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Why would you accept the date with her leaving you on the hook until the day of? Her REAL plans fell through, so you would do for a free night out... and you're talking about the success and the next time she can use you...
If the woman loses her cool over a text message, you're probably better of without her. I think it's a **** test.
She's now leading the relationship. I'd say something along the lines of "maybe you're just too busy to hangout with someone and I totally understand. If I'm available Friday, I may consider it but I need advance notice to see if it fits in my schedule."
Twice in the past 3 months I've had dates ask this as I was kissing them goodbye. I hate that line. She is saying "Keep chasing me and keep paying".
I generally go with keeping the fundamental principles of being consistent in my behavior and being a challenge. However, when things are her idea I typically will go along with it if it is reasonable.
Did you ever have a girl like you and you wanted nothing to do with her?
I'm not really sure what you're saying, but you're definitely overanalyzing this. A lot of chicks will not hit you up at all until after the 2nd or 3rd date. Sometimes their interest level isn't there yet, sometimes they are shy, or some of them simply refuse to chase men until they're smitten. These chicks can do this and still exhibit other more crucial signs of interests (i.e. Accepting and showing up on dates)
You're blowing leads. You know that right?
I've dated beautiful girls since 1987, you know that, right?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
At dinner last Friday, she asked me if I went out on any other dates this week. Before I can answer, she tells me that she had two dates last week lined up before we hung out on Friday night. I acted like I didnt care. It was a **** test, she backtracked and changed her story to that she was "talking" to two guys, she actually said, she was waiting for me. Not sure why she said she was waiting for me, when she is the one that told me that she would let me know if she was available on Friday as we got closer to the day. I laughed to myself. She obviously has high interest. She texted me when she got home and thanked me for a great night. I texted her three days later to set up another date and she responded immediately. I. have also reached out to two other new girls I met on Bumble. I am finding a hard time fitting all of these women into my schedule. How do you guys do it!
This gets to the most basic lead/respond interaction. I always say "Thank you" ON the date. Therefore I don't feel the need to send another Thank you via text. Granted I'm old school (according to @bigneil since I am pre 1975 vintage), and was raised that ladies don't call men because that is pursuing a man, or pursuit, which is the man's role.
Sure they do, and the best women I've been with had qualities such as this. Thinking about not only themselves.
I disagree. Think of the man as her would-be employer and the date as an interview. You don't get to say thank you in person and not send a thank-you note (in writing) after the interview. The boss might not have heard you say thank-you.
