady Flow is having sex with has a latex allergy.

He didn’t state he was using protection…
The latex allergy scenario is unlikely as they have been in common use for decades without a mulitiude of problems that I’ve heard of, but think about this, she could be prematurely drying up if you go for 30 min., it’s probably a quite natural occurrence …

 

[flowtheory]

He didn’t state he was using protection…
The latex allergy scenario is unlikely as they have been in common use for decades without a mulitiude of problems that I’ve heard of, but think about this, she could be prematurely drying up if you go for 30 min., it’s probably a quite natural occurrence …

I think @sazc is right. She’s not taking responsibility for what’s going on with her and she’s blaming. Curious on how to correct it...

We don’t use condoms. Both been tested and she’s on the pill.

I believe she’s drying up because she’s not used to lengthy sex, and she’s getting in her head at points, but instead of taking recognizing it’s normal she’s saying imthe problem is my circumsiced penis.. creating problems where there are none

 

[Billtx49]

Curious on how to correct it...

I believe she’s drying up because she’s not used to lengthy sex

LUBE…

 

[flowtheory]

LUBE…

Yea this was my original suggestion, pretty simple and pragmatic.
But that’s when she went on about her thinking it’s the circumcision.. and how she never had this issue before with previous partners. She has preference for that.

 

[Billtx49]

Yea this was my original suggestion, pretty simple and pragmatic.
But that’s when she went on about her thinking it’s the circumcision.. and how she never had this issue before with previous partners. She has preference for that.

Then you’re on the way out if she claims you two are not sexually compatible which is basically what she’s doing …

 

[Serenity]

She had mentioned she starts to chafe after awhile on the second go around. We haven’t employed lube yet, but she mentioned it’s because I’m circumcised. And for irritation purposes and general satisfaction she prefers uncircumcised (it’s hell to hear).

What?! An extra flap of skin doesn't make a difference, this is all in her head. When I fvck with my uncircumcised d!ck I pull the skin back anyways, so it's basically identical to what a circumcised d!ck would be. Tell her there will be just as much area in friction regardless of foreskin, this is an objective truth.

It has nothing to do with your lack of skin and everything to do with lack of lube.

 

[Ranger]

I don’t buy the no oral thing. That’s usually always the first thing I get from a woman.

I didn’t get circumcised until I was 21. I was always getting urinary tract infections while in the field. Nothing like pissing razor blades.
The navy doctors on the assault ships get bored and you can get most anything done. So in a day and a half...all taken care of.

The difference between cut and uncut can be felt only by the man. She doesn’t want to give oral sex. She doesn’t like it?

 

[flowtheory]

I don’t buy the no oral thing. That’s usually always the first thing I get from a woman.

I didn’t get circumcised until I was 21. I was always getting urinary tract infections while in the field. Nothing like pissing razor blades.
The navy doctors on the assault ships get bored and you can get most anything done. So in a day and a half...all taken care of.

The difference between cut and uncut can be felt only by the man. She doesn’t want to give oral sex. She doesn’t like it.

She doesn’t want to give or receive oral because she believes it’s too intimate. And I think she may not have tons of experience or she could be self conscious. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to want to take it slow with oral until a person feels more intimate connected, even if you are d!cking them really good. She thinks it’s the most intimate thing. I can agree. She does have emotional intimacy issues, I can tell

 

[AttackFormation]

She doesn’t want to give or receive oral because she believes it’s too intimate. And I think she may not have tons of experience or she could be self conscious. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to want to take it slow with oral until a person feels more intimate connected, even if you are d!cking them really good. She thinks it’s the most intimate thing. I can agree. She does have emotional intimacy issues, I can tell

lol... weren't you the guy who some other chick told she was a virgin or whatever it was? I don't get how you guys eat this bullsh!t up. Or maybe I've mixed you up with someone else. I always laugh when guys come here saying some girl told them she.. hahaha, can't even write this without laughing... she's "inexperienced", "doesn't usually do this", "a virgin". Fvck off.

