need advice from the masters of getting woman.

[Ryan Adams]

I have not banged her. only made out and i don't even ask her cigarettes she just basically wants me to go outside and talk to her while smoking I literally don't even ask anymore.

 

[derby1]

Text her Ryan that she only needs to dress casual Friday !! Dont put just checking about Friday , then on Friday morning text her the time and place

 

[Ryan Adams]

what if she says i forgot about it. I mean we were both kinda drunk....

 

[derby1]

That's why your calling her out , its covert mate you EXPECT her to remember cause you a top bloke and your times precious

 

[Ryan Adams]

what ifff she does do that though or says I'm soooo busy?

 

[Billtx49]

or says I'm soooo busy?

You find another woman that will go out one on one.

 

[derby1]

You are coming from a mindset of scarcity, outcome independent, a DJ doesnt give a FCK about the outcome , cause he knows 5 other women waiting to go out with him

Like bills just said!

 

[Ryan Adams]

gotcha!

 

[Ryan Adams]

You are coming from a mindset of scarcity, outcome independent, a DJ doesnt give a FCK about the outcome , cause he knows 5 other women waiting to go out with him

Like bills just said!

I am coming scarcity to be honest I do not get woman like that... I live in a small town where everyone knows each other etc

 

[derby1]

This is why were helping I know some of my advice is blunt,

Send her that text now , do not get into a text convo with her

Remember as far as your concerned Friday is still on, your words are congruent with your actions

Put her reply up

 

[Ryan Adams]

update: I know I'm late but work got real busy im a lineman so I work tons of ot. so I asked her out and she gave me an excuse..... so I was like ok whatever nexttt. but last night I saw her at a bar. she asked me where i was at and 10 min later she showed up. she was all over me.... I went back to her place and slept in her bed with her. she cuddled with me we made out etc etc that's it wouldn't let me go farther.... what should I do at this point

 

[Murk]

You should shake your damn head for not escalating to sex. While you are in her bed making out you whip your **** out and push it on her leg or whatever, women can’t resist a hard shlong while kissing and getting heated, despite what they say.

You arrange to get her to your place or to another bar.

But leave it for now, resist the urge to text how much fun you had, just go ghost for a day or two and let her reach out first.

 

[Ryan Adams]

dude.... I tried she just wasn't having it.

 

[Murk]

Did you get your **** out?

Were you in bed clothed, set the scene for us, was she on her period? How drunk were you both? Did you get your **** out?

 

[derby1]

what you do is you move on from this joker, she is immature and an attention *****

she knows exactly what shes doing and shes doing it very well

all over you in a bar then back to hers but no SEX , WTF Ryan!!!!!! she has proper controlled the frame AGAIN

imagine her feeding a wild strong bird little bread crumbs to get it in a cage, the wild eagle would not fall for this SH4t, it would fly off to get some proper meat

now imagine a little robin that lands on her door everymorning for the bread and each morning she lures it a little further in the house

the robin would fall for this because the robin is weak and a non predator so to speak

time to be the eagle

 

[Murk]

Derby mate you never know maybe she just wanted him to take the lead and bang her, I’ve encountered women that say no sex, at the end of the day she followed him to a bar, took him back to her bed, the fault is all his imo and we are only getting his side of the story.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Derby mate you never know maybe she just wanted him to take the lead and bang her, I’ve encountered women that say no sex, at the end of the day she followed him to a bar, took him back to her bed, the fault is all his imo and we are only getting his side of the story.

Some are c0ck teases and the getting him to bed and throwing him out was the affirmation they wanted.

 

[Murk]

We’ve all been there, you’re in bed kissing you get your **** out and escalate further, I’ve never had a knock back at that stage, it’s about being overtly sexual and dominant imo. Ryan could have fvcked this broad if he played it differently.

 

[derby1]

Derby mate you never know maybe she just wanted him to take the lead and bang her

shes brought a friend on there last 1...if not 2? meet ups? from what i recall mate @Murkserious

she invited him to a drink with her friends

thats why ive been a bit straight to the point,

She likes the Attention you give her @Ryan Adams makes her feel validated

easily resolved, withdraw attention totally for a few days!! you do not message saying "I HAD A GREAT NIGHT" or anything soft as shtt

then whe she messages get on this board like pronto

 

[Murk]

Oooooh it’s that girl. Yeah total c0ck tease I wouldn’t even waste time on her and there’s no way I’m having her friend tag along she sounds immature.