Amante and Guru

[guru1000]

Sure, there are a disproportionate number of 9-10 men online compared to women, therefore they fvck down. Basic supply and demand. The women that love to date me (a 7) from real life are matching with male models online, that simple. They like me for my traits other than looks, which aren't on display on OLD.

Dave doesn't seem to understand that top tier men view OLD as a hooker website. A 9 guy will bang out a 7 because she will lay quickly with no effort and because she is a different piece of azz--and then dismiss her without reason. So now her ego believes she is entitled to a 9 guy when her value is much lower. That's OLD.

Dave, Adapt or Surrender.

 

[sazc]

I thought you were going away permanently?

 

[bigdave17]

@bigdave17, as well everyone else here, well mostly everyone else, the problem is you; not the women or OLD. You are creating this unnecessary drama that only hinders your ability to adapt, not help. READ AND DIGEST WHAT EVERYONE HERE IS TYPING.

LAraider is only one here telling the truth that online dating is ridiculously one sided/rigged against men.

 

[Glassguy]

my pics on photofeeler- set to women under 34 only can vote all rated between 6.5 at bottom to 9/10 at top

I'm atrociously unphotogenic. At least a dozen people have said i look much better in real life than photos. If you think I'm a 6, you're insane. If you think I'm going for 9s, you're super insane

Who gives a fvck about Photofeeler? Is that you Big Neal? All hung up on your Photofeeler ratings?

Let me save you some time- Photofeeler doesnt get you laid. Going out with the goal of just socializing and having fun, grabbing a chick's number here and there, messaging her a few days later so you dont act like a thirsty dude and getting them out on dates.

That is what gets you laid. What part of this are you missing?

Get off OLD since your ego obviously cannot take the rejection you're getting on there and just go hang out with some people in your social circle. If you dont have a social circle, that is the first stop to social success.

Pro tip- Social success is the best way to get chicks.

 

[R.U.G.]

bro all you have with online dating is pics and profile. I have a good profile and good pics...still doesn't seem to be enough

Not sure. Again, post your profile and post your messages and we can see what you are doing. @sazc had made some points on Bumble. Try that out and just because they swiped on you, doesn't mean you have to go out with them. Use it for practice to hone in on your game.

 

[bigdave17]

Dave doesn't seem to understand that top tier men view OLD as a hooker website. A 9 guy will bang out a 7 because she will lay quickly with no effort and because she is a different piece of azz--and then dismiss her without reason. So now her ego believes she is entitled to a 9 guy when her value is much lower. That's OLD.

Dave, Adapt or Surrender.

what's the solution? If i get super lean, I can probably top out at maybe a 7.5 to 8ish range. I'm never going to be a 9/10

basically it sounds like you recommend just giving up

 

[Glassguy]

100% sold that Big Dave is Big Neal.

I wonder if he is still getting cucked by the 19 year olds that are pale looking models that he believes actually want him in his fantasy world?

 

[R.U.G.]

LAraider is only one here telling the truth that online dating is ridiculously one sided/rigged against men.

No, we all said that. @LARaiders85 made some good points. You are not seeing through your own BS. We've all been there bro. You are just too stubborn to see through the trees.

 

[guru1000]

what's the solution? If i get super lean, I can probably top out at maybe a 7.5 to 8ish range. I'm never going to be a 9/10

basically it sounds like you recommend just giving up and trying real life dating.

If you want my help, show me the 10 girls you have messaged.

 

[bigdave17]

Who gives a fvck about Photofeeler? Is that you Big Neal? All hung up on your Photofeeler ratings?

Let me save you some time- Photofeeler doesnt get you laid. Going out with the goal of just socializing and having fun, grabbing a chick's number here and there, messaging her a few days later so you dont act like a thirsty dude and getting them out on dates.

That is what gets you laid. What part of this are you missing?

Get off OLD since your ego obviously cannot take the rejection you're getting on there and just go hang out with some people in your social circle. If you dont have a social circle, that is the first stop to social success.

