Sorry, but this is just wrong. I actually took Biology 101, and one of the things that my professor made very clear to us is that throughout most of nature, males choose quantity > quality, and women choose quality > quantity. It’s even evident in our physiological makeup. 1 egg vs billions of speed cells. Men are not monogamous whereas women are. That’s actually why a guy who bangs a lot of chicks is naturally looked up to and why a girl with one single great guy always has her girlfriends saying ‘omg he’s so cute and cool and blah blah blah’.
Now, what you are saying makes sense in terms of 2 > 1. But with attraction, you have to understand that most men are NOT valued equally. That’s why there are RATINGS. Clearly a man making $1,000,000 a year is valued more than 5 men making $50,000 a year if all else was equal. But yet she would choose those 5 men over the one single great man? No. THAT doesn’t make sense. Not only that, but there is another issue.
Women are not built like men. Men are physically and mentally built to handle stress far greater than women. We are made to handle things more. A universal law that all living organisms follow is that everything living strives to conserve energy. Having multiple partners requires much more time and energy than it does to have just one. THIS is the real reason why marriage was created. Because it is easier. You live longer thus.
Not only that, but if women weren’t actually monogamous, the human race would have gone extinct long ago. Why? Well let’s say you have sex with a woman. Now you KNOW she is also having sex with other men too. But she gets pregnant. Is that kid really yours? Before paternity tests, no one would know. Are you gonna raise a kid that might not be yours if she’s ****ing 7 other guys on the side? Your logic as a human being says ‘**** no, it is a complete waste of time and resources on my part’. You aren’t gonna give her **** for the kid, only for the sex. And if she tries taking too much, you are going to boot her. Thing is, those 7 other guys think the same way. Now she has NO resources at all for her child. And guess what else just happened? Her child died. Not just this woman, but all the other women in the world. Human population begins to die out now and neither you nor I exist.
Evolution would not have allowed this to continue unless men were monogamous instead. And we all know that none of us truly are lol. Besides, men would have had to been able to become pregnant too if this were actually the case and it’s clearly not.
