I def hear you about name calling being weird. I'd never done it before a few weeks ago but wanted to experiment with some different shyt and seemed like it led to good results. I'm not sold on it, I'll keep experimenting and might find it's not a great idea
Yes being strong and confident is...
Started doing two simple things with Bumble messages that have lead to more positive interactions. Nothing profound and prob obvious to others. Still playing around with these so I'm sure others have more heavily field tested input
1) Make a point to call her something like "babe" "hun" etc...
Ok obvious I needed to wake up here and have to get my head straight. I'll work on it. Definitely appreciate the blunt advice.
@The Duke - I reread the original post. Yes you're right. Most of it is irrelevant and not interesting. What my point should have been is that I thought it was weird...
@PlatoPacks23 when we were talking one on one she opened up, became very engaged in conversation, got flirty, and was direct about us meeting later on the week. At the point she suggested that the chemistry felt high. I took her offer to meet as an indication of enthusiasm but clearly you think...
Out at a bar over the weekend for a friend's bday. We had a big social group with us, a lot of these people hang out on a regular basis. HockeyGirl is a part of this social group but hasn't hung around with us in a while. I hadn't seen her in some time and invited her to this birthday thing...
From reading in other threads I had a realization of a bad habit I have with texting. The advice I've seen is while texting you shouldn't give the woman the opportunity to be passive. So you should prompt her for a response, with a question etc. One thing I hear is that almost every text should...
@The Diver and @Bingo-Player - you both make good points. Definitely need to stand out more in night game. Be creative, indifferent, and direct.
For sure night game isn't conducive to much other than maybe a same night lay. IME something will come through once in a great while but is rare...
@AmsterdamAssassin - well said. Yep I've been on it with other girls too. I've been in a decent groove. I met two girls last night and they said they'd be up to see this band next week.
Hey guys. She didn't respond to my nice to meet you message the other night. It was pretty late at that point but didn't hear anything back from her
@SW15 - I hear what you're saying about over complicating things. It's a good point that I could have just focused on us meeting one on one to do...
I was out on wednesday night with friends. Noticed this cute fiesty looking girl (aka Caroline) sitting at the bar with her girlfriend. I went to the bar to order a drink and stood right next to Caroline when ordering. While ordering I said to Caroline and her friend something like "hey what are...
Something I noticed I'm doing lately that I've had positive results with. Reframing discussion "about her" into topics that are not about her.
Example of question about the woman: "Hey have you been to that new karaoke place on Suave street?"
Example of rephrasing it so it's not about the...
Fair point, I hear you loud and clear. You're right that her behavior is a bit cra cra, and trust me I wouldn't expect anything different going forward. I didn't know that about Joy Division's singer, that sucks man. Thankfully no one related to this field report is at risk of hanging...
@Bigpapa
Yep, I am with you there. I've had similar experiences with this girl before. By the way how long do you usually think is a good period of no contact time with women when you need a reset with them? My gut typically says three weeks but that's just instinct and not battle tested or...
Yo thanks for the input guys. About some of the comments on this being a same night lay and slut shaming etc. Not sure if I made it clear in earlier posts but I've known HRGirl for quite a while now and her friends have always been OVERLY cool to me, so not sure if you'd call it a typical same...
Guys really glad to get your advice... you're all crushing it there for me
In this case it definitely seems like I should have been working on isolating and being more on top of the escalation window
@Bigpapa - you make a good point about her changing 180 degrees and auto rejecting. I wasn't...
Had a bit of an odd situation with a girl I've known for a while the other night. While out with a large group of people for the evening at a bar I got to flirting with HRGirl. We've flirted before but this night was heavier and a little different. There was a lot of touching, steady kino...
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