Most prettiest girl I've "dated"--->> Please help I dont want to screw this up

[Ryan]

Abandon ship.
In your place i would play a bit with her .

I would respond with .

" someone woke up angry today..." or "hahahah " or " goodbye little princess " and go nc or "you're such a tragedy " .

I would go full d!ck because she's not respectful enough .

I just asked her if her last name is princess...lol

 

[marmel75]

I tried calling shes not picking up....yet last week she insisted on hearing my accent, and now she is acting wierd...


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Next steps?

At this stage I feel like quitting and just deleting the apps and just doing me.

Sorry the images came out so big, I need someone to show me how to edit screenshots on my phone (yeah I am from the 90s)

@NSX-R

This is so bad its cringe worthy. You can't be serious with this dude.

 

[marmel75]

I just asked her if her last name is princess...lol

You really know how to do
dig your own grave with women dont you?

 

[Ryan]

This is so bad its cringe worthy. You can't be serious with this dude.

explain yourself.

If you really are so good with women, then give us practical advice, instead of just running your mouth.

 

[marmel75]

explain yourself.

If you really are so good with women, then give us practical advice, instead of just running your mouth.

Already have many times as have others. You seem to ignore all of it and continue making the most basic of mistakes.

Which brings me to the age old question...it you aren't going to listen to the advice you are given why the fvck do you keep asking for it?

As far as I am concerned you are a lost cause bro.

 

[Ryan]

I looked through all the posts, you never provided any advice, just random criticism.

Already have many times as have others. You seem to ignore all of it and continue making the most basic of mistakes.

Which brings me to the age old question...it you aren't going to listen to the advice you are given why the fvck do you keep asking for it?

As far as I am concerned you are a lost cause bro.

 

[marmel75]

I looked through all the posts, you never provided any advice, just random criticism.

Keep believing that.

 

[soulforge]

You do realise your behaviour right now, is that of a fukin stalker?

Dude why are you so thirsty and desperate.. She clearly told you to leave her alone, she is not picking up your calls... Does it sound like she wants to fuk you?

Where is your sense of self respect and dignity, groveling like a thirsty dog!!

This OP is a pure example of a BETA male.. OP puts the value of vagina, over his own dignity!

How PATHETIC and cringe worthy!!

 

[soulforge]

explain yourself.

If you really are so good with women, then give us practical advice, instead of just running your mouth.

Again and Again you have been told and advised that your behavior here is pathetic, and she is NOT interested... Yet you ignore all the advice given, and keep persuising her like she is the only girl on earth

Your one step away from officially becoming her stalker!

 

[Ryan]

Keep believing that.

I do , I am referring to your posts. I didn't find a single post where you provided advice.

 

[Ryan]

Again and Again you have been told and advised that your behavior here is pathetic, and she is NOT interested... Yet you ignore all the advice given, and keep persuising her like she is the only girl on earth

Your one step away from officially becoming her stalker!

Not sure about the "stalker" part, but yeah I realize I am putting way too much value on this girl.

I am talking to other girls right now....trying to get my mind off her...but yeah I crushed hard on her.

She did ask me to meetup this week (last week)...thats why I am trying to call her. ...

 

[Ryan]

I am watching this....its good....I am sure other people on this forum could also benefit from it......its actually good advice. I think this guy also posts on here.

Yes I am mature enough to admit, that I get too attach.

 

[marmel75]

I do , I am referring to your posts. I didn't find a single post where you provided advice.

In earlier threads there were quite a few. At some point you just have to realize someone is a hopeless cause and give up. You have made literally zero progress from the first thread you posted on this board til now based on this disaster of an exchange with this woman which somehow keeps getting worse.

 

[JohnChops]

Those text messages were hard to read. But hey, we all make mistakes, take the advice of posters here and improve your game for next time. Luckily, you’ve only known this girl for a week so you shouldn’t really be attached at all to her.

Cut the rope and move on to the next.

