Told her to cut the crap

[flowtheory]

I'd just make it a: "Guess you're not interested in hanging out this weekend? See ya" and make that the end of it.

Don’t ever say that.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Don’t ever say that.

Lol it did sound a bit p*ssy actually didn't it? I've had a beer tonight XD

 

[soulforge]

I agree with the others. Her interest level is low. The only possible thing you can do is no contact. Then she may contact you at which time you ignore her for a day or two but not too long. Then answer if you want and immediately try to setup a meet and try to get a quick lay. There is a point in which you can capitalize on a woman’s natural instinct to valdate where she stands with you. Her IL may be low but you may get that one last opportunity to get her in person, get a few drinks in her, and go for for the lay while she seeks validation that you still want her..

Are there no more woman left in the world, op can invest his time in instead?

Why one more desperate attempt to try to get inside her VAG?

Most IMPORTANTLY the girl thinks of OP less than a dog, and does not even feel he is WORTHY of even a reply from a text message.. Why would a man of VALUE still want to try AGAIN to bang a chick like that?

Have some self respect and dignity... and move onto woman who treat you better!!
.

 

[flowtheory]

Lol it did sound a bit p*ssy actually didn't it? I've had a beer tonight XD

A beer.

Don’t go for drinks on your first dates; otherwise you’re doomed! Haha

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

A beer.

Don’t go for drinks on your first dates; otherwise you’re doomed! Haha

Preaching to the choir here. I barely drank in college and so my alcohol tolerance varies enormously. I kid you not, I weigh 17 stone and a f*cking half pint can knock me on my ass for about 30 mins if I haven't eaten first...

 

[flowtheory]

Preaching to the choir here. I barely drank in college and so my alcohol tolerance varies enormously. I kid you not, I weigh 17 stone and a f*cking half pint can knock me on my ass for about 30 mins if I haven't eaten first...

Haha yea same. I never drink, really. Only 5oz a red wine every night; and I do it for health purposes. Drinking alcohol is really just poisoning the body.

 

[Reykhel]

I never drink, really. Only 5oz a red wine every night; and I do it for health purposes

@MoreThanSmooth sounds like nana from the Royle family, don't you think?

 

[Roober]

If there is one thing the op can learn from this thread...

Talk is cheap, you always judge a woman by her actions!

Not her past actions
Not her promised actions
Not her kind or thoughtful words (which are often sincere)

She was likely legitimately sorry for not responding, but she still has no interest in you. If you are on her radar, she will make time to come see you. Therefore, calling her out is completely pointless. Just make it clear that you want to get together, and ignore anything that doesn't lead toward that. She has wasted far too much of your time.

 

[ZaCool]

If a girl really valued you and REALLY wanted to be around you, would she just ingonre your text?

It's very clear bruv, you are not at the forefront of her mind, she is not INTERESTED

You should not be calling her out, because she IGNORES your text..

Here is what you should do.. move the fuk on..

Let her make the effort to talk to you, and if she doesn't, WHO CARES, find another girl.

You are not even banging chick, why waste anymore time on her!!

she does talk to me, she reaches out at least once a week to say hi and ask to meet me ,and just a couple days ago she messaged me saying she wanted to meet, the thing is she ignored two of my texts, and iam not buying the "iam busy" excuse, i know she has a bf, a serious bf maybe even a fiance and i asked her once whose that dude and she said its nothing to worry about ... either way i dont really care about him.

if a girl texts me and wants to meet the least she can do is answer back when i text her but no thats too much work and shes "busy" well good, now she can be as busy as she wants

 

[ZaCool]

You really shouldn't let what other people do... or don't do get to you that much. Gives them too much power over your happiness and well being. I really don't care if chicks drift in and out... so what. It happens to me all the time. If a chick comes back... just ask her out.

In the text interaction the OP posted he initiated.... what she was really thinking in parentheses.

