Shouldn't it be easier for you though? An ex(NPD but some truth to it) told me essentially that intellectual men are easily replaceable.
I don't view myself as easily replaceable even in that sphere but as a general rule yeah sure they are. Thats why I have so many intellectual male friends and so few women (though more than most).
It not easier. I realize that y'all think we have it made, that men are plentiful, but quality intellectual men are not plentiful.
Mediocre men, (apartment dwellers/renters with no retirement, who don't see their kids and blame their ex, yet they act like they are Chad) got those a dime a dozen.
Men with their sh1t together, financially, intellectually, emotionally - very rare.
It is what it is.