BeTheChange
Master Don Juan
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Money is less useful a tool, now more than ever because:
$0 - $50,000
High marginal benefit. Having no income vs making enough to get by ($25,000 - $50,000 depending on location) will make a MASSIVE difference to your ability to game women. If you can't make enough to sustain yourself it will most likely floor your confidence and make gaming difficult. Dating might be a possibility but holding on to a half decent chick in the medium to long term will be a challenge.
$50,000 - $150,000
Low marginal benefit. Unless you want to bleed your bank account dry the list of things you can offer a woman, that she can't already get for herself is miniscule. Focusing on game and looks will make a much bigger difference here. Spending $300 on a few outfits that fit well, a haircut that brings out your best features and a gym membership will go a lot further than a $6,000 Rolex on your wrist.
$150,000 - $350,000
Moderate marginal benefit. This is where things get interesting. At this point you have enough money to afford success indicators. You can hire a nutritionist, personal trainer and eat the best food to stay healthy, lean and clear skinned. You can dress very well. All of which allow you to maximise your looks.
You can date multiple women and spend (what they would consider) generous amounts and if done in the right way comes across as fun and carefree rather than provider-esque. You can travel in style. You can afford the type of car that actually make women take notice. And you can do all these things while still saving money each month. There is a certain intangible confidence that comes from this.
$350,000+
High marginal benefit. You've arrived. Most women will rarely meet a guy who can offer the kind of lifestyle that making this kind of money gives you. And of those who can, most are married with kids. This is the case even in places like NYC, LA or London.
Unless you have next to no time to game women or are extremely ugly / socially awkward you will pull 8s and 9s with ease.
I've been to enough clubs to know that ostentatious displays of wealth, handled in the right way absolutely get a woman interested, but they have to be backed up by substance. Ordering sparkly bottles won't keep a HB9 interested if you take her back to your crummy apartment after. A bentley parked outside will.
As always there are exceptions but I believe the above applies to the vast majority of post college men and women.
- Women can achieve a good standard of living without men. On average women actually outearn men in their 20s.
- The government ensures a basic minimum living standard, with many benefits in practice exclusive to women
$0 - $50,000
High marginal benefit. Having no income vs making enough to get by ($25,000 - $50,000 depending on location) will make a MASSIVE difference to your ability to game women. If you can't make enough to sustain yourself it will most likely floor your confidence and make gaming difficult. Dating might be a possibility but holding on to a half decent chick in the medium to long term will be a challenge.
$50,000 - $150,000
Low marginal benefit. Unless you want to bleed your bank account dry the list of things you can offer a woman, that she can't already get for herself is miniscule. Focusing on game and looks will make a much bigger difference here. Spending $300 on a few outfits that fit well, a haircut that brings out your best features and a gym membership will go a lot further than a $6,000 Rolex on your wrist.
$150,000 - $350,000
Moderate marginal benefit. This is where things get interesting. At this point you have enough money to afford success indicators. You can hire a nutritionist, personal trainer and eat the best food to stay healthy, lean and clear skinned. You can dress very well. All of which allow you to maximise your looks.
You can date multiple women and spend (what they would consider) generous amounts and if done in the right way comes across as fun and carefree rather than provider-esque. You can travel in style. You can afford the type of car that actually make women take notice. And you can do all these things while still saving money each month. There is a certain intangible confidence that comes from this.
$350,000+
High marginal benefit. You've arrived. Most women will rarely meet a guy who can offer the kind of lifestyle that making this kind of money gives you. And of those who can, most are married with kids. This is the case even in places like NYC, LA or London.
Unless you have next to no time to game women or are extremely ugly / socially awkward you will pull 8s and 9s with ease.
I've been to enough clubs to know that ostentatious displays of wealth, handled in the right way absolutely get a woman interested, but they have to be backed up by substance. Ordering sparkly bottles won't keep a HB9 interested if you take her back to your crummy apartment after. A bentley parked outside will.
As always there are exceptions but I believe the above applies to the vast majority of post college men and women.
