Let’s talk facts

[RichardTheFrog]

It's times like this I'm glad I can probably out-crazy anyone in the world.

 

[guru1000]

It's times like this I'm glad I can probably out-crazy anyone in the world.

The truly crazy are not out in the open for all to see

 

[guru1000]

This.

Guys on here who think they have encountered one of these women but try to lecture us on how they are not that bad and the problem really lies with us on this forum HAVE NOT truly encountered a cluster b. I would hope that you don't ever...even if that means getting 1 or 2 of these types of threads every month.

Self-rationalizing poor-decision making and your lack of execution. Nobody put a gun to your head.

Men, stop being victims. You are the executor of your own destiny. No girl owes you anything nor can take your soul unless you allow her to.

 

[Von]

In order to get diagnosed with any of the Cluster B behavior disorders, you need to see a professional. If you never get officially diagnosed then you won't be a part of that statistic will you? This is why the number does not reflect reality and should be much higher than it is.

Now lets look at this from a different angle. You don't have to be officially diagnosed by a psychologist to obtain psych drugs like Xanax, Trazadone, Clonazepam, etc. BUT 20% of the female adult population takes a drug to control psychological issues.

So doesn't it make you wonder why there is such a difference between the 1.6% that are officially diagnosed, and the 20% that take drugs for these types of diagnosis?

And let me tell you from first hand experience, a lot of these girls are getting pills like Xanax with out a prescription. Two girls I dated call up their doctor and sweet talk him and usually get a prescription. Hot girls are rarely ever told NO.

You are telling me you dated girls who didn't take Xanax? I bet you never checked her medicine cabinet, night stand, or purse did you? They keep that secret to themselves most of the time, but Uncle Howie always checks that schitt out so I know what I'm getting myself into.

If you need some mental pill to keep you functioning then you have something wrong with you. Simple as that. I've seen it too many times. There is more crazy out there than the 1.6% that is stated at the beginning of this topic and the point I made about people taking psych drugs supports that.

And let me leave you naysayers with one more thing to digest........there is an increase in mass shootings going on in this country and I'll bet you $1million dollars that every one of those killers has some mental disorder. Now how many of them were officially diagnosed before they performed mass murder? So does that make it less prevalent because it is underdiagnosed?

Agreed.... I know 2 girls where diagnosed BPD... and 1 on Xanax (that **** is dangerous.. once you start... there is no return)

Now, every time you go for a diagnosis... you come back with BPD... maybe it's stronger in the Girls than the Guy... cause how Female biology react to Society needs and progression (working, social media attention, always getting more, consuming products including relationships, be everything all the time etc...)

But its seriously overrated in terms of ''relationship failure causation''.... and clearly under-diagnosed (due to need of professionnal diagnosis for it be reported).

Flash news guys...If you seeking help online you have BPD (LAraider post)... so ALL THE GUYS HERE HAVE IT lol.

Man... the only facts in life were found in Antiquity.

Here's 3 facts:
1) ''Women are from Venus... Men are from Mars''... now good luck with that star-bridge

2) If your relationship doesn't work... it's not because of the other person... it's YOU... even if she's crazy! Why only you? Cause you either Stay or Leave

3) You are in control ALL THE TIME... it doesn't work: Move ON (aka NEXT) ... if you stay in: YOU ASKED FOR IT

Last fact: When it fails it ain't easy... but if it works it should be Simple but the choices are clear.

Good fishing guys

 

[Red Legg]

Consider this: one of the biggest irritants to a cluster B is the idea that they are not a special snowflake, eminently detectable (eventually, anyway) and just three letters on their psychiatrist's chart.

I don't like to call them "BPD" or "cluster B" I prefer the term the ancient Greeks called them...... "Siren"

 

[Billtx49]

I don't like to call them "BPD" or "cluster B" I prefer the term the ancient Greeks called them...... "Siren"

Yes. Luring unwary mariners to their own destruction.… Excellent comparison.

 

[Urbanyst]

Was I criticising the red pill, or was I criticising how many moochers it attracts? (IE sexual market socialists)

Nice try, but everyone can see what you posted lol.

Another "position change" to save face. You and @guru1000 should team up to start your own comedy tour.

 

[devilkingx2]

“It’s estimated that 1.6% of the adult U.S. population has BPD but it may be as high as 5.9%. Nearly 75% of people diagnosed with BPD are women, but recent research suggests that men may be almost as frequently affected by BPD. In the past, men with BPD were often misdiagnosed with PTSD or depression. “ - National alliance on Mental illness

Yet every single guy on sosuave has had a BPD gf.

Interesting

there's a huge area between diagnosable insanity and normal behavior that's insufferable to deal with

as in, just because someone doesn't lie frequently enough to be considered pathological doesn't mean that a girl who lies all the time won't be a nightmare, just because someone isn't officially bi-polar doesn't make moody people fun, just because she isn't officially a sociopath doesn't mean that her dumping you if you go broke because she only really cared about your money wouldn't hurt, etc. etc.

so if a girl acts nuts, it doesn't necessarily have to be severe enough for you to be diagnosed and medicated for it to ruin your day

 

[Tenacity]

But if the sorts such as yourself and @Tenacity are going to be prescribing what you think is "the red-pill" loudly and with huge investment, then i'm going to distance myself from it here and laugh.

I'm not going to engage it with any real investment. .

Sir, listen to me. I'm going to state this once again. I don't care what you do. This is a discussion forum, the purpose of it is to DISCUSS a topic. All Tenacity does is provide his honest opinion on a topic and allows you, the reader, to do whatever the hell it is YOU feel is best for YOUR situation.

- If you feel getting married works for you, do it.

- If you feel the LTR market is booming, great.

- If you feel that everything that happens in life, in dating, with women, with the job market, with the business market, with investments, etc., is always YOUR FAULT and you are always in CONTROL of everything......fine.......believe that and act accordingly.

* Tenacity does not feel a US Marriage Arrangement benefits 95% of men for reasons I've already laid out in another thread

* Tenacity feels as though the LTR Market is in a Great Depression for reasons I've already laid out in another thread

* Tenacity DOESN'T FEEL we live in a VACUUM where everything good, bad, or neutral that happens to me is my fault, I believe it's always a combination of MY actions/things I can control and things BEYOND my control.

Now, again, if any of you grown a.ss men disagree with this.........that's fine. Act accordingly, go out and do whatever it is YOU see fit for your life. However, please, please stop the bickering. Stop the flaming. Stop the personal attacks.

As grown a.ss men we ought to not be acting like this. It's why I put @guru1000 on ignore, I have nothing else to discuss with him and all that grown a.ss man in his mid 40's wants to do, is bicker, bicker, bicker, flame, flame, flame....like some 22 year old fvcking college girl on Facebook on a period. Grown a.ss men should not be acting like this. I'm tired of logging in here and seeing this stupid shyt.

 

[guru1000]

However, please, please stop the bickering. Stop the flaming. Stop the personal attacks.

As grown a.ss men we ought to not be acting like this. bicker, bicker, flame, flame, flame....like some 22 year old fvcking college girl on Facebook on a period. Grown a.ss men should not be acting like this. I'm tired of logging in here and seeing this stupid shyt.

LOL