Why online and app dating simply doesn’t work

Poonani Maker

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I know this is Bad, and I "should" be ashamed, but I've recently uploaded pics of me with my college-aged nieces. Makes me look like I have "social proof" with cool girls. I can tell you that I've received A LOT of views since posting pics of Me with other (happy) people in it.
 

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as I said at the start its a LOT of work for slim rewards and you always risk running into a nutjob who's catfishing as your dream girl

I will still keep tinder because I like to see what I can get on the market and test out new pics

but I am telling you 80% of the girls that are on OLD are either looking for someone that doesn't exist "I.E prince charming" or they are there to hunt food for they're ego's

women are far too temperamental and situational for something like OLD to work for them and us

in reality you cant beat being in the right place at the right time

the amount of girls who I've banged just because I caught them at JUST the right time is so exhilarating
 

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Online dating seems desperate, needy, creepy to me. Plus, you're going out of your way. Installing an app, using it to find someone... (using power) which chips away at your frame slowly. Most of the girls on there are 5luts anyway. Is that what you want?

If you can't step outside into your own neighborhood/town and talk to a woman, you've got issues.

Feel free to disagree.
 

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I know this is Bad, and I "should" be ashamed, but I've recently uploaded pics of me with my college-aged nieces. Makes me look like I have "social proof" with cool girls. I can tell you that I've received A LOT of views since posting pics of Me with other (happy) people in it.
Is the chick in the red outfit your niece?
 

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I struggle to view OLD as anything other than a hunting ground for disordered and dysfunctional people so with that in mind... i no longer do it.. but each to their own..
 

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Online dating seems desperate, needy, creepy to me. Plus, you're going out of your way. Installing an app, using it to find someone... (using power) which chips away at your frame slowly. Most of the girls on there are 5luts anyway. Is that what you want?

If you can't step outside into your own neighborhood/town and talk to a woman, you've got issues.

Feel free to disagree.
I definitely think it should not be your main source of finding female company. That would just be weird, and as you say, you want to be meeting people in the normal course of your day.

Since I have pretty much given up on the bar scene as a place to meet quality woman, I've just signed up with Badoo as a sort of experiment. I check in from time to time, but think of it as quite secondary, or supplementary, to meeting women in real life.
 
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