Told her to cut the crap

[ZaCool]

This girl whom ive knwon for months and went out with acts hot and cold, dissappears for a while then messages me sahing she thinks about me and wanna see me (usually meet her on campus) .....a couple weeks later she messaged me and asked where i was amd 15 mins later she showed up and sat with me for an hour or so.... i wasnt happy and she couls tell i told her wheres shes been all this time and her response was " sorry was busy with work and school and general stuff " ..... i didnt buy any of that .

Iam aware she may want an orbiter or just some emotional action not a physical and iam not interested in either .... of course the right move is to move on and find other chicks (which i did) but she messages me sometimes then goes silent and wont even answer back , so a couple days ago i sent a messgae and this is how it went down :

Me : hey
Her : hey
Me : what happened ?
Her : what do you mean, what happened ?
Me : you message and text me then go silent and wont even answer back

Her : i really didnt mean too iam very sorry , its just that iam kinda busy sometimes forget to check my phone its not on purpose iam really sorry

Me : you sure its not on purpose ? Cause i cant bring myself to talk to someone who avoids talking to me and this is the last time i bring this up .

Her : iam really sorry didnt mean to do any of that
Me : ok
Her : iam very sorry

I didnt even bother to answer back ... i hate when a girl acts like shes so smart and in control when in fact iam this close to dropoing her iam not even expecting to hear from her and couldnt care less my goal was to call her out on her crap nothing more nothing less .

 

[sosousage]

Tell her that you are nice at ping pong and move on. You wont get laid with her (probably)

 

[soulforge]

If a girl really valued you and REALLY wanted to be around you, would she just ingonre your text?

It's very clear bruv, you are not at the forefront of her mind, she is not INTERESTED

You should not be calling her out, because she IGNORES your text..

Here is what you should do.. move the fuk on..

Let her make the effort to talk to you, and if she doesn't, WHO CARES, find another girl.

You are not even banging chick, why waste anymore time on her!!

 

[Aspire]

She did not check her phone? Yea right! In this age of cell phones everyone is glued to their phones. She was looking into other guys and using you as a plan b or c. I actually did this with a woman once (and shouldn’t have). After 2 dates. I neglected her for several months before calling her. When she asked what I was looking for and if marriage was in one of my goals, we decided to end it.

 

[Tilex]

You need to tell her she needs to check herself before she wrecks herself.

 

[wifehunter]

bad behavior gets a spanking...just, not from me. Oh, well.

 

[marmel75]

You need to tell her she needs to check herself before she wrecks herself.

She already knows "Big D!cks in her ass are bad for her health" tho because she has likely been doing a lot of practicing with them...

Just not OP's D!ck, which is why he is so upset.

OP sounds like he is about to sing the other verse to her..."Cause shotgun bullets are bad for yo health."

OP trying to do a Dub one eight Remix hahaha...should have went with the Nine-Trey remix with Das EFX instead

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She already knows "Big D!cks in her ass are bad for her health" tho because she has likely been doing a lot of practicing with them...

Just not OP's D!ck, which is why he is so upset.

OP sounds like he is about to sing the other verse to her..."Cause shotgun bullets are bad for yo health."

OP trying to do a 2018 Remix hahaha...should have went with the Nine-Trey remix with Das EFX instead

But she told him she tried anal but doesn't like it at all .

 

[logicallefty]

I agree with the others. Her interest level is low. The only possible thing you can do is no contact. Then she may contact you at which time you ignore her for a day or two but not too long. Then answer if you want and immediately try to setup a meet and try to get a quick lay. There is a point in which you can capitalize on a woman’s natural instinct to valdate where she stands with you. Her IL may be low but you may get that one last opportunity to get her in person, get a few drinks in her, and go for for the lay while she seeks validation that you still want her..

 

[marmel75]

But she told him she tried anal but doesn't like it at all .

Hahaha...sure...sure she doesnt like it...ive heard it all before

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I didnt even bother to answer back ... i hate when a girl acts like shes so smart and in control when in fact iam this close to dropoing her iam not even expecting to hear from her and couldnt care less my goal was to call her out on her crap nothing more nothing less .

Radio silence ftw!

Look, if she acts like a child, treat her accordingly. Grow distant and remote when. Hit/cold? Withdraw. If she comes over or out with a toxic mood, send her home.

I run a tight ship. My place of residency is a toxic free area zone. If a woman has a ****ty attitude out, I leave. If she brings a toxic or combative demeanor to my house, she is shown the door. I simply set boundaries. I could give a **** what society or what pc culture pushes.

IT DOESN'T WORK.

My advice fails to work once A) you get married B) Have a live on gf C) Have children. Why? Because in said predicaments, you have in fact brought the state into your LTR, and worse, played into the female biological strategy disguised as 'MAN(ING) UP.' It is not. It's not as if you can have your masculinity card checked because you followed the beaten path. You seeker out and acquired the woman's validation and approval. With that said, I don't play those games.

You did right as I said with the freeze out. With radio silence but, you failed at Being overly invested. I don't fix what's broken. I just go get Baes. Note pleural. Not singular.


