I have 3 sisters one is npd the other mood disorder and the third wonderful thank God.That doesn't matter. If I were to get bonded, I'd still have the strength to walk away. You cannot ever let yourself get to the point where you will start to value her over yourself. You just don't. I never do that because I see how foolish it is. Very few people have my heart. And of those who do, I still have the guts to fight back against them should they be ignorantly pigheaded (my brother, my mom, and my dad). I've even cursed all them out before because of some stupid stuff (not proud of it, but I refuse to be a slave to anyone anymore). These are the people whom you would love more so than any woman you have a romantic relationship with. I have two sisters and one of them is a such a nutcase that I cannot deal with anymore. Probably is BPD by standard SS definition if I'm to be completely honest. But I've learned to even cut HER, my own sister, out of my life and not deal with her anymore despite her being family.
No love in this world for me. No love in this world for others.
Be messed up by an npd or cluster b is not loving her more than yourself. That's if u stay and endure the abuse or kill yourself.
Getting out and still healing tho suffering is where i am at. Because the girl is half bad and the other half has good attributes of a life partner. If she was all chit it would be easy to move on.