Me : hey
Her : (Oh boy... him again) hey
Me : what happened ?
Her : (Oh Jesus.. what a butt hurt pvssy.) what do you mean, what happened ?
Me : you message and text me then go silent and wont even answer back

Her : (This dumb @ss can't take a hint) i really didnt mean too iam very sorry , its just that iam kinda busy sometimes forget to check my phone its not on purpose iam really sorry (There I apologized... for what that is worth... maybe after giving him this lame @ss excuse he will finally take the hint)

Me : you sure its not on purpose ? Cause i cant bring myself to talk to someone who avoids talking to me and this is the last time i bring this up .

Her : (OH God! Another one of those.. other apology should do the trick) .... iam really sorry didnt mean to do any of that
Me : ok
Her : iam very sorry (Yea, I'm really sorry you dry me up like the Gobi Desert)

wrong, a day before that she messaged me saying she wanted to meet me, dont assume stuff and act like some casanova , you have no right to judge anyone so stfu

 

[ZaCool]

There can be a catharsis to calling a girl on her s**t. But normally in this case I'd just make it a: "Guess you're not interested in hanging out this weekend? See ya" and make that the end of it.

In some cases putting your foot down like this can get her to stop f*cking around and give you more attention. It's kind of a sh*t test for her. If she's flippant you know she's messing you about, if she's more sincere in her response it may well be just because she was busy.

No need to NEXT a girl before you establish whether she's jacking you about. But at the same time, no need to chase a girl like that either. Move on at the drop of a hat while she's playing these games.

most guys on this site arent even close to being wanted by women which is why they lose hope so fast and resort to tricks, me and my friends are good looking, not trying to look cool but we are and telling a woman to cut the crap and stop playing games works with us 9/10 times , guys on this site will never dare to do this because all they have in mind " i need more game, this is not enough" of course its not enough fi she doesnt find you hot, but when does find you hot and she actually is making an effort to be with you behind her bfs back you can be sure that when you tell her to cut the crap she will comply and start acting differently, no need for games , no need for acting a certain way or gaming women, simply tell them if they are not willing to show you where they stand with you then fvck it its over between you, this is how you use what you've got and communicate value .

just look at the responses i got most of them are racing to call me names and insult me, they dont know the whole story and literally know nothing, sh*t the chick apologized like 5 times in a matter of 2 mins, she could've said sorry once just made up some lame excuse , low interest level ? i doubt , after all i know her better than any of them and i know when the interest level is low shes not my first woman ..... now does that mean iam contacting her ? no its her time to try, my message was clear, this is the last time i ever bring up her playing games and acting like that which means next time its over, will she text me ? idk, not really counting on that, do i care ? no not really i made my point clear now its her turn to either accept my terms or decide she cant accept that , is she the one in power ? no not really iam not investing anything in her, the entire convo took less than 10 mins.

An attractive mans game is simple, be genuine and real, of course this advice will not work for 90% of the members on this site cause they are not really attractive, average or slightly above, they need game which is fine it doesnt bother me, but what does is when they try to shame someone for doing what works for him .... i do fully agree with you on the sh*T test part, women do it so why cant men ? i've known this girl for half a year, went out with her once, she messages me at least 3 times a month to meet face to face on campus and no matter how long i dont talk to her she is alwys smiling when she sees me and is really nice, for most men thats a great situation for me its lacking cause she didnt answer two of my texts, for me thats a line she shouldnt be thinking about crossing, iam not an after thought i dont mind not being the main guy, in fact i dont really want to but when i text she answers plain and simple .

 

[stovepipe]

Lol it did sound a bit p*ssy actually didn't it? I've had a beer tonight XD

You ain't fooling anyone in trying to manipulate us in believing one beer made you expose your true beta side.

Change your name to "NotSoSmooth"

 

[RedScorpion]

i know she has a bf, a serious bf maybe even a fiance and i asked her once whose that dude and she said its nothing to worry about ...

I'd say this changes the whole dynamic quite a bit. You're trying to game a girl that's supposedly in a relationship, and she's being all over the place. No wonder. I'd say she's using you for a nice ego boost. You can ask Trump (the user here) on how well that can go. He was banging her on the side even, and she eventually cut out him out (out of guilt or whatever). As far as I know, he handled the situation as cool as possible. So I don't think he 'messed up' persay, rather that was just how it ran its course. But yeah.