That girl has begged Tony to cvm on her face after he deep throated her when she asked him to come over for the night... it's just reality. "may not have tons of experience or could be self-conscious", LOL. You seem pretty naive from this and some other things in your posting history dude.

 

[flowtheory]

lol... weren't you the guy who some other chick told she was a virgin or whatever it was? I don't get how you guys eat this bullsh!t up. Or maybe I've mixed you up with someone else. I always laugh when guys come here saying some girl told them she.. hahaha, can't even write this without laughing... she's "inexperienced", "doesn't usually do this", "a virgin". Fvck off.

That girl has begged Tony to cvm on her face after he deep throated her when she asked him to come over for the night... it's just reality. "may not have tons of experience or could be self-conscious", LOL. You seem pretty naive from this and some other things in your posting history dude.

Yea that wasn’t me.

I wouldn’t say I’m niave. But I look at each situation individually.
I do believe she is telling me the truth in this area, as she does seem to have walls.

She never said she was self conscious, inexperienced, or any other; those are just things I have picked up through her talking and speaking in a sexual avenue. She simply mentioned it’s really intimate which is understandable. What’s the big deal? Not every woman is getting deep throated. Sex is different for every person.

 

[AttackFormation]

She simply mentioned it’s really intimate which is understandable. What’s the big deal? Not every woman is getting deep throated. Sex is different for every person.

You take what they say too sincerely and seriously. That'd have been a good trait if she reciprocated, but like LA85 says, unfortunately I think she's some kind of cluster b and she thinks she's found a target in you. I could be wrong but that's my bet. Had she just said that oral sex is too intimate, I wouldn't have believed she was being consistent with her past, but it would just have been a confused or insecure girl - no big deal. But the fact that not only is she denigrating you, but she's managed to make you think she's simply an "honest" person because of doing so and trying to hurt your ego... it's not looking good dude. This chick is a warning sign.

 

[Ranger]

She’s an idiot.

 

[flowtheory]

Had she just said that oral sex is too intimate, I wouldn't have believed she was being consistent with her past, but it would just have been a confused or insecure girl

What do you mean by consistent with her past?

 

[AttackFormation]

What do you mean by consistent with her past?

I mean that girls lie reflexively when they understate what they've done or are willing to do sexually. They've done it repeatedly for the right guy in the right mood. It's no big deal, just don't take their word for it when they say things like "it's too intimate". It just doesn't feel right to do with you.

 

[flowtheory]

When are you going to tell the full truth and nothing but the truth?

I know why you're hiding it, it's because if you did so then you would not be able to get the group to analyze every little issue piecemeal in a controlled environment, we would just latch onto the biggest red flag. I've done it in the past myself, but this counterproductive because you are just going to get inaccurate advice.

What are you talking about?

 

[Ranger]

I mean that girls lie reflexively when they understate what they've done or are willing to do sexually. They've done it repeatedly for the right guy in the right mood. It's no big deal, just don't take their word for it when they say things like "it's too intimate". It just doesn't feel right to do with you.

Not buying the “It’s too intimate” garbage. Im not fooled.

 

[Ranger]

What are you talking about?

He’s saying that you are leaving out things. That it could be that we would jump on the red flags

 

[flowtheory]

I mean that girls lie reflexively when they understate what they've done or are willing to do sexually. They've done it repeatedly for the right guy in the right mood. It's no big deal, just don't take their word for it when they say things like "it's too intimate". It just doesn't feel right to do with you.

Maybe.. she’s told me she has done it. And wants to. She’s just saying it’s too intimate too soon. Which other women I’ve asked of my friends have agreed with. Many think oral is way more intimate than sex

 

[Ranger]

Maybe.. she’s told me she has done it. And wants to. She’s just saying it’s too intimate too soon. Which other women I’ve asked of my friends have agreed with. Many think oral is way more intimate than sex

And yet they don’t count oral sex as having sex and it doesn’t contribute to their number.
Those girls are blowing smoke up your a$$.

 

[flowtheory]

He’s saying that you are leaving out things. That it could be that we would jump on the red flags

Sometimes I can’t get fully erect with her. Or I’ll lose my erections before penetration. It’s creating some issues which may play in to this