Yw. Glad to help.
He is pathetic and she knows she is deep down.
It's amazing the effort these cluster b's will put into causing us harm and terror, yet wouldn't put 10% of that effort into being better for the relationship.
BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to
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He is pathetic and she knows she is deep down.
It's amazing the effort these cluster b's will put into causing us harm and terror, yet wouldn't put 10% of that effort into being better for the relationship.
noBSgames
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Everybody at work wants to shake my hand after I got rid of my girl since they knew about her and what I was dealing with it's enough I deal with a stressful enough job
Affirmation from others that know what she was about definitely helps and accelerates the healing process.…
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Exactly that!
...and the Moment you are no longer willing to give her whatever she wants you are replaced.
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...and thats what the Cluster Bs are about: control.
Ironically: The more she can control the guy she is with, the more he will have to suffer because she can live her life of lies to the fullest without any resistance.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
noBSgames
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Speaking of that she would swear up and down I was always telling bad things about her at work.. at first I did not but it got to the point she was doing stuff so it was known then came her trying to bad mouth me which did not work.. so she deactivates her social media..
IMHO any girl that needs to have two different facebook accounts is up to no good.
Yep ALL about CONTROL.
And if u let her boss u around she won't respect u.
So u stay alpha and fight all the damn time.
Fuchn cvnts
Yes, it can happen even in a normal relationship with a healthy woman. The man gets Betatized over time and she loses her respect for him, but when you get involved with one of these types of women then that process tends to go into hyperdrive eventually.…
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btownbuck2012
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Good stuff here. It's important to understand the reason behind this. They are filled with great shame from childhood wounds. By calling them out on their lies, this makes them feel ashamed of themselves and the ONLY way to combat that is through several defense mechinisms they developed as children. Things like devaluing, blameshifting, acting superior and ultimately discarding you. It's done to protect their incredibly fragile non existent identities.
btownbuck2012
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Once they've won, either through control or the establishment of a relationship, they get bored. They don't care about or want a connection with others, they want attention and to feel special. This is why boredom sets in once they have you, again either through control or the establishment of a relationship. Normal, healthy adult relationships can be boring and predictable at times. Cluster Bs are constantly searching for the high of the honeymoon stage of the relationship. And if you don't budge an inch and she can't control you? Well she'll resent that too and still leave eventually. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Getting cheated on or devalued or discarded is inevitable. If you're a complete afc beta chump, this will happen quickly. Probably within a few weeks to a month or two. Guys who have their act together get hit hardest because the bizarre behavior doesn't start until about a year in. At that point, you're convinced she's special and have a much harder time letting her go. You become very vulernable and open up to her which in turn digusts her and fills her with increidble rage and hatred towards you. "How could he have fallen for this?" "How could he have trusted me?" "How can he be so stupid to fall for me?" She now feels like she's been fooled! She feels great shame for being fooled by someone so stupid as to fall in love with her. Think about that sh*t for a minute. That is how their brains work.
Loving one of these women is the equivalent to waving a red flag in front of a bull. You're just pissing it off more and more and if you don't stop, it could cost you your life.
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Yep and it is a damn cycle. I delt w it for 3 years like a dummy. Well more like almost 2 as it started after a year.
Every thing revolves around them. U are there to be their servant and if u have a complaint or bring something up they are doing wrong good fuhkn GOD will u be punished for it.
I got accused of cheating for years, shamed about it to try to control me from my buddies or the gym. I blew it off, told her if she really thought that she would not be with me. However if i ever brought something like that up good LORD would i be raged on, ignored and punished for days for having the audacity to accuse her or disrespect her by having my own thoughts and feelings. We are not allowed to have feelings.
I never have had an urge to hurt her, but the matter of fact in me wishes she could turn into a guy for 10 seconds so i could knock his ****ing head off out of disdain for such torture over the years.
They bwhave like KIDS.
