Wow...this REALLY is the mindset of most women, apparently...

[mrgoodstuff]

Okay, but let me ask you a question....first let me quote more of your reply:




Okay so let's take a look at this.

- Girls like the ones you are discussing (which I already know the type of girls you are talking about) don't like men who look like they have a lack of self control because it shows lack of discipline. And they are not going to quote, unquote "put up with it".

- Furthermore, these girls are afraid of little nerdy a.ss Tenacity because his text message rants are full of curse words and "oh my"...they are so in fear of their life.

I got it.

Then on the other hand, you highlight SoFloBro, which I have no issue with BTW but I have to use this to highlight the POINT I'm trying to make. You mention how SoFloBro has no job, no money, and nothing to offer....if the girls we are discussing don't like men who have a lack of discipline, how is it that they can like men like SoFloBro who have no job and no money, who you say lays arounds their place all week and they PROVIDE/GIVE things to him?

Isn't that the same exact picture of the thug/loser I just described, who gets EVERYTHING for nothing, while I'm expected to be 100% perfect to receive ANYTHING?

Furthermore, while we are on the same thugs.....I'm wrong when I have my little episodes, I'm completely wrong. But they are usually (80% of the time) via text message and within 30 minutes, I've already apologized for "going too far".

But the THUG goes off on the same, exact, girl....IN PERSON. He verbally abuses her, physically touches her, and even takes her money/car at times without her permission. And guess what? NONE of that scares her, she stays with him for a 3 - 10 year relationship and even has 2 or 3 of his kids.

So you explain to me how I'm the problem here? Yes, I know I'm wrong when I go off, but the thug is doing 1,000X WORSE than me and she's not leaving him! Matter of fact, not only does she not leave him, but it's like the more he BEATS HER A.SS the more she likes him!

Maybe cause he doesn't care about her, and she's addicted to chasing him and changing the few bad qualities of this thug "snowflake" so he can be more like you tenacity. A lot of women are stupid like that. They will get the guy with the swag and the look and he's all f'd up as a person, but they will be thinking they can change him into a better guy over time like ones like you that actually probably care a little about them and bring something to the table.

 

[Tenacity]

Maybe cause he doesn't care about her, and she's addicted to chasing him and changing the few bad qualities of this thug "snowflake" so he can be more like you tenacity. A lot of women are stupid like that. They will get the guy with the swag and the look and he's all f'd up as a person, but they will be thinking they can change him into a better guy over time like ones like you that actually probably care a little about them and bring something to the table.

So then is what Howie said correct or incorrect then? Howie said the following:

This is a problem! Just like Guru told you when he said it's you! Lack of self control(anger) shows lack of discipline. Girls like the ones we are talking about aren't going to put up with this. Its going to scare them. You acting this way does not make them feel safe and secure and nobody wants to do nice things for somebody that acts crazy.

You see I've actually HEARD from women directly the same thing that Howie said, but once again....it makes no sense because for it to make SENSE, then the girl would leave Tenacity and go date a guy who is better than Tenacity. Right? But when a girl leaves Tenacity to date a guy with 1,000X the issues I have, who not just "rants" like I do, but actually BEATS her a.ss, takes money from her, etc......then how the hell does that make any sense?

And I'm not just accepting some "women are emotional and not logical" non-sense cause that's bullshyt. Like I've been saying in other threads, I want something deeper with women and I do have personal bitter/anger issues in relation to them that I'm trying to get over. I can never get over that shyt until I found out the truth. Women aren't going to give me the truth. They talk in fvcking circles.

- Tenacity has to be 100% perfect to get 1/10 of the loyalty, love, and respect the Thug gets. If Tenacity does 1 RANT, just 1 RANT via text message.....she's done, she cuts Tenacity off, she can no longer be with Tenacity.

- The Thug doesn't have to work, has no car, does not have his own place, can have 2 other kids he's not taking care of, be 35, sleep on her couch....and she will give him 110% loyalty, love, and respect in the form of a 3 - 10 year relationship. And oh yeah, he physically, verbally, and financially abuses her often.

Make THAT make ANY fvcking sense. Someone said it's because the Thug sexes her right, that's bullshyt, I fvck and make her nut like any other dude does. Someone said it's because the Thug makes her feel protected, well, that would be stupid because he brings DRAMA to her life and is living OFF of her, not providing FOR her.

I can't get over my personal anger issues with women until this shyt is sorted out. From there, I have to then continue to filter the field to find a woman without a bunch of kids, bad finances, and bad weight issues to even do something serious with in the first place.

 

[marmel75]

So then is what Howie said correct or incorrect then? Howie said the following:



You see I've actually HEARD from women directly the same thing that Howie said, but once again....it makes no sense because for it to make SENSE, then the girl would leave Tenacity and go date a guy who is better than Tenacity. Right? But when a girl leaves Tenacity to date a guy with 1,000X the issues I have, who not just "rants" like I do, but actually BEATS her a.ss, takes money from her, etc......then how the hell does that make any sense?

And I'm not just accepting some "women are emotional and not logical" non-sense cause that's bullshyt. Like I've been saying in other threads, I want something deeper with women and I do have personal bitter/anger issues in relation to them that I'm trying to get over. I can never get over that shyt until I found out the truth. Women aren't going to give me the truth. They talk in fvcking circles.

- Tenacity has to be 100% perfect to get 1/10 of the loyalty, love, and respect the Thug gets. If Tenacity does 1 RANT, just 1 RANT via text message.....she's done, she cuts Tenacity off, she can no longer be with Tenacity.

- The Thug doesn't have to work, has no car, does not have his own place, can have 2 other kids he's not taking care of, be 35, sleep on her couch....and she will give him 110% loyalty, love, and respect in the form of a 3 - 10 year relationship. And oh yeah, he physically, verbally, and financially abuses her often.

Make THAT make ANY fvcking sense. Someone said it's because the Thug sexes her right, that's bullshyt, I fvck and make her nut like any other dude does. Someone said it's because the Thug makes her feel protected, well, that would be stupid because he brings DRAMA to her life and is living OFF of her, not providing FOR her.

I can't get over my personal anger issues with women until this shyt is sorted out. From there, I have to then continue to filter the field to find a woman without a bunch of kids, bad finances, and bad weight issues to even do something serious with in the first place.

Tenacity, you just answered your own question..."The Thug brings DRAMA to her life"...

Ding ding ding...there is the magic answer...drama is like crack cocaine for women...it gives them emotions...good or bad is irrelevant to the fact it makes them FEEL SOMETHING.

I would rather have a woman HATE me than feel nothing for me...ANY emotion a woman has towards you is better than NO emotion...

 

[womensview]

If u guys think we are sitting around I got news for you, we are not. Housework, shopping, cooking, bills, errands, phone calls, taking care of kids/chauffeuring kids and the day goes buy pretty quick.