Your response to texts like this

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"Sitting across from a guy whos winking at me lol, hes cute actually, got bigger muscles than you"

These kind of jealousy texts seem a common tactic with the younger girls of today. Im taken and not interested but just for curiosities sake im interested in what your replies would be
 

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See if he will buy you flowers and a locket
 

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You just respond with the most annoying answer that exists "K". Or you just simply never respond at all.
I really dont talk to disrespectful chicks like this but if I got that text my response would be:
"I hope it works out for you both because I'm moving on to another chick who has patiently waiting for me to become single. Good luck".
lol, both of you guys are way too butthurt. That's what they want.

I would use my #1, standard approach... agree and amplify. "Really? waow! glad you found him :) you should talk to him!"
 
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lol, both of you guys are way too butthurt. That's what they want.

I would use my #1, standard approach... agree and amplify. "Really? waow! I'm glad you found him :) you should talk to him!"
Not butthurt at all. It's what I would do.

For one, I wouldnt "date" a chick that acted like this. My standards are too high. So if she did this, I would drop her on the spot.

I wouldnt text what I said out of jealousy, I would text it being truthful and realistic.

Thats the difference.
 

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"Cute. Now go say hi to him with all that charm of yours"

Not replying at all would be strange. Sounds like she has some rapport with the reciever.
The only good text is a mild neg with a takeaway/push without sounding butthurt.

Maybe "K" but does sound a bit butthurt. Play with it because she's actually playing with you. Keep it funny because it actually is.
My .02

Any **** test that is directed at your sexual performance or your physical stature are fairly strong **** tests. Those are easy though its the silent ones that a DJ must master. Haha
This is more along the lines of what I went for

She's in Africa so I said they love white girls with credit cards, go for it

Her reply - Oh so money is the only reason anyone would like me?

So now she's p!zzed and her game didn't work

Which is what I wanted
 

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Maybe you might not be butthurt but in her language they are going to pick it out with ease. Some of these women i swear have subliminal super powers.
Doesnt matter how she reads into it. When I am dust in the wind and out on a drinks date with another chick, she can read into that instead lol.

Here is the thing that nobody is talking about here:

This is a shyte test. Why is she shyte testing him? Because she hasnt submitted. We dont know if he has been seeing this chick a week, a month or 6 months. That is important information.

If a chick is doing this after a week, she has some serious issues within herself. If its been a month, maybe she is just a super jealous/clingy type. If its been longer than that she just hasnt submitted and that is an entirely different monster all together.
 

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Not butthurt at all. It's what I would do.

For one, I wouldnt "date" a chick that acted like this. My standards are too high. So if she did this, I would drop her on the spot.

I wouldnt text what I said out of jealousy, I would text it being truthful and realistic.

Thats the difference.
If you're gonna drop her then why reply at all? and if you do reply, why reply with such a serious formulation? it looks butthurt. If you don't think so great, but that's what it looks like to me.


This is more along the lines of what I went for

She's in Africa so I said they love white girls with credit cards, go for it

Her reply - Oh so money is the only reason anyone would like me?

So now she's p!zzed and her game didn't work

Which is what I wanted
lol great line, agree and amplify saves the day as usual.
 

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If you're gonna drop her then why reply at all? and if you do reply, why reply with such a serious formulation? it looks butthurt. If you don't think so great, but that's what it looks like to me.
If I am dropping someone, I really dont care how it looks to anyone other than me ;)
 

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not worth a response and instantly demoted to being ignored most of the time. redemption unlikely unless she begs for the D enough.
any response is a reward for this stupid behavior that tells her 'you will receive attention when you talk to me like this'.
she tried to take an inch, you took the bait, then she acted pissy to try and take another inch. i sure hope you ignored that second one.
 

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If I am dropping someone, I really dont care how it looks to anyone other than me ;)
So you're going around here giving advice that you don't care how well it suits the situation or the man supposed to take it because you're too much of an alpha. lol, all right dude, but seems a bit counterintuitive to the point of giving advice.
 
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“Sounds like he’s a sex trafficker and is about to kidnap you. Good luck with that!”
 

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Here is the problem I see with Medina's response

"they love white girls with credit cards, go for it"

I am not sure if this is a real long term GF, or what it is.....but when you dare a girl, they will often follow through just to "show you"

Most will regret it later, but they will do it nonetheless, because they operate on spur of the moment emotions. So he very well may have given her the green light
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This guy may very well have been a male prostitute, and Africa is absolutely filthy with disease.

I think based on her behavior and the "what-if" "aids" question, I would drop her and look elsewhere.

That line from her is pretty childish and disrespectful anyways, makes me wonder about her.
Obviously she is disqualified from being a gf now, but there's no reason he can't keep her around for sex if he feels like it and has no other plates. He could make her get an std screening if he really wants to, if she doesn't get one then drop her. Edit: Medina is apparently married so I don't see the point of him talking to this woman in the first place.
 
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Doesnt matter how she reads into it. When I am dust in the wind and out on a drinks date with another chick, she can read into that instead lol.

Here is the thing that nobody is talking about here:

This is a shyte test. Why is she shyte testing him? Because she hasnt submitted. We dont know if he has been seeing this chick a week, a month or 6 months. That is important information.

If a chick is doing this after a week, she has some serious issues within herself. If its been a month, maybe she is just a super jealous/clingy type. If its been longer than that she just hasnt submitted and that is an entirely different monster all together.
I don’t think he’s seeing her at all. He already said he was taken and not interested. He has mentioned a few times that he is married. From what I can see he flirts with women and also chats them up via texting but that’s it.

So, validation.

Which is why not feeding into this girl’s test is the best move. Perhaps she has nothing better to do than start silly nonsense, hopefully he has something better to do.
 
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