Your response to texts like this

[Atom Smasher]

I would dump her if I were involved with her, or break contact if not.

Life is too short to let these disrespectful princesses run roughshod over us. You can sweeten up the terminology by calling it a "sh!t test", but I call it blatant disrespect and that should be punished with removal of attention.

The reason they keep doing this is because we men allow them to. Instead of demanding respect, we give them an excuse by saying "all women sh!t test".

I would respond, depending on my mood, with either nothing at all (to ramp up her anxiety), or perhaps with "What a coincidence... I'm actually chatting up a woman with a much better ass than yours. Talk later..."

 

[Julian]

This sounds like some chit and foreigner bih would do. Couldnt picture an American bih doing some cringey chit like this

 

[guru1000]

The problem is not what she stated but rather why OP would start this thread to begin with.

My immediate visceral response would be one of aversion. It wouldn’t even be a question of what to do or what to say, rather just a feeling of complete antipathy.

To even start this thread of the best course of action demonstrates weak internal boundaries for OP. That’s the focus, not the girl.

When a man values himself as a mountain, these nuances of social interaction are polarized into deference and acceptance and anything other becomes the automatic rejecting of her. It’s binary. Either you value yourself as a mountain or you don’t. And if she can’t “understand” your deference distinctions without spelling it out, then she is not compatible with your sovereignty.

Men need to start owning that they are Kings and questions like this become a nullity.

 

[Korrupt]

"Sitting across from a guy whos winking at me lol, hes cute actually, got bigger muscles than you"

These kind of jealousy texts seem a common tactic with the younger girls of today. Im taken and not interested but just for curiosities sake im interested in what your replies would be

Best response: "What?! Why would you text me this? How could you? I thought we had something! This upsets me so much I really liked you and was starting to fall for you. I can't believe this is happening... Please don't do this. Come back to me--I don't know if I can handle life without you."

 

[RickTheToad]

"Sitting across from a guy whos winking at me lol, hes cute actually, got bigger muscles than you"

These kind of jealousy texts seem a common tactic with the younger girls of today. Im taken and not interested but just for curiosities sake im interested in what your replies would be

No response is usually the best to stupid sh!t. Or, can also say, cool, get his number and let me know how you two work out. It shows you do not give a fvck what she says or does. I'd prob. just not reply though.

 

[jaymbrs]

Depends. If it were my gf texting me that, I would reply "Cool story bro. What time's dinner?". If it were a chick I was trying to bang, I would reply "lol". Chicks (and dudes) do this to get a reaction. Notice both responses were very insignificant reactions, which will drive them nuts.

 

[Glassguy]

I would dump her if I were involved with her, or break contact if not.

Life is too short to let these disrespectful princesses run roughshod over us. You can sweeten up the terminology by calling it a "sh!t test", but I call it blatant disrespect and that should be punished with removal of attention.

The reason they keep doing this is because we men allow them to. Instead of demanding respect, we give them an excuse by saying "all women sh!t test".

I would respond, depending on my mood, with either nothing at all (to ramp up her anxiety), or perhaps with "What a coincidence... I'm actually chatting up a woman with a much better ass than yours. Talk later..."

We are on the same page.

Another thing to point out- I truly dont think that a chick that I was actively seeing would ever text me something like this. The fact that she sent this to OP shows that either:

1.) She is disrespectful little shyte (and needs dropped/ S&D on the spot)
2.) His frame needs a little work if she even things this type of actions will even fly with him in the first place.

I am not patting myself on the back, but I give off the IDGAF/chill/take it or leave it vibe VERY EARLY on with chicks. While I do not vocally ever tell a woman that I am seeing other people, what I say and how I act demonstrates that I will have zero issues kicking her off the dating map if she does something as stupid as this.

Unless you are into swinging, letting your chick be a hotwife, you being a cuck, etc.....there is no reason for a chick to send a text like this unless she is just trying to get under your skin. And if that is the case, why do you allow this type of behavior to begin with? You are setting the example for how you want ALL people (not just women) to treat you by your actions and what you allow/dont allow. That is how you generate your STANDARDS. Not by what you SAY you will allow, but by how you respond to other people's actions.

 

[Robert28]

“You shut your wh0re mouth right now!”

Forgot the movie that line is from but it’s damn funny lol

 

[Trump]

"Sitting across from a guy whos winking at me lol, hes cute actually, got bigger muscles than you"

These kind of jealousy texts seem a common tactic with the younger girls of today. Im taken and not interested but just for curiosities sake im interested in what your replies would be

Didn't I tell you to stop messaging me?

"I hope it works out for you both because I'm moving on to another chick who has patiently waiting for me to become single. Good luck".

She's in Africa so I said they love white girls with credit cards, go for it

Her reply - Oh so money is the only reason anyone would like me?

"Really? Lol, you would NOT believe what I am doing right now"

"Cute. Now go say hi to him with all that charm of yours"

Don’t these sound angry or reactive?

It’s not even a question, it’s a trap statement. She’s put you down at the same given herself the option to go for it. She can retort to any response you give her.

I don’t think a reply is warranted.

 

[Glassguy]

“You shut your wh0re mouth right now!”

Forgot the movie that line is from but it’s damn funny lol

Sounds like Stepbrothers or possibly Anchorman lol

 

[Glassguy]

Don’t these sound angry or reactive?

It’s not even a question, it’s a trap statement. She’s put you down at the same given herself the option to go for it. She can retort to any response you give her.

