Women are not monogamous - Red Pill stuff

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I don't think men or women are more monogamous than the other

Women are simply more likely to seek relationships, whether that's because society conditions them for that or because societal pressure to not admit that you just wanna get bent over the table by every hot guy you meet, i don't personally know.

But when a man seeks a relationship, he acts like a woman seeking a relationship

Just like when a woman is seeking sex, she acts like a man seeking sex.
 

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Actually, to take a tangent, to me this rise of drugged up ROIDGIANT gym addicts as male role models we should all aspire to be like is one of the biggest and most obnoxious cancers on true masculinity in recent decades.

I was browsing a copy of Men's Fitness in the supermarket recently and the front cover was:

"THE HENRY CAVILL SUPERMAN WORKOUT: WHY YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE TO NOT LOOK LIKE HENRY CAVILL!".

As the mag itself said, Henry Cavill worked out up to 10 hours a day with a professional bodybuilder to get his Superman physique. He had to follow an insanely regimented diet. The only way you could ever do his work out was if you were a movie star being paid huge sums to do it for an upcoming role and had nothing else going on in your life.

The whole article was phrased like "Time to get off your lazy ass, you fat f***, AND BECOME HENRY CAVILL! You have a job? You have a social life? Wtf is wrong with you, get down that f***ing gym and put in at least 8 hours YOU SAP. Do this or you're unattractive and no woman will ever look at you."

Toxic stuff. And it's even worse when it's celebs like The Rock that men are encouraged to be like, because these men are (IMO) frauds. Yeah, they work hard to maintain their physique. But their build is unnatural, and was obtained by illegitimate methods.

The Rock was voted Sexiest Man Alive...which filled me with dismay. Basically, you're never going to get that mantle if you don't pump your body full of drugs and artificially inflate your muscle mass. Ridiculous.

For the record, I believe "real" men should be muscular and strong. But I also think that should be natural, through playing sports, working out legit without drugs and eating clean. No wonder young men have f***ed self esteem these days. Even the b*tchy women's mags don't tell girls they need to roid up and sweat in a gym for all their waking hours.
And at the end of the day, if the face is not good, they are gymcels.
 

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I would love to compromise on looks, I just haven't found anyone who also had an interesting personality and bare minimum looks to where I'd be motivated to satisfy her sexually. I'm a sapiosexual once the bare minimum looks are there. Instead I tend to date hot women with great personalities but they get bored quickly.
It's not easy when even the not-so-hot women are pieces of 5hit. If you're going to date women who are pieces of 5hit, then date the hot ones.

I wish I would have realized the whole alpha-widow effect when I was 30 years old. I would have made it a goal to only date women in the 18-23 year range. I'm not getting any younger over here, and I'd like to spend at least some of my healthy years with a good companion.

I've started to use my age as a basis to make some of my life decisions. I had contemplated building my own house, but I'd end up having more work to pay for it. I decided instead to work toward having less debt and more "me" time, and so bought a lower costing house on a large piece of land. No regrets so far. The same goes for the woman in my life. I was either going to make a decision on choosing someone who would end up being alpha-widowed by me, or I'd end up just living alone and fvcking whatever pvssy came my way. Sure I'd love to have a hot woman by my side and I really did aim at dating them, but all the ones I've been with turned out to be pieces of 5hit. Give me the one who's gonna take care of me when I'm ill and will spend time with me even when I'm doing something she has no interest in. That's what an ideal companion does. Women who have been alpha-widowed have no desire to be a real companion.
 

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As much information is on here I as well as you have to dig deeper. I'm not completely sold on humans beings being programmed to be monogamous. The word program throws a wrench in free will and or choice. Generally ideally people lean towards this view.... But what exactly is programming us to be any of these cultural ideals? Genetics I assume would be the popular answers, that field has a lot of holes in it though. Epigenetics our environment and choices affected our genes proves our genes are not our fate. Except for how we are born. We have to look at the world the way it is through peoples actions and our own personal experiences, it's then we can begin to study formulate the occult things in our nature
 

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Real **** right here. That’s why inner game is so important. It explains why that crack dealer trapping on the streets all day gets laid than most people on here lol. Women want to see what you’re really made of, hence why they test you. They’ll always find out who you really are unless you are super aware of when they’re analyzing you. After a while, they’ll determine what type of man you are. And based on that is how much they’ll actually value you.
That's not true at all. Just because someone is a criminal doesn't mean they're good with women at all. If anything that crack dealer fvcks prostitutes, probably crack whorves.

I was in a treatment center with this guy who was probably about 250lbs just ripped. He was this Haitian. We were pretty cool and he'd tell me a lot of stuff. His gf is a software engineer. He smoked and sold crack. He used to get a bunch of crack and a couple of hookers and just cheat on his gf, and smoke crack. He didn't need Game because he had drugs. That's not having game at all plus his gf is old, a little overweight and not pretty.
 
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I don't think men or women are more monogamous than the other
Women seek monogamy because it's within her biological imperatives; for her survival and that of her offspring's.

Men seek monogamy either because of feminine/societal programming or because of fear.

Edit: Biologically men is not supposed to be monogamous.

Women are simply more likely to seek relationships, whether that's because society conditions them for that or because societal pressure to not admit that you just wanna get bent over the table by every hot guy you meet, i don't personally know.
Again it's their biological imperatives.

Women cannot survive without men in a world of men and beast. Men do not need women to survive in such an environment as he's biologically equipped thus enabling him 2 be an Apex Predator - physically and analytically.

To counteract mens predatory nature, women has learned through thousands of years of evolution to become a highly efficient Emotional Apex Predator themselves, enabling them to hv men domesticated - being compliant to them.

But when a man seeks a relationship, he acts like a woman seeking a relationship.
Results of the emotional predator at her very best.
 
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