@guru1000 I think I follow what you are saying. Recognize the true intent behind the words "she desires me in an extreme manner" and that will empower you to reply in kind.
I fully support what you are saying. In fact, I think that it's the best explanation of this situation that I've ever heard. I urge you to start a thread on this topic as I feel you (and a few others) are best equipped to give real world guidance on the topic.
That said, from what I am understanding, the members find themselves in situations where the female is imposing extreme feelings on them, sometimes even telling them "I love you", and the timing is just not there for the member to reply in kind BUT they recognize that this is a delicate, Make It or break It moment, and need to understand how to reply, affirming but not committing, so as not to break the moment.
Any phrases, responses, guidance, etc you can offer there?
Again, I urge you to start a thread as this response will get buried and it's an important dynamic to cover.
Graz