Okay, I take that back. A divorced woman who is obsessed with looks, money and status would not cheat on her second or third husband under any circumstances
Now my eye be rollin' lol. Look. I've been approached by several exceptional men since meeting my husband. One a ruggedly handsome retired pro hockey player who is a business owner, multimillionaire, adventure enthusiast (serious mountain climbing, extreme motor sports), who owns 7 different homes in Canada and the US. I knew him before my husband, decided I didn't want a LDR in another country (despite him wanting to spoil me rotten), and I didn't want to be that far away from my children for great stretches of time. He's bummed that I cut contact and has reached out a few times to be buddies. But he's interested in me, I don't think it's appropriate, its unkind to my husband, and I don't want orbiters.
I work with many physicians and highly successful healthcare executives & lobbyists. High powered men. Some very charming & handsome, including one who owns a vineyard & producing highly rated winery in California. I interact with high powered lawyers and real estate people too regularly; venture capital people.
These are people I routinely interact with (attractive, successful high powered men). It's NORMAL for me. So if someone expresses interest? I decline. I've declined Hollywood people too. It comes down to character. I don't value "celebrity" like some of y'all. Famous people give up a lot for fame. Lots of fake people trying to latch on everywhere you go, loss of privacy in many cases.
I love my husband. He's sweet and smart and funny in addition to being tall, sexy, successful and handsome. He's much LESS successful in fact than some of the other men I know...but I chose him & he chose me. Not sure at all why that is such a controversy except for the fact that my life refutes some of the beliefs held around here.
I'm not attracted to short & broke men. I'm already affluent in my own right. I can't relate to broke people as a relationship partner & I stand nearly 6' tall in heels. I do not like to tower over a man (feels weird) and I am attractive enough to have the kind of man I fancy.
Why this is controversial is really bizarre. (Shrugs).
Yes a pretty woman with her act together and her fitness on point can attract a top tier man, who will pursue her for exclusivity, a relationship & marriage.
In other news, water is wet.
This is simply self selection in the SMP gentlemen. Nothing more, nothing less.