I'm confused and don't know what to do. I have never been in a long term relationship.
I talked to a girl that I like a lot at my college, I simply showed interest in knowing her and she immediately liked me, to be clear none of us told each other we love each other or how we feel to one another, but the signs are clear that she's into me since she likes getting near me, the way she talks and her fake laugh at my ****ty jokes.
I started vetting her through social media and observing her from distances, it turns out she has a boyfriend, I indirectly asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no.
She tries to hide the fact that she has a boyfriend in some certain situation, such as, when some friends near us ask her what her relationship is with this guy she tries to avoid the question or simply says nothing, so I won't know about it.
She told me if we can go hang out together like watch a movie or something. I said yes, but days passed and I never did, we haven't talked much recently.
They are still together. I am more attractive than her boyfriend, but I'm also a boring person that has some loose screws. She's the shy type of girl, she doesn't seem to have many friends either.
I am afraid if I tell her to break up with her boyfriend for me she might regret it later. What if things don't work out with me and her then I'd feel guilty for ruining her relationship with the previous guy.
