Your Top 10 Red Flags to Look Out for

[Jumbo Gumbo]

Tattoos (cringe)

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

As of now my single biggest red flag is "educated" career women in the 28+ range. I cannot stand them, they're all insufferable. The only women who do that are women who refuse to ever be dependant on a man; so 'd rather slave away a job that doesn't care about them and go on antidepressants than be loyal and faithful to a man, and that speaks volumes. Some try to claim it's because they have a "passion" for their career and I don't buy it, but even if that's true, if their passion and life goals revolve around slaving away for faceless corporate overlords, they're so beyond incompatible with my lifestyle goals and life philosophy that I'm still not interested anyway.

A women's job matters, but not for the reason they think. It matters because it reveals their character and intentions, plus the job environment matters too, if she's surrounded by thirsty men all day that's just bad, so is any job that creates a demanding or inconsistent schedule. Ideal job for women is probably something like a dental hygienist but I'd sooner date a barista or cashier than a woman with a masters or law degree.

 

[DJ Novice]

My biggest red flag is someone who is not compatible in bed. If they won’t do something you enjoy with enthusiasm, if they are not open discussing their and your bedroom needs then no matter what else is great frustration will build up over time with no resolution.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Women who show off their boobs repeatedly in pics, but at the same time make a point not to show any nipple pokies or areolas under a sheer top. These women are thirst-trappers. If you can see nips or areolas they're usually open to phucking with good game on your part. The ones where you can't tend to be time-wasters.

#booblife

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Women who show off their boobs repeatedly in pics, but at the same time make a point not to show any nipple pokies or areolas under a sheer top. These women are thirst-trappers. If you can see nips or areolas they're usually open to phucking with good game on your part. The ones where you can't tend to be time-wasters.

#booblife

That's...oddly specific

 

[BillyPilgrim]

That's...oddly specific

Agreed but it's truth. Thirstrappers no bueno. I like boobies, what can I say? That post was for all of the boob fetishists out there

 

[justaroundthecorner]

1) 3rd/4th-wave feminist
2) pro-free abortion
3) tattoos
4) likes to party often in clubs (sign of promiscuouity)
5) likes to travel a lot (the most hypergamous females use every travel opportunity to go for ONS under this or another pretense)
6) concentrated too much on her rather average/uninteresting job
7) high-spender / dating-app profile photos dripping with other guys money spent on her so far
8) dislike pets or not particularly fond of them (sign of poorly developed EQ)
9) opinionated but unimpressive IQ therefore very annoying in convos
10) work in totally different area which leads to lack of understanding (if you have high intensity/stressful environment and your date choice is low impact/low stress job then she will most probably not understand what you need to deal with on everyday basis - she needs to understand or you need to get rid of her company)

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

8) dislike pets or not particularly fond of them (sign of poorly developed EQ)

My cat screens the low EQ b!tches.

 

[Manure Spherian]

- Parents are separated or divorced. She will always have this fear of being abandoned again or not being worthy enough and will sabotage relationships because of it.

- She travels a lot. Permission to be slutty without her family and friends knowing it.

- She has a cat. A substitute for the children that she may never have.

- She moved from a small town to a big city to study or work. Sex and the City lifestyle here I am.

- She tells you she's a feminist. In my mind I hear "I have a free pass to be a **** whenever it pleases me".

- She is super into you very early on, without you doing anything (love bombing)

- She is an only child. A big chance that she's entitled.

- She just broke up with her longtime boyfriend. If you hear her talk bad about him like he was "too controlling" you can be sure she's in her "just having fun and enjoying" phase and you're not going to be the only guy she's going to see.

There are plenty more but can't really think of others right now.

I never understood why a seduction site has men who care about red flags. If I wanted to be a high-body-count player, I’d want red-flagged women.

 

[Chow Mein]

I never understood why a seduction site has men who care about red flags. If I wanted to be a high-body-count player, I’d want red-flagged women.

The heck is wrong with you?

 

[Manure Spherian]

The heck is wrong with you?

Nothing. If my aim was primarily seduction and spinning plates/pumping and dumping, why would I care about red flags? Not sure how tats, feminist ideas, a career, etc., would affect me while screwing.

 

[Westminster]

Nothing. If my aim was primarily seduction and spinning plates/pumping and dumping, why would I care about red flags? Not sure how tats, feminist ideas, a career, etc., would affect me while screwing.

You'll care about red flags when you're subject to hysterics, domestic violence, arrest, dismissal from from work, and get your reputation ruined. Because that's what you can get if you dip your wick in crazy.

 

[Manure Spherian]

You'll care about red flags when you're subject to hysterics, domestic violence, arrest, dismissal from from work, and get your reputation ruined. Because that's what you can get if you dip your wick in crazy.

For such extreme red flags, then yes, caution is warranted.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

Nothing. If my aim was primarily seduction and spinning plates/pumping and dumping, why would I care about red flags? Not sure how tats, feminist ideas, a career, etc., would affect me while screwing.

Because when you grow up, your career and reputation grows with you. If you have no career or career that does not need reputation (or just needs a bit of it), then do as you wish. If you do not need to build career, wealth and money because someone else did it for you, then do as you wish. But if you will suffer because of your choices, go back to this thread and reread what you have read before with different mindset.

 

[Vanderdonck]

8) dislike pets or not particularly fond of them (sign of poorly developed EQ)

I consider this high EQ as long as she doesn't hate animals. Too many people get pets without thinking. I love animals but am not fond of them in my house.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

You'll care about red flags when you're subject to hysterics, domestic violence, arrest, dismissal from from work, and get your reputation ruined. Because that's what you can get if you dip your wick in crazy.

No, that happens when you commit to them. It's fine to dip your wick, just stay away from emotional entanglements.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

I love animals but am not fond of them in my house.

If you don't want them around you then you do not love them. It does not necessarily mean someone's EQ is low, but it is most probably not greater than average. Connected with other red flags, it is a red flag to me - generally I find ppl w/o animals high on egoism scale, alas it may be only temporary state - if it is fixed state (they have no animals for years) I am usually right about this observation.

 

[jhonny9546]

I saw that this post was reopened by someone, and have interesting topics.

Has it ever happened to you that your GF, or the woman in a LTR, loses interest in her partner because he is no longer desirable or has lost his attractiveness? For example, he may start to gain weight—though not to the point of obesity—or lose hair, but not become completely bald.

Is this a red flag? (In other words a woman who loses her "sexual" interest or "desire" for you immediately after that, and maybe start to "glance" around)

 

[Westminster]

No, that happens when you commit to them. It's fine to dip your wick, just stay away from emotional entanglements.

Fair point - although one thing can lead to another and then, before you know it, you're in trouble.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

If you don't want them around you then you do not love them.

He says, 'animals'. There are plenty of animals that I like but wouldn't want as pets.

I like dogs, and dogs like me, but I don't want a dog as a pet.

My current pets are 1 cat and 1 snake.

I used to have other pets (rats, mice, gerbils, ferret, tarantula) and even temporarily housed a lover's fox terrier, who was incredibly sweet, but only confirmed to me that I never want to be a dog owner.


I do think that walking a (cute) dog will attract more women than any status symbol. A cute cat attracts even more women, but not everyone get a shoulder cat (which is probably why women are so attracted).

And as I stated before, my cat warns me when people are not on the level (he hissed at Delilah).