Its so frustrating how I can't get my true looks to show in pics

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narcissism? women have called me "beautiful" in real life. How often does that happen to you?

delusional standards? I just want a 7/10 with a nice body. When did I ask for a supermodel?
You can't want a girlfriend though. The mindset is the opposite of abundance it's needy .
 

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I don't think he can. My friends who are 9/10 can't even afford to be as picky as he is. I have similar stats to him and I think I've hooked up with 2 women that fit his description based on social scene luck, and would never ever happen online. An 8/10 online is a 6/10 online.
please someone explain to me how what I'm asking for is so unreasonable

I'm not a fat guy asking for a hottie. I'm good looking, in good shape and dress very nice. I'm asking for a 7 with a nice body, not a 10

my preference for an ethnic woman should make things easier. White women have the highest sexual market value in our society

I'm 29 - perfect age - and I want mid to late 20s. Im not a 40 year old looking for a 22 year old

I'm extremely successful/accomplished/driven and i just want a woman who is sorta smart and can take care of herself financially. I'm not asking for anybody who makes even half my income

Where is the disconnect between what I'm asking for and what i am offering?
 

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I was at a bar last night and this older woman was out with her friends and she literally said i was "totally beautiful "
You've posted similar comments before. Why are these women always calling you "beautiful" instead of something more masculine, like "handsome"? Seems kind of odd, because "beautiful" is usually something a woman is called.
 

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You've posted similar comments before. Why are these women always calling you "beautiful" instead of something more masculine, like "handsome"? Seems kind of odd, because "beautiful" is usually something a woman is called.
I have people who call me very handsome all the time also


I'm not sure why I get called "beautiful" so often. I have some naturally very pretty facial features (eyes, eyelashes, lips, etc...) but I also have a very strong jawline/chin, dark features, thick eyebrows, etc... Honestly I don't know. I feel like I'm mostly very masculine looking
 

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You also have demands about it ethnicity and that they must come from OLD you liar. Get it through your head: 7/10 woman on OLD matches with 9-10/10. 8/10 man matches with 5-6/10 on OLD.

Preferring black/asian/latin/middle eastern should make the dating game a lot easier for me dude. White women have the highest sexual market value in the world


and I don't agree with what you said. My friend who looks like a 7.5-8 in pics found a 8/10 GF online... and he is 5'5. You can get quality women being about an 8/10 online. My problem is I look like a 5-6.5 in pics


edit: no 8/10 dude is settling for a 5 online, you're drunk. Maybe just to smash but my 8/10 buddy wouldn't even date a 6-7 online he told me.
 

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This is getting a little off topic, but I notice that as an old person, almost everybody young starts to look good.
Most young people who put in a significant amount of effort to look good will look good at a young age, I totally agree

The biggest thing for me is I have fantastic skin genetics. I have very thick, Mediterranean, oily complexion. The men in my family have smooth, youthful looking skin all the way until they die. My uncle in his mid 50s looks better and more youthful than most white men I see who are 40
 

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I have the perfect babe for you.

However, she might think you are gay.

You are too infatuated with yourself.

Anyway, you are a troll and even if you are not. The key to getting what you want is to stop caring about "how other perceive you"

You reek neediness and approval. It's a big turn off.

A tip: stop looking at yourself in the mirror and look at how people perceive you
 

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The biggest thing for me is I have fantastic skin genetics. I have very thick, Mediterranean, oily complexion. The men in my family have smooth, youthful looking skin all the way until they die. My uncle in his mid 50s looks better and more youthful than most white men I see who are 40
Sounds like you should age well then. :up:
 

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Yeah, foregoing the largest ethnicity will help you, like it has so far.
ethnic women have lower sexual market value than white women do. Why would that hurt me?


Idgaf about once in a blue moon. The majority of our experiences say what I'm saying. Didn't you go to college and take basic statistics?
What 8/10 guy is settling for a 5/10 online?

8/10 guys are top 10% of society. Why would they settle for average?
 

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you don't think Asian/Black/Middle eastern women inherently have lower dating market value than white women do? What does our society pound in our heads 24-7? White is beautiful and white is the best race.


and I haven't tried online dating in about 10 years. You're telling me you're an 8/10 and you only get 5s on dating sites like match/eharmony/etc...??
 

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I still say your biggest problem is your mental health issues
 

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you don't think Asian/Black/Middle eastern women inherently have lower dating market value than white women do? What does our society pound in our heads 24-7? White is beautiful and white is the best race.


and I haven't tried online dating in about 10 years. You're telling me you're an 8/10 and you only get 5s on dating sites like match/eharmony/etc...??
Dave, I couldn't imagine any black women talking to you. And if they do they will probably be gold diggers

I mean sure they sometimes date white guys, but most of them don't like guys that look like you
 

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Dave, I couldn't imagine any black women talking to you. And if they do they will probably be gold diggers

I mean sure they sometimes date white guys, but most of them don't like guys that look like you
Even on the Latino side he could do good in there but if he's not part of the culture hell only attract gold digger .
 

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you don't think Asian/Black/Middle eastern women inherently have lower dating market value than white women do? What does our society pound in our heads 24-7? White is beautiful and white is the best race.


and I haven't tried online dating in about 10 years. You're telling me you're an 8/10 and you only get 5s on dating sites like match/eharmony/etc...??
Why do you care? Get I .where you fit in and start fvcking the pvssy that you already have available.
 

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Dave, I couldn't imagine any black women talking to you. And if they do they will probably be gold diggers

I mean sure they sometimes date white guys, but most of them don't like guys that look like you
Are you drunk? You don't think Black women like good looking Spanish guys? I basically look Spanish/Greek

and I only like light skin/mixed black women who are similar shade in terms of their skin color to mine. I am not going to date the dark skinned ones

Black women have the lowest standards of any race just FYI. On dating sites, they have a very high response rate no matter who messages them
 

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Even on the Latino side he could do good in there but if he's not part of the culture hell only attract gold digger .
Latin women always think I'm gorgeous

The problem there is finding one who is 27 without 2 kids already. Good lord, I've met so many hot Latin women who were crazy about me but they all had kids
 

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Are you drunk? You don't think Black women like good looking Spanish guys? I basically look Spanish/Greek

and I only like light skin/mixed black women who are similar shade in terms of their skin color to mine. I am not going to date the dark skinned ones

Black women have the lowest standards of any race just FYI. On dating sites, they have a very high response rate no matter who messages them
No, most black women aren't attracted to hispanic guys

I'm not gonna get into it with you about the other stuff you said, because it was ignorant
 

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Latin women always think I'm gorgeous

The problem there is finding one who is 27 without 2 kids already. Good lord, I've met so many hot Latin women who were crazy about me but they all had kids
Have sex with them. You don't have to be their husband . You can be a good friend with benefits.

The "sniper" find a girlfriend approach has been tried before, it fails badly and creates a "needy" image.

Be a man and start fvcking .
 
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