Wow...this REALLY is the mindset of most women, apparently...

[marmel75]

So basically this woman says she can sit around, not go to work if she feels like it, have no job and just hang out at the house and do whatever because of him working all the time...
And of course probably because he doesn't have any balls to put his foot down or make any demands of her while she is sitting around doing nothing while the kids are in school...

http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2016/08/29/letter-to-my-breadwinner-husband.html

She thinks she is writing a thank you letter but it ends up reading like a letter showing everything that is wrong with women these days...

 

[Tenacity]

So basically this woman says she can sit around, not go to work if she feels like it, have no job and just hang out at the house and do whatever because of him working all the time...
And of course probably because he doesn't have any balls to put his foot down or make any demands of her while she is sitting around doing nothing while the kids are in school...

http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2016/08/29/letter-to-my-breadwinner-husband.html

She thinks she is writing a thank you letter but it ends up reading like a letter showing everything that is wrong with women these days...

Lol, I couldn't finish reading the article......it's making my red pill rage WORSE!

 

[sharkbeat]

Really? Although it was badly written, I dont see much wrong with it. A woman expressing gratitude to her hard-working husband.

Maybe I am not reading what you are reading...

 

[BeTheChange]

"So I wanted to take this moment to thank you for everything you’ve done on my behalf and on behalf of our children. Don’t think I don’t notice the sacrifices you’ve made and continue to make. Our culture may not care, but I do.

I love you."

Oh yeah...she is so entitled...

 

[SeymourCake]

I did not read the article, but isn't this the traditional way of doing things? What's wrong with a stay-at-home wife looking after the house and children?

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I read that article as a woman who is very grateful to have a proper man providing for her, she recognizes this and knows her place as a wife in a traditional manner we've all come to understand what marriage entails. What's the problem here?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Women think off of emotions, not logic. If she reads this again if she's bored, she will think how spoiled she sounds, but at the time of writing this, she was sincere. You guys complain about women too much.

 

[BeTheChange]

I read that article as a woman who is very grateful to have a proper man providing for her, she recognizes this and knows her place as a wife in a traditional manner we've all come to understand what marriage entails. What's the problem here?

This. Can't win really can you. Think it's very telling which posters are complaining about this...perhaps the type of poster that simply wants to be miserable for the rest of his life

My ex gf, for all her sins, was very low maintenance and as a student she had a lot more free time than me and did ALL the housework, cooking, washing, food shopping and meal planning. I used to complain all the time that she had it easy and this came to be a point of resentment for me. Damn I was wrong! It wasn't until she left that I realised that this stuff is no joke boys...it's a full time job! Throw a few young kids in the mix and you can't not appreciate a house wife's role.

 

[playa99]

I read that article as a woman who is very grateful to have a proper man providing for her, she recognizes this and knows her place as a wife in a traditional manner we've all come to understand what marriage entails. What's the problem here?

+1. I want kids, I want my kids to grow up in a good home. I would want my GF to want to take time off her career to raise my children. I also want her to have her own career to go back to once the kids have grown up.

The one thing I would not do is sacrifice my dreams, which I am beginning to achieve!

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Really? Although it was badly written, I dont see much wrong with it. A woman expressing gratitude to her hard-working husband.

Maybe I am not reading what you are reading...

I'm with you on this one. I thought it was a long overdue acknowledgement of gratitude. So many of these professional hausfraus take it for granted. I found it refreshingly old fashioned.

 

[logicallefty]

"So I wanted to take this moment to thank you for everything you’ve done on my behalf and on behalf of our children. Don’t think I don’t notice the sacrifices you’ve made and continue to make. Our culture may not care, but I do.

I love you."

Oh yeah...she is so entitled...

((and thank you for working so many long hard hours so i have extra time with my unemployed boyfriend. He really likes fvcking me in our bed while you are at work. And thank you for providing me enough 'fun money' that i can afford to give him gas money to come see me at our house. "))

 

[RangerMIke]

Traditionalism and Feminism are two sides of the same coin with the end state being men are expected to sacrifice for women.

Traditionalist -- Men sacrifice because that is what being a 'good man' is all about. Be a good drone and put you're needs last for the good of society.

Feminist -- Men sacrifice because you have an unfair advantage over women, and you have to make up for centuries of patriarchal oppression. Be a good male and allow us to take from you and give to women for the good of society.

