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  1. Fruitbat

    Wife cut her hair

    I fkin hate it. I like long hair. It’s now shoulder length and it totally ruins her look. she said it’s because the ends are damaged and she has skin issues on her neck. Plenty women seem to be able to manage long hair without having to cut it. pretty devastated. I don’t think women...
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    Old man issues

    Maybe some of you relate. my close friends form teenage/early 20s. You know, your real friends. The kind of friends it’s hard to make as a grown up: 1 is dead 1 has become an alcoholic recently and is off to rehab. 1 turned out to be an *******. Cheating on pregnant wife. Tried subtlety to...
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    Women don’t know what beautiful women look like

    In my experience, all the women I’ve been around have no idea what beautiful women look like. Invariably they select string featured, slightly masculine or powerful women as what they think of female beauty. Either that or a very rich looking woman. the kind of feminine, delicate beauty I...
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    A very sad day and a minutes silence please

    My wife informed me my hair is thinning at crown, and she is indeed right. Very slightly . I have medium length hair. I kind of part it at the back and it shows the thinning worse, it’s only very slight at the mo. If I adopt a different style you can’t tell. I’ve been somewhat upset by this...
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    Anyone here have issues with water?

    I just don’t have a thirst response. Unless I tell myself to drink water, if I let up, after a few days I end up bed bound pretty much, depressed, foggy headed and I have to chug water for a few days to get balance back. The medical community have this arrogant view of “you’re either...
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    How?

    At gym this morning. Waited for a dude to come off the row machine. me = 40s 6’3 Natty, don’t look buff and arms and shoulders don’t pop out. Wearing crappy old shorts and top. him = early 30s 5’9 all the gear, sleeveless top, spikey hair, tatted up, arms and shoulders look markedly...
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    What’s your tipple?

    Naturally as an Englishman I live Ales, and being from the Westcountry I also love Cider, but my favourite and signature drink is: Brandy/Cognac and soda. i also love ****tails with a passion. massive fan of scotch too. Always watered, Scotch should NEVER be drunk without water. What’s...
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    Libido Report Pt II - Help!

    I posted a while ago about how on holiday my libido went full 16 year old and I was like a man possessed. I ate a great diet abroad and also gave up some addictions and thought I had it taped. while cleaning up diet has helped and I feel great, after 4 weeks back the lack of interest crept...
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    Another report - Diet

    I’ve posted how libido going great since I cleaned up the diet etc. I’ve struggled with weight and have always used a rigid CICO and gym regime. My weight has bounced around and I’ve found it like pulling teeth losing weight. I’ve ditched that. I have a vague idea of calories so I don’t go...
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    Plus Sized

    I’m a huge advocate of lingerie etc and either me, or me and my wife will often go online to buy some new items. Some brands are now using either extremely overweight women, and some look kind of trans. now, my wife isn’t overweight or trans. You can’t see how the item would fit a healthy...
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    Cosmetic surgery

    My wife’s friend has gone and got a nose job and boob job. my wife now is jealous and is pushing me to approve her doing the same. if I’m honest, I would actually quite enjoy a big set of tits to play with and ever since I’ve known her she has been self conscious about her nose. There is a...
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    Openness and mystery

    One thing I am trying to improve is to stop talking about myself, my experiences, my interests etc. One rule of How to Win Friends and Influence People (Dale Carnegie) is to not speak of oneself and focus on others. A lot of the content on here has referenced being a mystery and not giving too...
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    Lucy Letby

    https://www.mirror.co.uk/all-about/lucy-letby I’ve followed this case. She was a neo natal nurse who killed babies. Evil incarnate. She was banging a male doctor (very common for nurses, I assume that’s why many of them got into the role), and many of her notes they found were about “I’m not...
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    Grey

    Hi folks, I have grey hair almost going white on my sideburns and just above. My hair is dark brown. My dad actually does this but he is black haired so it’s easy. I don’t want to dye all my hair if possible. how do I go about matching a shade, how often do I do it? Beard has flecks of...
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    Libido report

    Howdy, with the pressures of kids etc in my early 40s my libido has been up and down. it was pretty dead when we went through a very stressful time. We then had a 2 week holiday and it came back with a vengeance - unbelievable levels like a teenager. Now, the country I visited had different...
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    Riddle me this

    The mystery of woman. I’m back at my wife’s home country and she’s been moody ever since we came. To the extent it’s left me wondering what’s wrong. She’s been on her shark week so probably why. I had to leave earlier because I couldn’t spend any more time with her. She wasn’t too rude but...
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    Power

    Since ranking up into the world of management, I’ve have joined another league it seems. I’m not in particularly good shape but I have obvious interest. I won’t take advantage of it as I’m married and a father and I love my daughter too much to risk a broken home for her. So I’m not...
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    Just a note to keep everyone sharp

    Married and recently my wife has been pushing it a bit. She came home from work recently and was really rude. Usually I brush it off but it was over the line. Now, this was more of a **** test I feel so there’s a question why…have to keep an eye on that. Basically I was supposed to come with...
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    It’s never enough

    Drunk naval gazing bollocks plz delete
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    Grey

    Hair is greying rapidly quite young (early 40s). sadly it’s going very quickly through grey to white. I really don’t like how it’s aged me. My wife wants me to die it out. My fear is all my workplace will know and it makes me look insecure. I think the US is more easy-going about this...
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