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    Favorite Pull Excuses After Dates?

    I have a few more dates coming up soon. I was curious to see what pull excuses you all are using to get the girl back to your place(or pull to her place) these days. When I’m Nightgaming, the excuse is always “an afterparty.” My wing says that his are excuses are to “chill and watch a movie,”...
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    FR: A Date Double Header

    I wanted to talk about some dates last week that I procured. These were both Tinder dates, I'm putting the pictures that I got with my professional photoshoot to work. Date 1 The first one was with a girl named Lina(names censored for privacy.) I messaged her with my standard online sequence...
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    Emergency Fund Destroyed. Back to the Side Hustles?

    Kind of in a vulnerable spot right now and need some help with my finances. I previously had put myself into a really bad financial spot. Running up credit card debt, buying a bunch of stuff that I couldn't afford. I eventually realized how dumb this was, and put together a plan to start...
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    High Paying Job Drains all my Time

    Shoutout to @BPH for pointing out this issue. It’s finally happening, and I needed to make a thread to see if there is anything I could do. I’ve told this story over and over, but I’m a software engineer, and I recently got a new job that pays me $120,000 per year. This is definitely helping me...
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    At this Point, is it worth still pursuing my AWS Solutions Architect Associate Certification?

    I'm a software engineer with two years of experience. I have three certs in my possession, CompTIA Security+, AWS Cloud Practitioner, and AZ-900. I recently jumped jobs to a new company that is paying me significantly more. This happened way faster than I expected, and while I was prepping for...
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    Should I Quit My Job? What’s Next? Part 2

    This is kind of an embarrassing story, but I want to share it anyways. I don’t know what’s next, and wanted to decide. I was working on an issue and my boss had said that I was spending too long on it. I randomly got called into a meeting today. He basically told me “We’ve had this issue in the...
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    Dating without Being in a Calorie Surplus

    What’s up guys. I’ve regrettably put on a bit of weight with everything going on in my life, so I’d like to do a cut for a few months to look good by the summer. With my new professional Tinder pictures that I took, I’m also generating many matches. I’ve always been the kind of guy that thought...
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    Is One Day a Week Enough to Hit my Dating Goals?

    First off, here’s some obligatory background info on where I’m at financially. I’ll try to keep this brief. My old salary was $80,020. One day, my boss randomly called me into a meeting. Long story short, I thought I was in trouble but he gave me about a $6,000 raise. my new yearly salary is now...
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    Off My Chest: Old One-Itis Returned To Life, Third Wheeling? Now What?

    WARNING: Long and emotional post!!! Yo, my SS Family. Hopefully you won’t flame me too bad for this one lol. I got invited out for some drinks yesterday, and this re-ignited a whole host of issues that I’ve ran into in the past. I’ve discussed some of this with other members before, but I...
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    How many women should you be with before even considering a Relationship?

    Wanted to make a thread for discussions’ sake. Yesterday, I got cut off by a girl that I used to bang back in the day once and for all. The reason for this being was that she wanted a relationship, and I declined one. This has happened to me with previous girls too. For me personally, there is...
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    Having Trouble Focusing at Work… Tips?

    What’s up guys! I work as a Software Engineer, been working for about a year. The last three days in a row, I’ve basically gotten NOTHING done at work. I stare at the screen, and I just can’t focus. I can’t even work for 5 minutes before my mind begins to wander away from work. This isn’t...
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    Game Transportation: Bus Every Week or Rental Car Every Two Weeks?

    Hey, guys. Here’s another thread in this “car series” that I’ve been making. So quick recap, my car is busted. I refuse to have my parents co-sign with me on a car loan to get another one. Fvck that. So I’m saving up for a used car, as I’ve mentioned in other threads. My income after taxes is...
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    A Masterclass in What Not to Do

    So this thread is totally not my place and might be a bit inappropriate, but I just had to get this off my chest. I made the mistake of discussing this with my normie friends, and they looked at me like I was crazy. But for some reason, this issue really triggered me today. I think there’s a lot...
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    Game vs Finances: Needed Some Opinions

    Morning guys. I’ve had some thoughts swirling through my head that I wanted some opinions on. I’ll need to give you some background on me first. I’m a software engineer, and I make around 80K a year total. Some of that money is coming from my side hustle as a session musician, which I do during...
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    Lay Report 15(Nightgame)

    This was such a crazy night. It took me a second to write due to being busy with work, but I absolutely had to write a FR on it. I wasn’t able to rent a car this weekend(going through a car situation at the moment) so I planned to take a bus up to Nashville to game with my wing. But because I...
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    How Much Money Do You Need to Live in a Big City, Really?

    Slowly but surely working on improving my finances. I currently make approximately $70K a year as a remote software engineer, working on getting a promotion, and paying off my student + credit card debts bit by bit. I currently live in a small town, and I travel to bigger cities to game and...
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    LR: Short Russian Girl

    Just realized I never wrote a LR for a successful interaction that I had while traveling. Wanted to give you guys an update on that! I approached a short Russian girl from Daygame, it was a fairly quick interaction. I opened direct, and then got her contact info. She wasn’t available for an...
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    Sleep for Working Professionals 2

    Hey, guys. But of a rant incoming… I made a thread like this in the past, but I was still a student at the time and I didn’t really know what I was doing with myself. I have more experience now, so I’d like to touch on this topic again. So, the balance of sleep and achieving a very high level...
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    Quit my Job? Is this a Dumb Idea?

    I had a crazy idea, don’t know if I should go through with it. I’m currently a junior software engineer, make about 65K a year. I live in a small town(and travel on the weekends for Game) so my living expenses aren’t crazy high. I’ve been working for a bit over a year now. I work remote, and...
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    Approach Journal: The Summer of NickSaiz65

    Hey guys, I’ve wanted to do this for a while, and I’m finally getting around to it. This is an approach journal for the summer months, from now until September 1. Will be going hard on Cold Approach these months to generate more options and improve my approach Game. I will include all of the...
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