In "game" and attraction. Bigdave17 needs to take the "money" ( puzsy, affirmation, favor ) from the babes that want him to have it. They will feed him abundance . And allow him into an Alpha "the man" alignment. Their money isn't necessarily any less valuable than the SNOB crowd he's trying to penetrate. But if he keeps bumping his head against the SNOB crowd he can blissfully and blindly relish in the fact he was right, you have to be a "9.99" with $500+k a year to get any babes . The SNOB crowd will never give him abundance, hardly crumbs . And if it does it will be after he's accumulated enough from those who want to be generous to him.