need advice from the masters of getting woman.

[Ryan Adams]

she still has offered a good day in which we can get food. but everytime she gets drunk she blows my phone up hahah I'm still positive she has a high interest in me.

 

[Ryan Adams]

ok update if any of you care. superbowl Sunday she wanted me to go out with her so she picked up and we went to a bar her friend was with her. we drank had fun and at the end of the night a slow song came on and I spun her around a bit and we made out at the end of the night. she texted me be safe that bight and some little stuff then in the am was texting me. I was short but playful with her. haven't texted her since yesterday. I think I'm on the right track

 

[derby1]

she wanted me to go out with her so she picked up and we went to a bar her friend was with her. we drank had fun and at the end of the night a slow song came on and I spun her around a bit and we made out at the end of the night

you made out with her cause SHE was bored.....I mean wtf ryan are you playing at dancing with her you dont dance with a woman like some patrick swayze...you sit at the table looking playfully disgusted like a 16 year old brother would to his 10 year old sister!!!!!!!!!

you danced with her because you believe she is the PRIZE so you tried to impress HER

you bummed fags off her .......

FFs this gets worse the more i read it

read the god damn DJ BIBLE and book of pook

 

[Ryan Adams]

what the **** I figured drunkenly dancing with her in a playful manner she would eat it up she loved it when I was doing it she had a smile from ear to ear.. it wasn't some super sexy slow dance it was a swing dancer type of dance. it was playful and fun

 

[derby1]

what the **** I figured drunkenly dancing with her in a playful manner she would eat it up she loved it when I was doing it she had a smile from ear to ear

yeah women have a smile from ear to ear when my mate turns into a jester or whatever else they want him to turn into, car mechanic...therapist

trust a womans actions! has she had sex with you? has she messaged the day after to say she cant wait to see you again?

women do not FCK about with feelings they are emotional jealous creatures, they will not let a CATCH get away

and you bummed fags off her, and her mate was there..........

this is why were trying to help

 

[Ryan Adams]

she did message me the next day asking how I they and that she had so much fun with me. also when we kissed she was biting my lip doing all kinds of freaky sh!t lol.... but ok from now on how should I go about this...

 

[derby1]

she did message me the next day asking how I they and that she had so much fun with me

ok did you arrange a 2nd date there and then just the 2 of you?

 

[Bible_Belt]

superbowl Sunday she wanted me to go out with her so she picked up and we went to a bar her friend was with her.

Her friend was the designated c0ckblocker, to make sure she didn't have sex with you.

She wants to have sex with you very much, but also hates feeling like a slvt afterward (because this has happened before with other guys.) That's why she is different when she has been drinking - you're getting a glimpse of how she really feels.

What's happened so far is that you are the one who has been getting gamed. She gets everything she wants without having to put out. Stop going on these "me and my friend" dates. I would just wait for her to drunk-text you again, and get her over to your place at that time. Let her find some other chump for her little friend-dates, or else she is going to keep playing you forever.

 

[Ryan Adams]

i did that night yes but haven't talked about it with her since sunday

 

[derby1]

i did that night yes but haven't talked about it with her since sunday

so you made a direct and decisive decison ie 7.30 thursday?

direct, decisive and straight to the point gives her the tinglies mate

 

[Ryan Adams]

so basically blow her off till I can get just me and her together

 

[Ryan Adams]

so you made a direct and decisive decison ie 7.30 thursday?

direct, decisive and straight to the point gives her the tinglies mate

i didnt ask her what day she was free I told her the day lol

 

[derby1]

yeah am i missing something here you said ie thursday 7.30 and she said?

 

[Ryan Adams]

she said yes

 

[Ryan Adams]

anyone have any more advice on how I should approach this from now on.? so instead of going out and be fun light and playfully dancing with her I'm suppoaed to act bored and sit at the table? that logic just doesn't seem to make sense to me...

 

[derby1]

that logic just doesn't seem to make sense to me...

the woman mind doesnt make sense, this is why your strategy doesnt work youve been conditioned to believe it should and now your not happy about my word to the contrary....trust her actions her actions are shes got a mate out on a night out with you, and shes kissed you at the end of the night

the kissing you bit..... is to cat string you to make you feel great and keep you on the loop as has been said by others, its confused you

when is your next meeting together and is it a cemented date

 

[Ryan Adams]

it's Friday and 7-8 ish and yes It is cemented

sorry I lied no it is not cemented I told her Sunday when I was drunk and have not spoke with her about it since...

 

[devilkingx2]

you bummed fags off her .......

and you bummed fags off her,

that's a good thing though, he got something from her rather than giving her anything

it's the opposite of a provider frame and an IOI

 

[Ryan Adams]

I hear so much conflicting points. none of it's bad but kind of confusing i guess it's through trial and error do I find what best works. i have found everytime I dance with a woman they fall in love with me... usually works to my advantage.

 

[derby1]

A high value male would have his own fags ......I'm afraid I dont agree , bumming fags is borderline tramp behaviour its what begs do in the UK

Absolute scutters are associated with asking for fags in the UK

Its not about a give or take frame its about self respect

She clearly controls the frame , in what way doesnt she? OP banged her?