I don’t think a reply is warranted.

She cant retort to silence when youre frame is solid enough to not put up with this disrespectful shyte and just eliminate her based on how SHE decided to act.

Do you really think a high value women would put up with a guy doing this?

 

[Medina]

The problem is not what she stated but rather why OP would start this thread to begin with.

My immediate visceral response would be one of aversion. It wouldn’t even be a question of what to do or what to say, rather just a feeling of complete antipathy.

To even start this thread of the best course of action demonstrates weak internal boundaries for OP. That’s the focus, not the girl.

When a man values himself as a mountain, these nuances of social interaction are polarized into deference and acceptance and anything other becomes the automatic rejecting of her. It’s binary. Either you value yourself as a mountain or you don’t. And if she can’t “understand” your deference distinctions without spelling it out, then she is not compatible with your sovereignty.

Men need to start owning that they are Kings and questions like this become a nullity.

We are on the same page.

Another thing to point out- I truly dont think that a chick that I was actively seeing would ever text me something like this. The fact that she sent this to OP shows that either:

1.) She is disrespectful little shyte (and needs dropped/ S&D on the spot)
2.) His frame needs a little work if she even things this type of actions will even fly with him in the first place.

I am not patting myself on the back, but I give off the IDGAF/chill/take it or leave it vibe VERY EARLY on with chicks. While I do not vocally ever tell a woman that I am seeing other people, what I say and how I act demonstrates that I will have zero issues kicking her off the dating map if she does something as stupid as this.

Unless you are into swinging, letting your chick be a hotwife, you being a cuck, etc.....there is no reason for a chick to send a text like this unless she is just trying to get under your skin. And if that is the case, why do you allow this type of behavior to begin with? You are setting the example for how you want ALL people (not just women) to treat you by your actions and what you allow/dont allow. That is how you generate your STANDARDS. Not by what you SAY you will allow, but by how you respond to other people's actions.

If a woman sends you that, chances are you lowered your stadards a long, long time ago. And I don't even mean when you first met her and started supplicating. I mean two weeks prior to that when you failed to work out or work on your career/business. One slip up, and next thing you know you are out of your element, supplicating to women, getting tested with jealously plot-lines, and posting it on so suave, pretending you are seeking advice for a "friend".

It all comes back to purpose. If your standards for yourself are always high, you will never find yourself in these situations. You wouldn't even understand it. People will ask you what you would do in that situation and you wouldn't even be able to relate in any way.

You've all got the wrong idea I'm afraid

I friendzoned this girl

I didn't just put her on the banter bus. I drive it!

 

[Glassguy]

^^^^^^Good call^^^^^^

But if you friendzoned, she should be blocked if sending you this stupid shyte.

 

[Glassguy]

Or just keep her as an orbiter (yes us men do it too) and just ignore her jealous acts.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

I would dump her if I were involved with her, or break contact if not.

Life is too short to let these disrespectful princesses run roughshod over us. You can sweeten up the terminology by calling it a "sh!t test", but I call it blatant disrespect and that should be punished with removal of attention.

The reason they keep doing this is because we men allow them to. Instead of demanding respect, we give them an excuse by saying "all women sh!t test".

I would respond, depending on my mood, with either nothing at all (to ramp up her anxiety), or perhaps with "What a coincidence... I'm actually chatting up a woman with a much better ass than yours. Talk later..."

Thank Fvcking god your here.

 

[Medina]

Even so, I don't remember the last time I started a thread about some chick I friend-zoned. Her actions wouldn't register any points in my emotional reactive system. It would be like walking by a homeless person cursing at me. I would file it under background noise and move on with my day. Your actions don't align with what you are trying to portray to us.

Thread wasn't about her it was about jealousy texts

Or just keep her as an orbiter (yes us men do it too)

Oh the travesty

 

[Epic Days]

If a woman sends you that, chances are you lowered your stadards a long, long time ago. And I don't even mean when you first met her and started supplicating. I mean two weeks prior to that when you failed to work out or work on your career/business. One slip up, and next thing you know you are out of your element, supplicating to women, getting tested with jealously plot-lines, and posting it on so suave, pretending you are seeking advice for a "friend".

It all comes back to purpose. If your standards for yourself are always high, you will never find yourself in these situations. You wouldn't even understand it. People will ask you what you would do in this situation and you wouldn't even be able to relate in any way. It would feel like you are being asked to dissect how lower level primates communicate to each other.

I see the truth of it.

 

[Medina]

My original comment wasn't about her either. It was about jealousy texts in general. I never get them, ever. Women know my standards and boundaries within the first conversation. It would never get to the point where she is comfortable enough to send me something like that.

See I encourage banter and disrespect from the get go

It heats things up for me. So we have different styles evidently

And she's still playing from AFRICA

 

[2Rocky]

My reply in situations where my SO tells me some guy was checking her out is: "Well that comes with the territory when you are dating a hot girl, guys are gonna check her out." The last time this came up she replied to that: "Yeah like I haven't seen all the women that flirt with YOU..."

I just shrugged and said "Comes with the territory..."

 

[AttackFormation]

Never find these situations? If you have never had these kinds of tests thrown at you your not even in the game. Her text is actually funny if one has a personality with humor attached to it.

Just curious, would a text like this disqualify a girl from being your girlfriend? I do like banter, but a text like this would lead me to believe we're incompatible, as I would personally never flaunt it in her face so blatantly that I am out somewhere where some other woman is flirting with me who looks a lot better than her or whatever.