Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
2016 was a year for me where I didn’t have much free time to meet as many women in reality as I probably should have
This led me to heavily using apps like tinder and social media such as Facebook / snapchat in an attempt to meet some
I had mixed results but on the hole unless you have mutual friends with her or some type of history it just doesn’t work and here’s why
1) women are emotion driven its all about how you make them feel , how can you make a woman feel anything through a text based message when she’s never met you before !?! well the answer is you can’t, and if you can then please feel free to tell me how
2) Women are extremely temperamental ……you ever been having a nice flowing text convo with a chick and suddenly she just vanishes off the face of the earth with the only plausible explanation being she must have just been hit by a bus ? yea me too
Again unless she has that emotional connection to you , you can get used to this sort of behaviour
of course in reality it’s a lot harder for a woman to simply disappear whilst you are in the middle of having a conversation with her
3) There are also seriously badly jaded & damaged women lurking on sites like tinder / POF / Match and you have to ask yourself what exactly a woman is doing on these sites in the first place
When you think about it dating for normal women even with average looks shouldn’t be difficult all they really need to do is doll themselves up and not be overweight although I know guys that aren’t even fussy with that, society ensures this by placing pressure on the male to always “make the first move”
Again in reality its difficult for a woman to hide personality flaws
4) don’t underestimate how many matches girls on these sites are getting , a simple bit of cleavage is likely to attract at least 500 – 1000 matches easily even if a lot of them are guys she doesn’t want they are still there telling her how “beautiful she is “ its easy for people to send messages
Of course in reality not every guy is going to have the confidence to approach a woman whilst she’s off guard in a coffee shop instantly setting you apart from the herd
Now don’t get me wrong I have had SOME success with tinder I would say ive gotten laid between 5 & 10 times through it but only 2 or 3 of those have been from a completely cold opening the others I already knew or had some sort of mutual friend with
To summarize app and online dating is a waste of time , you may get lucky once in a blue moon but overall the work and trawling required to do it far outweighs the rewards
Your far more likely to get laid by approaching that chick reading a book in the coffee shop or even better getting yourself involved in a social circle that has plenty of women in it
This led me to heavily using apps like tinder and social media such as Facebook / snapchat in an attempt to meet some
I had mixed results but on the hole unless you have mutual friends with her or some type of history it just doesn’t work and here’s why
1) women are emotion driven its all about how you make them feel , how can you make a woman feel anything through a text based message when she’s never met you before !?! well the answer is you can’t, and if you can then please feel free to tell me how
2) Women are extremely temperamental ……you ever been having a nice flowing text convo with a chick and suddenly she just vanishes off the face of the earth with the only plausible explanation being she must have just been hit by a bus ? yea me too
Again unless she has that emotional connection to you , you can get used to this sort of behaviour
of course in reality it’s a lot harder for a woman to simply disappear whilst you are in the middle of having a conversation with her
3) There are also seriously badly jaded & damaged women lurking on sites like tinder / POF / Match and you have to ask yourself what exactly a woman is doing on these sites in the first place
When you think about it dating for normal women even with average looks shouldn’t be difficult all they really need to do is doll themselves up and not be overweight although I know guys that aren’t even fussy with that, society ensures this by placing pressure on the male to always “make the first move”
Again in reality its difficult for a woman to hide personality flaws
4) don’t underestimate how many matches girls on these sites are getting , a simple bit of cleavage is likely to attract at least 500 – 1000 matches easily even if a lot of them are guys she doesn’t want they are still there telling her how “beautiful she is “ its easy for people to send messages
Of course in reality not every guy is going to have the confidence to approach a woman whilst she’s off guard in a coffee shop instantly setting you apart from the herd
Now don’t get me wrong I have had SOME success with tinder I would say ive gotten laid between 5 & 10 times through it but only 2 or 3 of those have been from a completely cold opening the others I already knew or had some sort of mutual friend with
To summarize app and online dating is a waste of time , you may get lucky once in a blue moon but overall the work and trawling required to do it far outweighs the rewards
Your far more likely to get laid by approaching that chick reading a book in the coffee shop or even better getting yourself involved in a social circle that has plenty of women in it