 

[Tenacity]

To those of you guys asking what's wrong with this article? Let me help you understand:

- Cost of living is through the roof today while modern technology does NOT require stay at home parents anymore. The cost of daycare can be managed properly using family/friends for reduced costs, plus once the kids get to a particular age there's really no need for daycare as they are at school while you are at work.

- The chick is living her "comfortable life" as a result of the blood, sweat, and tears of her husband slaving away trying to provide for a house full of fvcking people. Back in the day before modern technology, being a stay at home parent wasn't COMFORTABLE....there was real work to do in the house which required blood, sweat and tears.

- This bytch says she has time to be a "writer" now, but what she also has time for is to send naked pics of her tits and a.ss to losers, bums, thugs, criminals, and deadbeats on social media while her husband is out slaving away.

- Furthermore, if for whatever reason she decides to divorce this guy, he will be on the hook for alimony payments out of the a.ss.

So what's wrong with this you ask? Everything is wrong with it. IF you get into any structured legal relationship with a woman, MAKE HER A.SS WORK! Don't fall for that shyt about daycare or staying home with the kids, it's not that fvcking serious.

Plus you working and bringing in $50k and her working bringing in $40k, gives you $90k in income before the benefits kick in from either one or both of your jobs. You don't want to be forced to be slaving away making $60k to feed a household full of people, so this bytch can be "comfortable" writing bad blog articles on the internet all day and showing her naked A.SS to bums/losers on social media behind your back.

 

[The Duke]

It sounds like she is appreciative and gives credit to her husband. If this arrangement makes the husband happy and he gets what he wants out of it, then what does it matter? Just because you aren't ok with it doesn't make it bad or whats wrong with the world! Open your mind people!

And Tenacity, I don't know what "modern technology" there is that prepares meals, cleans dishes, washes clothes, and scrubs toilets so she can stay at home sitting on her azz? Those chores are still done much like they were 50yrs ago.

And don't think that a "working" woman won't have time show her naked azz to bums/losers. lol

 

[The Duke]

You guys realize that this "house wife" is playing a traditional/submissive role. It was the feminists that despised this type of role. It was the feminist that pushed for voting equality, equal pay, reproductive rights, equal roles in the work force to match/exceed what men had. The feminist wanted the woman out of the house away from the demeaning work of "cleaning, cooking, and sechs" or whatever else her "controlling" husband might want.

I guess I'm really confused here. Do you guys want a submissive woman or not? Or do you want a woman that acts like a man? Do you really want to be told what to do when you live with a woman that makes what you do or more? And most of these men with a wife that stays at home aren't making <$60K.

This is what a good house wife did in the 1950's. They took care of their man's needs. This is what we have gotten away from. This is what the old days were like. I come from a midwestern farm/ranch family. I've got 6 aunts that all lived this life. My own mom even did this for my dad part time.
http://www.littlethings.com/1950s-good-housewife-guide/

And Tenacity, before you reply.....go read the entire article. And read it twice like I did! Then let yourself calm down before you start pounding at your keyboard.

 

[Tenacity]

And Tenacity, I don't know what "modern technology" there is that prepares meals, cleans dishes, washes clothes, and scrubs toilets so she can stay at home sitting on her azz? Those chores are still done much like they were 50yrs ago.

- It takes minutes to prepare full course meals today by just taking the meat, slapping it in a pan, and hitting the timer on the oven. Also many side dishes come pretty much ready to go and just require a couple of minutes of heating to finish out.

- Clothes are easily slapped in a washing machine, then slapped in a dryer, then you can fold them up or slap them in the drawer/closet once done, again...that takes only minutes.

- To clean the house, you can run a vacuum up the floor, dust, and wipe off the counter tops, that takes no more than 45 minutes if you have a regular size house. The kids should be responsible for keeping their own room clean and you can even make the kids do household chores as well.

There's absolutely no need for a stay at home chick/spouse in 2016.

You guys realize that this "house wife" is playing a traditional/submissive role.

You're 100% correct, she's PLAYING a role.....which means it's all an act.

Laws have changed, markets have changed, modern technology has changed, and cost of living has gone through the roof.