Op, the best gift you can give a woman is your absence. If she's being a ****, start your disappearing act. Set the pace day one. Not in the mood? So be it BUT SOME OTHER GIRL IS. GO OUT. GO GET IT. HER ASS IS NOT SPECIAL. SHE'S EXPIRING. WE ALL ARE ONLY, WOMEN HAVE A MUCH SHORTER SHELF LIFE CONTRARY TO THE FUCJERY GIRL POWER NONSENSE PEDALED IN SOCIETY.

SMV CRATERING IS THE GAME CHANGER WHEN YOU ACKNOWLEDGE NEW GIRLS ARE TURNING 18 EVERYDAY.

 

[stovepipe]

Me : you sure its not on purpose ? Cause i cant bring myself to talk to someone who avoids talking to me and this is the last time i bring this up .

The fact you have to tell her that should be a wake up call to move on.

Women always check their phones. Whatever her real reason is doesn't matter. Her actions speak for themselves and her excuses are lies.

What you do next is all on you, but remember if a women or anyone pulls that kind of crap, they do not value you as a person.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I agree with the others. Her interest level is low. The only possible thing you can do is no contact. Then she may contact you at which time you ignore her for a day or two but not too long. Then answer if you want and immediately try to setup a meet and try to get a quick lay. There is a point in which you can capitalize on a woman’s natural instinct to valdate where she stands with you. Her IL may be low but you may get that one last opportunity to get her in person, get a few drinks in her, and go for for the lay while she seeks validation that you still want her..

Me : you sure its not on purpose ? Cause i cant bring myself to talk to someone who avoids talking to me and this is the last time i bring this up .

The fact you have to tell her that should be a wake up call to move on.

Women always check their phones. Whatever her real reason is doesn't matter. Her actions speak for themselves and her excuses are lies.

What you do next is all on you, but remember if a women or anyone pulls that kind of crap, they do not value you as a person.

The disrespecting is often intentional. They do it to put you beneath them .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The disrespecting is often intentional. They do it to put you beneath them .

It's raw game

 

[flowtheory]

You tried. Now never speak to her again via messages. If you see her in person, be yourself, but do not invest anymore time in to her.

Next time: No need to call a woman out overtly. Her silence or lack of responses in a sensable time frame are her answers to your text. Which in turn ahowbher interest levels.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You tried. Now never speak to her again via messages. If you see her in person, be yourself, but do not invest anymore time in to her.

Next time: No need to call a woman out overtly. Her silence or lack of responses in a sensable time frame are her answers to your text. Which in turn ahowbher interest levels.

Females move mountains to get to who they want.

 

[Trump]

Love guys who tell girls to ‘cut the crap.’

QB: ‘Hey cornerback, can you stop covering my wide receiver so well? I can’t throw the ball to him if you cover him like that, and won’t be able to win the game.’

You have to have these girls wrapped around your finger. If she doesn’t sleep with you, another 23 year old girl will. Mindset of abundance.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Love guys who tell girls to ‘cut the crap.’

QB: ‘Hey cornerback, can you stop covering my wide receiver so well? I can’t throw the ball to him if you cover him like that, and won’t be able to win the game.’

You have to have these girls wrapped around your finger. If she doesn’t sleep with you, another 23 year old girl will. Mindset of abundance.

Great point showing that it's like that fully intentionally.

 

[RangerMIke]

You really shouldn't let what other people do... or don't do get to you that much. Gives them too much power over your happiness and well being. I really don't care if chicks drift in and out... so what. It happens to me all the time. If a chick comes back... just ask her out.

In the text interaction the OP posted he initiated.... what she was really thinking in parentheses.

Me : hey
Her : (Oh boy... him again) hey
Me : what happened ?
Her : (Oh Jesus.. what a butt hurt pvssy.) what do you mean, what happened ?
Me : you message and text me then go silent and wont even answer back

Her : (This dumb @ss can't take a hint) i really didnt mean too iam very sorry , its just that iam kinda busy sometimes forget to check my phone its not on purpose iam really sorry (There I apologized... for what that is worth... maybe after giving him this lame @ss excuse he will finally take the hint)

Me : you sure its not on purpose ? Cause i cant bring myself to talk to someone who avoids talking to me and this is the last time i bring this up .

Her : (OH God! Another one of those.. other apology should do the trick) .... iam really sorry didnt mean to do any of that
Me : ok
Her : iam very sorry (Yea, I'm really sorry you dry me up like the Gobi Desert)

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

There can be a catharsis to calling a girl on her s**t. But normally in this case I'd just make it a: "Guess you're not interested in hanging out this weekend? See ya" and make that the end of it.

In some cases putting your foot down like this can get her to stop f*cking around and give you more attention. It's kind of a sh*t test for her. If she's flippant you know she's messing you about, if she's more sincere in her response it may well be just because she was busy.

No need to NEXT a girl before you establish whether she's jacking you about. But at the same time, no need to chase a girl like that either. Move on at the drop of a hat while she's playing these games.