Agreed on the escalation, which I normally do when we go back to her or my car. She actually parked a few minutes away. I offered to drive her over, but she said she'd rather walk since it's only a few minutes away. She asked for me to walk with her, as we had to cross a few intersections, so I did hold her arm and caress a bit, but didn't have the best opportune time to do so. We walked over to her car, she was looking at me, so I leaned in and gave her a hug, held it for 10-15 seconds or so and then looked in her eyes and went for a kiss. I actually saw her close her eyes and pucker up for a peck at the last moment. Thus, I was a bit perplexed and just said be safe and walked back to my car.
Again, I am a bit surprised she didn't text after or this morning about the date. Even ones that are okay at best do that. After all, I did spend 30 bucks for a couple of drinks and two appetizers. She hinted at a meal, but I wasn't falling for that crap. Did that once before, and didn't even get a peck. She didn't offer to split either, which, I thought was a bit strange too. Yet, she seemed very receptive during the date. We were talking about our favorite foods we cook, and I mentioned an ingredient that I use, but she said she's allergic too. Then then joked and said did I lose some points? I said, ah, we can work around that.... I think, with a smirk.
I know I need more practice, but I am learning and will make mistakes. Again, being out of the dating game for 10 years, a lot has changed. There's a festival coming up next weekend, so I was going to shoot her a text to see if she wanted to do something and I'd pick her up. I also am texting a few other women as well, so I do not want to beat a dead horse. There are two are better looking, however, she's closer. I like to keep all my options open.
Just looking for some guidance. I usually do not let the first date go longer than 2 hours or so. I want to build up tension, so I didn't think it was that big of a deal. There were other people around, so maybe she was nervous? Not sure.