 

[Ryan]

UPDATE: called her last night, I'm like what you doing tommorrow " friends then work". I told her that " you know asked if we wanted to meet this week" then she replies " yeah but at the time I said that I didn't know my work schedule says I have nine shifts this week" , I wasn't very persistent...then she said she had to hang up because she was getting food..

• I was quite tired so I didn't feel like asking her over

So just wait another two weeks and call back? And just go NC until then?

That's what the black guy advises.


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[CBear]

UPDATE: called her last night, I'm like what you doing tommorrow " friends then work". I told her that " you know asked if we wanted to meet this week" then she replies " yeah but at the time I said that I didn't know my work schedule says I have nine shifts this week" , I wasn't very persistent...then she said she had to hang up because she was getting food..

• I was quite tired so I didn't feel like asking her over

So just wait another two weeks and call back? And just go NC until then?

That's what the black guy advises.

I feel like it's pointless to write anything but heres to hoping you learn.

Just read wtf you wrote. Shes spending time w/ other people, working, doesnt have time to talk with you. You're a pesky mosquito to her, just accept it. If a fat unattractive chick kept calling you trying to hang out with you, if you play the nice guy act, you'll be trying to make excuses and telling her that you have to go. That's how that works.

The guys here know what they're talking about, the least you could do is listen to them.
Go NC for good. If she EVER calls back, you're good to go, if she doesn't, move on and accept the truth.

Seriously, you already got to know her, if she was interested in you, she'd be randomly calling YOU while she's busy just to hear your voice and you'd be the one trying to hang up on her lol.

 

[Ryan]

I feel like it's pointless to write anything but heres to hoping you learn.

Just read wtf you wrote. Shes spending time w/ other people, working, doesnt have time to talk with you. You're a pesky mosquito to her, just accept it. If a fat unattractive chick kept calling you trying to hang out with you, if you play the nice guy act, you'll be trying to make excuses and telling her that you have to go. That's how that works.

The guys here know what they're talking about, the least you could do is listen to them.
Go NC for good. If she EVER calls back, you're good to go, if she doesn't, move on and accept the truth.

Seriously, you already got to know her, if she was interested in you, she'd be randomly calling YOU while she's busy just to hear your voice and you'd be the one trying to hang up on her lol.

How would you of handled this differently?

I didnt even text her that much.

Welcome to the forum.

 

[Ryan]

She's some random nutjob off Tinder who doesn't want to meet up for whatever reason. Just block her. Probably a lesbian or something.

Or fvck it. It's a hook-up app, and she's holding out. Report her for misuse.

Seriously though, i told you the dynamics back on page one. It maybe sounds complicated saying it, but this should just be a quite immediate impression. You are either very senseless, or you are willfully ignoring the obvious. That's probably why people are getting annoyed. I think your heart is in the right place though.

Great relationships do not begin with "she went off on one on tinder about rape, got ****y over messaging, then avoided meeting for a month".

You need to work on your self-esteem. Subsequently, people will treat you better (women and men). If not, then they aren't there for good reasons anyway (like this person).

Low self-esteem folk gett off on being treated poorly. So not sure how much one can actually help.

Trust me I'm doing well in life, I have no idea why you jump to the conclusion I have no self esteem.

Thank you for your post.

 

[soulforge]

Trust me I'm doing well in life, I have no idea why you jump to the conclusion I have no self esteem.

Thank you for your post.

You are beyond help.. Your are still calling a chick, who has literally ZERO time for you.. My guess is, at some point you will be turning up at her doorstep, like a stalker!

How desperate are you? She has rejected you MULTIPLE times, and your still PLANNING your next move, like a thirsty dog!

Not only do you have low esteem, but you have ABSOLOUTLY ZERO RESPECT FOR YOURSELF!!

A man with self respect knows, he needs to walk away, with his dignity intact.

You sir value vagina, more than you value yourself.

You shouldn't even be considering seeing woman right now.. You should in fact be taking time out to figure what is exactly WRONG with you & why you have ZERO respect for yourself.

 

[Ryan]

Silly me.

Thats ok mate, your posts are actually useful. I wish other members would be able to provide as good quality as you (instead of just running their mouth)

Keep up the good work.