Don't know what the deal is with the Persian. I ignored her on Sat, she ends up texting me, saying hey Rockstar, hows it going? then tells me she's going to the gym etc. I tell her I'm watching a beautiful sunset and describe it a bit, then tell her I'm going to this festival thing that I asked her to come to earlier and she declined. Feeling like I'm solidly in the FZ, kinda getting over the chase with her, if she so clearly told me that I was in the FZ, even though she did appear to flirt a little bit later.... I just don't know wtf....beautiful girl, but has already lied to me and lead me on, prob not worth it. Maybe a distant friend or something...Prob here was that I put too much into it before getting anything into HER.
Fri night 8/28
Went to this art thing, was pretty fun. Saw this girl w/ a boyfriend that was very into me at this 80's night thing. She was purposefully ignoring me while talking to my friend, but we locked eyes quite a few times and I could tell that she wants me. I AM attracted to her, just NOT into the branch swingers at this moment.
Went about my night, just me and a friend. Eventually started having fun. It was an 80's night and they were playing 80's music. Opened a two set with
Me: How do you vogue? I can't remember
Girls: like this (showed me how to do it)
Me: sweet (starts voguing)
Girls: but you can't to THIS song!
Me: I can dance however I want. You can dance if you want 2 , you can leave this world behind
Girls: (continue the song)
All: Laugh
It was a very FUN approach, I was thinking of it as mingling, my friend wanted to open the set so I thought fug it and opened them. We talked about who is auditory, visual etc. and they told us they were teachers and asked what we did, thinking we were too. I told them , yes but a different kind of teacher. They said whaaaaa? I said I'm a dating coach and my name was lee-roy jumpoanmy, and intro'd my friend as some ridiculous spanish name (and he is Chinese - & white) they laughed and I asked them their names and my target gave me her real name. I teased her about that and let her try again, next time was a decent fake name. Then one of the girls said she thought I was some kind of shaman or something because of my teacher joke and I said that I was, that I did blessings and prayed for rain. Had fun with them, asked my target what she likes to do for fun and she sais "go outside"...I laugh and the friend steps in does a better job of explaining. I tease her on her love of spinning because she puts in so much effort and doesn't get anywhere, then smile and laugh. and when everyone was getting kicked out of the area we were in, they are walking off, my friend thinks I should close, so I think wtf...ok. go up to her and tell her we should hang out sometime. She busts on me for not knowing how to use my phone and I go with it and tell her I'm used to writing on cave walls with chisels instead, get her number.
Next day (better 4 me to NOT wait 3 days at FIRST)
Ran into her later that night and we talked a little about how she and her friend speak in Canadian accents when they brush guys they don't like off, we role played a little etc. I told her her accent was terrible, then smiled and left.
Next afternoon I text her:
Hey Drama Queen (she teaches drama), was fun meeting you and your friend last night. When are you free to hunt buffalo on stationary bikes
To which she replies hours later, (in a very long reply that she just got out of a long term relationship on Monday, and is still hurting pretty bad from it, but would like to try again later with me.
I wait a while and reply back that I appreciate her opening up and being vulnerable with me and that I have had my share of ltr's and know the drill, and while I wouldn't want to be a rebound boy that if she wants to escape and just hang out that would be cool.
She sais thanks for understanding and "ok" to hang out etc.