We are no longer in 1942. Women can work, vote, run a business, get educated, be President like Hillary, and do pretty much every damn thing a man can. Any woman NOT doing that today is PLAYING a role, manipulating what Poon King would refer to as a beta fa.ggot into slaving away all damn day.....while his woman sits on her fvcking a.ss at home all day doing nothing.

She's not slaving away in the house all day, she's sitting "comfortably" on her couch writing stupid articles, flirting with losers online, and watching the latest episode of Maury to see who the baby daddy is.

I guess I'm really confused here. Do you guys want a submissive woman or not?

I want a 21st century balanced woman.

This means she works out, looks good, is educated, has her finances together, and has a good attitude/personality. Me and her can come TOGETHER on a partnership to combine incomes, raise kids, reduce our individual expenses in the process, and build wealth together.

She's not living off ME, and I'm not living off HER....we are a tag team (and the best damn tag team) like the fvcking Hart Foundation in the early 90's WWF lol.

To allow a chick to sit on her fvcking a.ss all day in 2016, while you slave away at work trying to provide for 4 or more people in a household (including yourself).....is the stupidest shyt I've ever seen lol.

 

[marmel75]

You guys realize that this "house wife" is playing a traditional/submissive role. It was the feminists that despised this type of role. It was the feminist that pushed for voting equality, equal pay, reproductive rights, equal roles in the work force to match/exceed what men had. The feminist wanted the woman out of the house away from the demeaning work of "cleaning, cooking, and sechs" or whatever else her "controlling" husband might want.

I guess I'm really confused here. Do you guys want a submissive woman or not? Or do you want a woman that acts like a man? Do you really want to be told what to do when you live with a woman that makes what you do or more? And most of these men with a wife that stays at home aren't making <$60K.

This is what a good house wife did in the 1950's. They took care of their man's needs. This is what we have gotten away from. This is what the old days were like. I come from a midwestern farm/ranch family. I've got 6 aunts that all lived this life. My own mom even did this for my dad part time.
http://www.littlethings.com/1950s-good-housewife-guide/

And Tenacity, before you reply.....go read the entire article. And read it twice like I did! Then let yourself calm down before you start pounding at your keyboard.

Maybe, other than she can't be bothered to simply go shopping because it's too much work..wonder what the house must look like if she can't be bothered to even shop for food...oh...silly me...I forgot, she probably convinced her husband she needed a maid so she could do less work...and I wonder what happens when the husband wants sex...she probably is so tired from a hard day of "work"...

That's the problem I have...because that whole "I'm too lazy to go to the store" piece doesn't end at the store...you can be damn sure it filters through the rest of her "responsibilities" so to speak...

 

[El Payaso]

I didn't really see anything wrong with it. I mean, yeah she's living off better than her husband but alas, that's just the way it is. Men have traditionally suffered while women enjoyed the benefits of their labor.

All I saw was her thanking her husband. It might be hollow or vapid or just for show but it was something.

 

[The Duke]

Tenacity- sounds like you got it all figured out. Just like everything else with you. You aren’t here to learn, understand or improve. Its why you are so angry and can’t get what you want. Let me know how your 21st century wife acts when she starts making more than you do someday. Come back and report. Its never a 50/50 deal with a woman! I’ve got a few years on you and have experienced all sides of this. I’ve grown up in an era where I got to see how it used to be and how it is now.

You realize that the 21st century woman also coincides with the all time record divorce rates? According to numerous surveys the 21st woman is also the most unhappy woman of all time. Why do you suppose this is? The main thing that has changed is women quit playing the subservient house wife role. I also belive that many are out of their league in the work force. They aren't meant to do things men do.

But hey, I like the concept of the 50/50 deal and I respect it and I wish it could work. But I tried it and I just don’t see how its possible. I see more success and happier marriages with those where the woman stayed at home. You can’t have two Chief’s trying to run the show.
The 50/50 deal is not natural, never has been. Since cave man days, the man had his role as provider and the women tended to the children/cooked.

I’d see if I couldn’t find a way to make a better living so money doesn’t matter so much. Your perspective might change and you might have better luck with higher quality women.

 

[The Duke]

Maybe, other than she can't be bothered to simply go shopping because it's too much work.....

If you will go back and read the article you will hopefully realize that it isn't that she can't be bothered to go to the store! She previously used to go on a weekly basis, now she goes on a daily basis! The part of planning out an entire week's menu in advance is what she doesn't do anymore.