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    Two things improved my Bumble messaging interactions

    I def hear you about name calling being weird. I'd never done it before a few weeks ago but wanted to experiment with some different shyt and seemed like it led to good results. I'm not sold on it, I'll keep experimenting and might find it's not a great idea Yes being strong and confident is...
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    Two things improved my Bumble messaging interactions

    Started doing two simple things with Bumble messages that have lead to more positive interactions. Nothing profound and prob obvious to others. Still playing around with these so I'm sure others have more heavily field tested input 1) Make a point to call her something like "babe" "hun" etc...
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    Social set - girl gets enthusiastic then turns flaky

    Ok obvious I needed to wake up here and have to get my head straight. I'll work on it. Definitely appreciate the blunt advice. @The Duke - I reread the original post. Yes you're right. Most of it is irrelevant and not interesting. What my point should have been is that I thought it was weird...
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    Social set - girl gets enthusiastic then turns flaky

    @PlatoPacks23 when we were talking one on one she opened up, became very engaged in conversation, got flirty, and was direct about us meeting later on the week. At the point she suggested that the chemistry felt high. I took her offer to meet as an indication of enthusiasm but clearly you think...
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    Social set - girl gets enthusiastic then turns flaky

    Out at a bar over the weekend for a friend's bday. We had a big social group with us, a lot of these people hang out on a regular basis. HockeyGirl is a part of this social group but hasn't hung around with us in a while. I hadn't seen her in some time and invited her to this birthday thing...
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    Passive texting and use of questions

    Good call @BillyPilgrim , never thought of that but I like the concept!
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    Passive texting and use of questions

    From reading in other threads I had a realization of a bad habit I have with texting. The advice I've seen is while texting you shouldn't give the woman the opportunity to be passive. So you should prompt her for a response, with a question etc. One thing I hear is that almost every text should...
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    Field report - Good use of false time constraint

    @The Diver and @Bingo-Player - you both make good points. Definitely need to stand out more in night game. Be creative, indifferent, and direct. For sure night game isn't conducive to much other than maybe a same night lay. IME something will come through once in a great while but is rare...
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    Field report - Good use of false time constraint

    @AmsterdamAssassin - well said. Yep I've been on it with other girls too. I've been in a decent groove. I met two girls last night and they said they'd be up to see this band next week.
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    Field report - Good use of false time constraint

    Hey guys. She didn't respond to my nice to meet you message the other night. It was pretty late at that point but didn't hear anything back from her @SW15 - I hear what you're saying about over complicating things. It's a good point that I could have just focused on us meeting one on one to do...
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    Field report - Good use of false time constraint

    I was out on wednesday night with friends. Noticed this cute fiesty looking girl (aka Caroline) sitting at the bar with her girlfriend. I went to the bar to order a drink and stood right next to Caroline when ordering. While ordering I said to Caroline and her friend something like "hey what are...
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    Talking about her without talking about her

    Something I noticed I'm doing lately that I've had positive results with. Reframing discussion "about her" into topics that are not about her. Example of question about the woman: "Hey have you been to that new karaoke place on Suave street?" Example of rephrasing it so it's not about the...
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    FR: Venue Change Gone Bad

    Fair point, I hear you loud and clear. You're right that her behavior is a bit cra cra, and trust me I wouldn't expect anything different going forward. I didn't know that about Joy Division's singer, that sucks man. Thankfully no one related to this field report is at risk of hanging...
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    FR: Venue Change Gone Bad

    @Bigpapa Yep, I am with you there. I've had similar experiences with this girl before. By the way how long do you usually think is a good period of no contact time with women when you need a reset with them? My gut typically says three weeks but that's just instinct and not battle tested or...
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    FR: Venue Change Gone Bad

    Yo thanks for the input guys. About some of the comments on this being a same night lay and slut shaming etc. Not sure if I made it clear in earlier posts but I've known HRGirl for quite a while now and her friends have always been OVERLY cool to me, so not sure if you'd call it a typical same...
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