Gamisch
Master Don Juan
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Spot on. Luck happens when opportunity meets preparation . In chess we say that the better player is somehow always lucky..Sometimes I will come across a couple where a very average looking guy will have a cute chick and I'll be like wtf
But then in 2022 when I was dating a HB8 for a while someone could have thought the same about me
Its all abstract
I wouldn't say i's the main cause of male depression ......being directionless and aimless is
When a man retreats within himself and starts doubting himself thats when the problems start
If your improving yourself every day , being uncomfortable and putting yourself out there life will get better
I keep reminding myself it literally takes one chance encounter with a woman who's keen on you and everything changes immediately
No way can a situation like that be the main cause of depression
Ironically enough the same men who are now complaining because they have no women/woman , will be the same who'll complain about not being able to control a woman once they get one.
You might go from zero to three women and suddenly you're bytching about all the time ,money and energy you are spending.
Most men get opportunities on a daily, they just are never prepared. If a man * @corrector * starts working out today, he might have a sixpack next year. That's no coincidence or luck, its effort and energy that gets rewarded.
You gotta walk around with an attitude that is akin to the God complex; any woman interested shall be saluted for having a great taste, while simultaneously it wont be a surprise to you because again, you are working on yourself day in and out.