Regardless, all you have to do is look at her actions. You said she's being non-responsive to your texts. I think you already know how to handle it/how you want to handle it. Plus I'd say she doesn't have too much respect for others anyway, if she's blowing off her serious bf as just nothing to worry about.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

You ain't fooling anyone in trying to manipulate us in believing one beer made you expose your true beta side.

Change your name to "NotSoSmooth"

Is this the most moronic MachoAlpha e-thug horsesh*t post I've ever seen on this site? Probably.

The guys here that name themselves BigD*ckGraham69Flawless_P*ssySlayer69xXx and spend all their time making posts like this hating on people for being "beta" are usually the biggest insecure p*ssies in reality.

I'm getting tired of seeing posters put up this stuff as if they're f*cking golden balls, turning what should be reasonable discussion into a macho circlej*rk.

I'm not flawless, I'm not even a p*ssy magnet at the moment. I'll admit that. I'm here to learn, and help others where I can. I don't make up fake stories where I seduce 2,000 hotties at a bar every night, and I don't "manipulate" people, as you ridiculously said.

I just talk honestly. Some of my advice is good, some isn't.

So if you're going to be a d*ck, you can quit j*rking yourself off in front of everyone and stick the attitude up your "stovepipe".

 

[stovepipe]

Is this the most moronic MachoAlpha e-thug horsesh*t post I've ever seen on this site? Probably.

The guys here that name themselves BigD*ckGraham69Flawless_P*ssySlayer69xXx and spend all their time making posts like this hating on people for being "beta" are usually the biggest insecure p*ssies in reality.

I'm getting tired of seeing posters put up this stuff as if they're f*cking golden balls, turning what should be reasonable discussion into a macho circlej*rk.

I'm not flawless, I'm not even a p*ssy magnet at the moment. I'll admit that. I'm here to learn, and help others where I can. I don't make up fake stories where I seduce 2,000 hotties at a bar every night, and I don't "manipulate" people, as you ridiculously said.

I just talk honestly. Some of my advice is good, some isn't.

So if you're going to be a d*ck, you can quit j*rking yourself off in front of everyone and stick the attitude up your "stovepipe".

Lol someones triggered

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Lol someones triggered

Not at all, just sick of seeing mindless attacks on posters for "weakness" just because they don't lie about their prowess with women to conform to XXXALPHAXXX_PRO_PUA_XXXALPHAXXX bulls**t.

It's that stupid attitude that means men have the highest suicide rate. Because these "tough guys" are actually built mentally like a house of cards and point out the supposed "Beta" flaws of others to distract from their own crippling fragility half of the time.

But life's too short, I've already dealt with RichardTheFrog tonight so maybe we can just shake hands and call it a day on the f*cking bullsh*t?

On that note, good night

 

[Reykhel]

Lol

Only beta males and teenage girls use "lol"

someones triggered

Only women use the triggered comeback (a form of the "charge of irascibility")

See, we can all do it.......does that make me alpha now cause i called him beta.......eeeeehhmm no.

 

[RangerMIke]

wrong, a day before that she messaged me saying she wanted to meet me, dont assume stuff and act like some casanova , you have no right to judge anyone so stfu

Again... don't be so sensitive and butt hurt... you are acting like a chick. The text you posted started with you texting 'hey'. Sorry I can't read your mind. If you don't want people making assumptions... tough guy... then don't leave room for interpretation.

 

[Fireballs]

Even though there is a time and place to call women out on their sh!t, they will ALWAYS rationalise it to be your fault.

 

[Reykhel]

Again... don't be so sensitive and butt hurt

this reply made me chuckle a little.....pot? kettle? A bit of projection going on here......

you are acting like a chick.

Stop the lights.

tough guy

Says Steven Seagal. Little on the reactionary side.

Give the kid a break, he's standing up for himself.

then don't leave room for interpretation

I got what he meant......looks like you were all jumping on the same bandwagon

Anyway, carry on........just a funny reply displayinig a little projection.