Texting (Why You Shouldn't)

[cola]

I wouldn't agree with that last sentence bro. Sex doesn't mean investment for a woman in 2017. A woman uses sex to get what she wants from a man. Once he can no longer give her what she wants, she will leave in a heartbeat and crush him at the same time.

Remember men, sex is a TOOL for a woman to achieve her AGENDA, not an act of love.

You just said sex isn't an investment for a woman, then a sentence later said women use sex to get what they want.
Which is the definition of an investment.
Investing in something for a return later.
*scratches head*
Ironic your name is Trump. You make your points just like him.

 

[Konada]

They are all asking her out bruh.
Think about it from a woman's perspective.

Both are equal in looks and status
Guy A: got her phone number 4 days ago. He has texted her 2x just asking how's her day and asking a couple well thought out questions about her as a person & made her smile.

Guy B: got her number 4 days ago as well. Hasn't sent a single text message.

The both ask her to dinner Saturday evening. She has no plans.

Who do you think she will choose?
Remember they are both equal In looks and status.

Premise is that they both have looks and status.

Lesson: Improve your looks and status such that you're a 20% male then you wouldn't have to waste headspace on what to text girls.

 

[SmooveMooves]

OP must be dealing with women who are 45+

While I think a 5 minute phone call does more than a week of texting most young women might find it "odd" these are the times we live in

Women don't answer phone calls in 2017. Dude lives in 2002 lala land fantasy world with a flip phone.

 

[ubercat]

I ll do a bit of both. Now admittedly I m shooting for 30s and up women. I think Neil's got the balance right. I definitely tend to the minimal side. I think increasing IL is inherently more difficult than finding interested girls. Until they install a panty rain guage on chicks saying yes to a date or hanging out is a good sign. So I invest my time and tolerance in the most profitable way. So far I still seem to score so y would I do more?

Same principle as booking double headers is easier than trying to prevent flakes.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Women don't answer phone calls in 2017. Dude lives in 2002 lala land fantasy world with a flip phone.

The ****? Of course they answer. They must not be answer your calls...

 

[Julian]

Its not fallacious because you specifically denied that texting could be used to get sex and I gave an example.

"No woman has ever slept with a guy because he was great at texting. (If she has, show me.)"

Example: LDR, long distance seduction etc. Literally sleeping with you based on your texting.

ive smashed half a dozen chicks in LDR's....lol sucks for their cuck boyfriends. they got a nice "love and miss you babe " txt from their gf in between fuk sessions. u figure it out dawg.


and honestly PHONE CALLS are the best trust me. when this chick has 30 txt msgs in her inboxes...then out of the blue alpha JULIAN is calling? shes gonna be like wtf does this dude want...hes CALLING? She WILL answer.or she WILL call back. Chicks are like cats, they are curious and NEED TO KNOW.

PLUS when u actually talk to her you can use real seduction, conversation, tone, etc to get her going. and you can cover 10x as much ground in 5 minute convo then you can in a 2 day string of texts. if u dont believe me then try it bitches

 

[resilient]

ive smashed half a dozen chicks in LDR's....lol sucks for their cuck boyfriends. they got a nice "love and miss you babe " txt from their gf in between fuk sessions. u figure it out dawg.

YAAA DAWG!

 

[Trump]

You just said sex isn't an investment for a woman, then a sentence later said women use sex to get what they want.
Which is the definition of an investment.
Investing in something for a return later.

Let's rephrase. Sex isn't an emotional investment for a woman.

 

[bigneil]

Talking on land lines is like a virtual date. But talking on cell phones?? I'd rather put my brain in the microwave. It throws off the timing and I get irritable on cell phones. They are NOT healthy. Only black women talk on cell phones (to other black women).

 

[EyeBRollin]

Why on earth would you want to be making phone calls?

Why would you want to escalate any part of the relationship that you don't need to?

Because. Like asking immediately for a date, it is a test of interest level. An interested woman will call you back, even if she doesn't care for the phone. An uninterested woman won't, and may even get annoyed. Why bother with this kind of woman? NEXT

At the end of the day, my philosophy is to not make anything easier for the woman. **** their turf. My turf is the most direct way to get her in person for the seduction. Every step of the way is a test. If she doesn't want to play ball she can go find some other chump. If you make things easier for her, neither one of you will ever know how much she really likes you.

 

[bigneil]

Because. Like asking immediately for a date, it is a test of interest level. An interested woman will call you back, even if she doesn't care for the phone. An uninterested woman won't, and may even get annoyed. Why bother with this kind of woman? NEXT

At the end of the day, my philosophy is to not make anything easier for the woman. **** their turf. My turf is the most direct way to get her in person for the seduction. Every step of the way is a test. If she doesn't want to play ball she can go find some other chump. If you make things easier for her, neither one of you will ever know how much she really likes you.

I agree with this philosophy, but try land lines.

 

[Glassguy]

I don't think you grasp how many males are pursuing any one given female in 2017.
These days a girl who is a 6 literally has 100 men messaging her on facebook, Instagram, Tinder & Snapchat on a weekly basis.

You have to text more frequently now until
you get the lay. Good text game separates you from the masses.
Once she has invested In you by giving you sex then you can tone down on the texting or switch over to the "text only to set up meetings" method.
Not before though.

