Umm, giving out my cards at the speed dating event is taking action.
You date on 'luck'?
You know what else leads to frustration, depression, PTSD, etc? Embracing victimhood.
In 2012, I hadn't heard of MGTOW or inceldom yet. Yet I still ended up frustrated/developing unhealthy thoughts (because of how hard of a time I had getting/keeping a woman)
That was not a call for you to embrace your victimhood, dude. We all know you're a victim of your autism, a victim of your desire for dried up old 'broads' because you're a victim of your fear of giving your sh!tty DNA to a woman who might squeeze out a retard.
More like I don't want a woman to pop out a baby who might get bullied for his/her body hair.
Interesting. 2012 was also the best year I had romantically. Dealt with a girl I met online for the greater part of the year, and I really liked her, and went allot of places together with her and spent ALLOT of time together. But, over 12 years ago for both of us right? While I got married in 2014, I still remember 2012 as one of the best years of the last decade.
There is always the ignore button.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
OP has a long-established pattern of doom saying. Characterizing the sharp replies as "slagging a fellow board member" is thus no less disingenuous than accusing Jimmy Carr of "bullying", whenever he rips a heckler
This is similar to door to door sales. A fair amount of doors get slammed in your face, no matter how adept you are. All that's humanly possible... We can become more proficient, by constantly acquiring more knowledge, and recalibrating beliefs which we previously mistook for Holy Writ
This isn't true. But if that's how you see things, that's how they will be. There are a million other things you can say to a woman that aren't creepy, but there are as many excuses not to bother.
If a chicken had lips it could whistle. I don't film my daily interactions...
Oh, and another thing that leads to frustration, depression, PTSD, etc, is reading comments on Youtube videos.
Goes to a point mentioned here https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/smv-and-age-difference.283244/page-4#post-3139595
Do you really think a cold approach that starts with asking for directions, is going to go somewhere? What are you going to do after she gives you the directions or says she doesn't know where xyz is? Unless she really likes you (ie in which case you would have got clear IOIs and green-lights before you did that and then she'll likely take over from there, etc...) it's really a waste of time. So anyone can approach a girl or talk to her or run game. It doesn't mean she's going to be interested in you.
The thing is, even in the age of smartphones you can easily ask if they're locals and do they know a good restaurant nearby or which café might have the best coffee or is there a vintage shop nearby or... Only socially awkward nerds trust google to advise them.
True, but the main point is that there's always an excuse not to do something, especially something you dread doing because you fear failure / rejection. Too many people have no idea that you often learn more from your failures than your successes.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
