mrRuckus said:
So we really have no idea what it means since some say she's getting obsessive over you out of worry you're more valuable than her and the rest say she's bullsh1tting and you need to bail.
Mr. Ruckus- yes its confusing.....but consider the subject matter we are dealing with here. You just can't make clear concise perfect sense when dealing with women.
Everything that has been posted is very correct. The guys that have decoded what "you're too good for me" really means are sharing what they learned from personal experience. Everyones experience will be different depending on the scenario.
I'm here to say I've heard that "you're too good for me" line so many damn times and its meant something a little different from each woman. But you can pretty much conclude the next time you hear that line it may mean one or all of the following:
1. I see you as a better person than me and I will never measure up to your standards.
2. I'm interested in someone else.
3. I don't see us as a match long term.
4. I'm really a crazy bipolar nutjob and I can't keep supressing this any longer. You are about to see me for who I really am and I know you won't like it.
Regardless of what it exactly means for your situation, the end result is the same. You need to end things and you will probably have to be the one who does the dirty work.
There will be little clues or changes on or around the time you hear the "you're too good for me" statement. For instance a girl that typically wants to spend every minute with you starts suggesting that you hang out with your guy friends is one who's interest is waning. If you haven't heard the "you're too good", you soon will. Put some thought into that when trying to make sense of it all.
Women aren't strong enough to come out and say "hey, I'm not happy here. You are a good person, but things aren't working out and I think we should end it".
If you don't decode their stupid subtle clues then they'll crank up the knob on the irrational drama generator and try and drive you away. And it will all be rationalized perfectly in her pea brain as to why it wasn't her fault and you were the bad guy.