Your father will make your life

[Plinco]

Pls explain yourself on this one. Don't see how your comment is helpful. Is it an attempt to insult??? Are you capable to detail your point on this?

getting help from others results in faster improvements.

Is a true statement, assuming that the help is good, however....

yeah, but going it alone is not always fun.

It is always fun. The fact that you admitted to not having fun doing your own thing tells me that you don't enjoy your own agency. You want the work done for you, which also tells me that you are lazy and entitled.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The guy is not bad looking, but like you, I can tell why women would not contact him on a dating site. Though I don’t like speaking negatively about other men I don’t know, there is something weak, odd, and off putting about his face, smile, and body language. There are men who are less physically attractive but who attract women.

His looks are less masculine and more feminine. He looks to me like a 'twink', a boyish effeminate homosexual. For a straight woman looking for a straight man, he wouldn't look masculine/mature enough.
So, of course he could be straight (swiping on women), but my 'first impression' is an effeminate boy.