Pro tip- Social success is the best way to get chicks.

I make friends everywhere I go. Nobody knows any quality single women

I have to randomly approach, which is crazy hard.

 

[Ranger]

Someone send me a reasonably good profile narrative please. I want to see what Dave is claiming.

 

[R.U.G.]

I think SS admin's should give an award to Big Dave for starting the longest and most redundant topics in regard to the same question and struggles he's experiencing for over a year on SS.

 

[sazc]

Not sure. Again, post your profile and post your messages and we can see what you are doing. @sazc had made some points on Bumble. Try that out and just because they swiped on you, doesn't mean you have to go out with them. Use it for practice to hone in on your game.

The nice thing about bumble is that, once you Swype right on a chick, she WILL be presented with your profile to ponder.

Similarly, if a chick swypes right on you, you WILL be presented with her profile to ponder.

That's not to say that all profiles you are presented with are ppl who have swyped right in you, but it does get you in the game a little more.

I will Swype right on a profile, not get a match, and then an hour later the same guy is in my inbox expressing interest. It seems as if, once I expressed initial interest, that was enough for him to reciprocate.

 

[Glassguy]

basically it sounds like you recommend just giving up and trying real life dating.

Thats the point everyone is making here Neal. I mean Dave. lol.

You have a ego as strong as 1/64" glass. Stay off of OLD because if you arent in the top 5% you arent getting any action. OLD is one sided. The chicks who are 5's think they can get 8's simply because the 8's just want them for a piece of @ss here and there and they dont understand that the guy who is an 8 is never going to be seen in public with them. Its all smoke and mirrors yet the chicks on there are overvaluing themselves.

Is this that hard to comprehend? This forum is littered with OLD threads. Go away and read some more. Check back in another month.

 

[bigdave17]

No, we all said that. @LARaiders85 made some good points. You are not seeing through your own BS. We've all been there bro. You are just too stubborn to see through the trees.

no matter how much I looksmax, I'll never be above a 7.5 to 8...which sounds like is not enough

So all you guys are recommending to me is to completely give up

 

[sazc]

Someone send me a reasonably good profile narrative please. I want to see what Dave is claiming.

No offense but amantes OLD profile narrative wouldn't work for you. The narrative doesn't match the picture you present here. I'm wondering if the same is happening with Dave.

 

[Glassguy]

I have to randomly approach, which is crazy hard.

Please show me someone on here that thinks this is super easy. I will wait.

Answer- nobody does. But once you do it enough as in "just being friendly" and socializing it becomes natural, regardless of if the chick is a 6 or a 9.

You need to work on your own ability to handle rejection before you can do anything.

 

[bigdave17]

The nice thing about bumble is that, once you Swype right on a chick, she WILL be presented with your profile to ponder.

Similarly, if a chick swypes right on you, you WILL be presented with her profile to ponder.

That's not to say that all profiles you are presented with are ppl who have swyped right in you, but it does get you in the game a little more.

I will Swype right on a profile, not get a match, and then an hour later the same guy is in my inbox expressing interest. It seems as if, once I expressed initial interest, that was enough for him to reciprocate.

7/10 women on bumble in mid 20s are looking for 10/10 men

your experience is worthless. Females play dating game on retarded easy mode

 

[sazc]

Please show me someone on here that thinks this is super easy. I will wait.

Answer- nobody does. But once you do it enough as in "just being friendly" and socializing it becomes natural, regardless of if the chick is a 6 or a 9.

You need to work on your own ability to handle rejection before you can do anything.

No one here thinks cold approach is easy.

As a female I WISH men would cold airsick more often - at least TRY to small talk to feel it out

 

[Ranger]

No offense but amantes old profile narrative wouldn't work for you. The narrative doesn't match the picture you present here. I'm wondering if the same is happening with Dave.

Possibly. I’m not offended at all. I’m just not buying all this.
I have plenty of pictures. That one is from a mancamp on the north slope of Alaska. I do have nice suits. Lol
I look good in one.