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I think men stop becoming attracted to women their own age once they hit late 20s and early 30s.

Why settle for a 30 year old while your 30 when you can easily get a 22 year old.

I'm 47, and I don't want to date women older than 42.

Of course women in their early 20s look the best but that's not realistic and they are immature anyhow.

I would say the realistic jackpot for men 35 to 40 is mid 20s.

I would say the realistic jackpot for men between 40 and 45 is late 20s to early 30s

I would say the realistic jackpot for men between 45 and 50 would be early 30s to mid 30s.

Realistic Jackpot for men 50 to 55 would be early late 30s to early 40s.

Most women are willing and can be attracted to men up to 15 years older. **

**Disclaimer-for this to work you must be in good physical shape and/or be financially well off.
 

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23-early 30s. I can work with women who are slightly younger or a bit older, depending on not only beauty but personality and intellectual soundness
 

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Oh here we go again

I'm 40 and I go for 18-22. Maybe up to 30 if she's my type.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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The only true jackpot IMO is getting together with a young, feminine, attractive woman who has no relationship baggage.
I'm 47, and I don't want to date women older than 42.

Of course women in their early 20s look the best but that's not realistic and they are immature anyhow.
Go to certain places or dial certain numbers, splash out $100 and it suddenly becomes realistic. ;)
She's immature at 22 ... then you're more than welcome to have her 'mature' version at +35yrs old ... with extra 25 pounds of lard and a ton of baggage from failed relationships. :p
 

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I think men stop becoming attracted to women their own age once they hit late 20s and early 30s.
There's some truth to this but it's not entirely true. There are plenty of 30-35 year old men with girlfriends/wives within 2-3 years of their own age.

I would say the realistic jackpot for men between 40 and 45 is late 20s to early 30s
I am in this age range and would like this. Even younger would be better. I think a lot of early 40s men would like an early 20s girlfriend, at least in the short term.
 

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17-23

I'll go higher but that's ideal. Usually my cutoff is 28+
 

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Why settle for a 30 year old while your 30 when you can easily get a 22 year old.
Because most men cannot do this easily.
 

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As I've gotten older the more I appreciate younger women. I don't think I could date anyone my age or older like used to. Most women are at the end of the road by 50 for my standards. I don't see that changing even when I'm 70.
 

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There is an RP belief that men can hack female psychology and that if enough “work” is done, all the trappings of a “successful” middle aged man, baldness and graying included, can compete with a vibrant eighteen to 25 year old man, which is true in relatively few cases of unusual men.
 

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There is an RP belief that men can hack female psychology and that if enough “work” is done, all the trappings of a “successful” middle aged man, baldness and graying included, can compete with a vibrant eighteen to 25 year old man, which is true in relatively few cases of unusual men.
The threshold on that "work" is very high.

There's a reason most 30s/40s men (and even beyond) men end up with women near their own ages. That's all they can get.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yes, and that’s fine. And they can live happily ever after if they wish.
Most don't. Most men lead highly mediocre lives. Most men live in fear of their girlfriend/wives and worry about losing their pussie source. Meanwhile, their sex lives are mediocre at best.
 

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Most don't. Most men lead highly mediocre lives. Most men live in fear of their girlfriend/wives and worry about losing their pussie source. Meanwhile, their sex lives are mediocre at best.
Yes, ordinary people live ordinary lives. Somewhere in time, perhaps the early 2000s, this became “a thing,” so to speak, something looked down upon, even by other ordinary people.

How do you know about such worry?
 

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17 to 22. (16 is legal in Mexico)

There's a youthful vibrance in girls aged 17-22 that just diminishes by the time they hit 22-23 years old.
That sparkle in their eyes, their running rampant sexual hormonal innocence and their passion for love and life just completely gets washed away with every alpha cxck that fvcks and chucks her.

22-23 is where I'd draw a general line for ltr/wife shopping.

What keeps me away from older women in their late 20s-early 30s isn't necessarily their deteriorated physique, but the negative crass personality traits they take on.
As they get older, the harsh nature of the world causes irreversible damage to a woman's spirit
and for most they pay for it with their femininity.

A few years back it sunk how much a woman's attitude plays into her attractiveness.
I swear that a positive and grateful 30 y/o chick seems much younger than an identical 30 y/o chick who is jaded and bitter.

I think behavior is as important as raw physical appearance (within obvious limits on gross weight, tattoos, piercings etc).

When in doubt, consult your boner.
 
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Do you actually land women that young being a 40 year old man?
I did in my mid 30's. I don't see why not 40 if I'm still in great shape.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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