MoreThanSmooth
Master Don Juan
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Dave you're still not seeing the problem, dude.I don't believe I deserve a hot GF so I act congruent to that and women smell it instantly. Today I was making friends with exactly what I want in a girlfriend - a good looking, young, smart, successful, jacked middle eastern dude in awesome shape. If the male version of that wants to be best friends with me, then the female version of that will want to date me if I'm being the best version of myself... which means I clearly am not.
1. All of your threads...ALL of them...you're saying "I deserve the best GF ever". Your first sentence is a delusional OPPOSITE of what your problem is. Your problem is over analysing, overvaluing yourself and undervaluing the women around you. Your problem is in this paragraph, not the one you've written. Stop listening to yourself and read this bulletpoint.
2. A smart, successful, good looking Middle Eastern man wanting to be friends with you is completely different to the female equivalent wanting to date you. A friendship with someone of a gender you're not attracted to is completely different to interacting with someone in a sexual or romantic way.
I'm betting you could be friends with a whole bunch of attractive Middle Eastern women, in the same way you've been friends with that guy. That's a completely different ballgame to dating or having sex with these women. They're not the same thing, don't conflate them in your mind or you'll get friend-zoned forever.
Look at the contradiction in your own posts below.
hhhmmm I'm very strong in all areas - looks, money and genuinely being a very good loving, honest, loyal person
"I'm crazy harsh on myself" --> "I'm the best guy ever, I'm 10/10, I'm very strong in all areas" --> "I'm not the best guy" --> "I'm harsh on myself" --> "I'm 10/10".I'm crazy harsh on myself
This is self-delusion mate. You're not being harsh on yourself, you're sucking your own d*ck. You're being harsh on your failure with women (because they don't want to date a man who sucks his own d*ck constantly, but you don't realise that). And then you're repeating the cycle.
Not just toxic, self delusional. You see yourself as perfect, but since the women you want don't date you, reality shatters your illusion. But your ego won't let you accept that reality, so you come on here and make a thread on it, ignoring the problem completely.I have some really toxic thinking patterns
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