Cluster B act like children it is ridiculous
Yep you are absolutely right. Mine was pretty good for over a year with maybe one or two episodes although she contained herself very well. Just these last six or 8 months she showed raging and screaming, has come unglued over the littlest of situations. It was after a year when I started becoming discarded here and there for the littlest of things. Flip out go nuts scream break things off hang up on me ignore me for a day call me the next day love me everything's fine act like nothing happened and I would be like what the f is wrong with you?? I was literally in shock of the behavior I couldn't even be mad it was so ridiculous it was like sitting here watching a little kid throw a temper tantrum run around and run out the door and then come back. What is just as disturbing is that these people are not embarrassed by their behavior. All that matters is that you are serving them and their feelings , one thing I always felt and I told her as long as I am doing everything you want all the time the relationship is great if I have any thought to do anything else for myself or with my friends or anything then I will be punished and mistreated anything for and sometimes discarded. The fact that these psycho vampires don't even realize how terrible they are is disturbing and concerning. They will never be happy they will never have a functional relationship and they will live in an internal hell within themselves their whole lives.
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True. For whatever thing that happened to her at some point in her adolescence, she is emotionally immature and sometimes will make you think you are talking to a woman that doesn't understand what most woman her age do.
Bottom line, It's usually a losing deal getting involved with a damaged woman, and if you think you're dealing with a mental child or overly emotional teen at times, you most likeky are.
An emotionally immature for her age female.
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Yep. Also raised an entitled spoiled brat given materials instead of time and love and attention can add to the cluster B.
My ex's daughter, now 6, has and i am not kidding prob 150 stuffed animals above her bed. What a fuchn waste.
Not to mention all her other toys. Its to the point where she didnt come in contact w even 3/4 of them.
But the ex lives w her parents and is now 30, won't get her own **** together yet puts everyone else down.
Vampire children
noBSgames
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Looks like B**** finally latched onto someone else lol finally how she said she was not looking and she was waiting for the right one but she felt the need to show the hugging and all that the fact that I caught he doing shady stuff while I was with her it does not bother me one bit
She is embarrassing herself with such chit behavior and does not even know it. What a fool.
noBSgames
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I know how can you say you are waiting and already showing kissing type pictures lol my friend who knows her as well saw it and he was shocked he was man he don't know what he's in for.
But ask her and it's my fault for how shes behaving now lmao
On the side note it feels really good to sit down and do some work on my car and rebuilding the motor with no distractions
I know right. I've hit the gym, boxed 4x a week for a month, went out of town, and didn't get destroyed for it. So nice not to be mistreated for not being a slave to their lives.
Fuch them.
mrgoodstuff
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She kept you at a distance at work and was unusually open for anyone else huh?
noBSgames
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First it took her forever for her to feel OK with me coming to her job then finally inside.. but her friends I met most but this one girl she kept saying she never wanted to meet me (from the start 2 years ago) never liked me and so on.. always had some BS excuse for her.. Next thing I know she was like (the girl I never met) she was like oh she told me she had a dream about me and how she really wanted to be with me and my ex was like that ***** I'm not speaking to her.. long story short about 2-3 weeks later I see she and her hung out for her birthday party.. So much for that ****.. she always had some BS excuse man it never made any since whatsoever.. How can you not like a person if you never seen or spoke to them in person? I noticed her female friends tend to always have guy issues..
I used to drive 45-1 Hr down to NYC to pick her up before she got off work... sometimes she will be a little bitchy and I'm like I came all this way and this is how you act? Mind you spending about $17 in tolls.. at one point I spent almost $300 in tolls for the month which is nuts and I don't know how I did it working part time.. Now that 'm full-time it would be different but shes mad that I'm F/T and pretty much I don' spend any time or money on her.. I told her clearly my car right now is top priority it's almost been 3 years and it would be faster and easier for me to get around with my car.. then came her distractions to get me to slow down and lose focus I caught onto that and that pissed her off even more rage again