Good post my man. Although my text game is sometimes a little weak, I am good at judging interest level.

Thats where a lot of guys go wrong. They keep texting, throwing themselves at these chicks who have low or slightly medium interest levels and it just makes the chicks go cold. If I feel her interest level isnt very high, I just pull away. Some of them come back, some dont. Those that come back are probably wondering why I am not blowing them up like every other guy, which also separates myself from the pack.

I also feel as once you've went out and fvcked them good, you can really limit the amount of texting/messaging. Just reciprocate. Its an easy way to get them chasing instead of the other way around.

If you didnt fvck them good, they are still on their hunt for the D lol.

 

[zekko]

Talking on land lines is like a virtual date. But talking on cell phones?? I'd rather put my brain in the microwave.

Yeah, but most people don't have landlines anymore. Well, I do, but I'm an old fart.
Just for the record, I hate telephones.

 

[BeTheChange]

I don't think you grasp how many males are pursuing any one given female in 2017.
These days a girl who is a 6 literally has 100 men messaging her on facebook, Instagram, Tinder & Snapchat on a weekly basis.

You have to text more frequently now until
you get the lay. Good text game separates you from the masses.
Once she has invested In you by giving you sex then you can tone down on the texting or switch over to the "text only to set up meetings" method.
Not before though.

I would add that continuous is even more important until she LOVES you. Sex once or twice isn't enough.

I was having plates drop off regularly because I only messaged them for meet ups and dates. I have recently started messaging girls more regularly and seen a massive uptake in interest and non-flakiness. This isn't 1995 anymore guys.

Girls are human beings. They still want to feel like you're friends. That you actually like them as people. Not just that you want to meet up to bang. There's always someone talking to them. So they'll be more invested in the guy who wants to know about their day and listen to their pointless sh*t.

 

[bigneil]

Needle off record: Didn't Brad Pitt just get dumped by Angelina Jolie who badmouthed him?

 

[JohnChops]

I agree texting can build rapport. These kinds of games (like never text her) are why girls end up with the other guy. The other guy, who is, you know, not afraid to communicate with her?

Now if you don't like to text, don't. Chances are you won't be good at it anyway. But not to do it just as some sort of "game" strategy seems silly.

Agreed, I have built rapport over text many times before laying a girl, afterwards, the texting lessens naturally. By this time, she is usually into you, and she will text you anyway, which if she does, you keep the conversation going as long as YOU want to.

Playing text games is bullsh1t, do as you like. If you want to fvck the girl, ignoring her is the wrong way to do it. However, texting her "Hey gorgeous xoxoxo " Like some guys on here post, albeit not as bad, is the wrong texting approach.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Texting promotes over communication, which ends up dampening attraction. Occasional texts here and there maybe ok. Don't set your connection with her so she can get her "fix" of you through texting alone. A lot of them are doing that now adays, using guys for entertaining "pen pals" on text...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Needle off record: Didn't Brad Pitt just get dumped by Angelina Jolie who badmouthed him?

Brad is such a cucked beta he will never learn!!!! LOL. Just joking. They make targets out of the best of the best of the best, and they get their "kills"...

 

[marmel75]

I don't think you grasp how many males are pursuing any one given female in 2017.
These days a girl who is a 6 literally has 100 men messaging her on facebook, Instagram, Tinder & Snapchat on a weekly basis.

You have to text more frequently now until
you get the lay. Good text game separates you from the masses.
Once she has invested In you by giving you sex then you can tone down on the texting or switch over to the "text only to set up meetings" method.
Not before though.

Ding ding ding...we have a winner.

However, people need to stop saying you HAVE to do this or you HAVE to do that. There are many different ways that will work, and it's up to you to figure out which one works best for your personality.

A lot of women will just assume you aren't interested in them and won't go out with you anymore if you aren't texting them more frequently than what the OP recommends. It depends on your personality and even moreso their perception of your personality...for some people this will work well, for others(like myself), it simply leads to women who would be interested going cold because they assume I'm not interested. It took me quite a while to stop listening to hard and fast rules and start realizing things are a lot more fluid and if you aren't flexible you are missing out ona lot of potential lays.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I would add that continuous is even more important until she LOVES you. Sex once or twice isn't enough.

I was having plates drop off regularly because I only messaged them for meet ups and dates. I have recently started messaging girls more regularly and seen a massive uptake in interest and non-flakiness. This isn't 1995 anymore guys.

Girls are human beings. They still want to feel like you're friends. That you actually like them as people. Not just that you want to meet up to bang. There's always someone talking to them. So they'll be more invested in the guy who wants to know about their day and listen to their pointless sh*t.

We can disagree on tactics all day, but you're uttering pure falsehoods.

Women don't give a **** about you or any attention you give them until their feelings are involved. You can go jump off a bridge and she wouldn't care. You don't engage a woman's feelings by being her gay male girlfriend or her text buddy. You build attraction, which is done in person then and in her time away from you. Texting destroys her attraction. She can't miss you if you're texting her, guy.

Women do not care how much you like them. This is the biggest falsehood in your post. Your interest level and investment in her is irrelevant. Women care about their interest, not yours.