Your father will make your life

[Plinco]

Pls explain yourself on this one. Don't see how your comment is helpful. Is it an attempt to insult??? Are you capable to detail your point on this?

getting help from others results in faster improvements.

Is a true statement, assuming that the help is good, however....

yeah, but going it alone is not always fun.

It is always fun. The fact that you admitted to not having fun doing your own thing tells me that you don't enjoy your own agency. You want the work done for you, which also tells me that you are lazy and entitled.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The guy is not bad looking, but like you, I can tell why women would not contact him on a dating site. Though I don’t like speaking negatively about other men I don’t know, there is something weak, odd, and off putting about his face, smile, and body language. There are men who are less physically attractive but who attract women.

His looks are less masculine and more feminine. He looks to me like a 'twink', a boyish effeminate homosexual. For a straight woman looking for a straight man, he wouldn't look masculine/mature enough.
So, of course he could be straight (swiping on women), but my 'first impression' is an effeminate boy.

 

[GoodMan32]

A lot of being a married man is doing stuff in your leisure time that isn't what you as the man want to do.

Unmarried men have more freedom. Unmarried men not in relationships have the most freedom. Unmarried men in committed relationships have some freedom but can also resemble married men.

I think the younger two generations of adults (Gen Y/Millennials and Gen Z) haven't had great examples from their fathers in marriages. They've also seen a lot of divorces too.

Yeah. Even though a relationship means a steady supply of cooch (and in some cases, not even that), relationships come with the downside of getting roped into stuff your girlfriend/wife makes you do.

Perhaps that's why the best sex I've ever had was the affair with the married woman. I had the best of both worlds: Steady supply of cooch with no expectation that I'd act as a husband to her (because she already had a husband)

Speaking of our generation seeing lots of divorces, I saw multiple relatives move back in with parents after a divorce (one was pushing 40; the other was pushing 50)

I've also known men over 30 outside my family who had to move back in with parents post-divorce.

These examples of people moving back home post-divorce served as additional material for my case against getting married.

 

[GoodMan32]

That's because you're an autist.
Autists are similar to psychopaths in the sense that they lack the empathy to truly look at something from another perspective.
In your case, you are unable to look at the guy from the perspective of a straight woman.

Ok, fair enough. Apparently a straight woman doesn't want to be with a man who looks gay (even if he isn't)

I get mistaken for gay. Might explain my bad luck with the ladies.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Yeah. Even though a relationship means a steady supply of cooch (and in some cases, not even that), relationships come with the downside of getting roped into stuff your girlfriend/wife makes you do.

Perhaps that's why the best sex I've ever had was the affair with the married woman. I had the best of both worlds: Steady supply of cooch with no expectation that I'd act as a husband to her (because she already had a husband)

Speaking of our generation seeing lots of divorces, I saw multiple relatives move back in with parents after a divorce (one was pushing 40; the other was pushing 50)

I've also known men over 30 outside my family who had to move back in with parents post-divorce.

These examples of people moving back home post-divorce served as additional material for my case against getting married.

What do you want then? You don’t want a girlfriend (clown marriage), you don’t want a wife, yet you say you have major issues keeping you from being a Mac Daddy. You also want no accountability for attending boring events (part of adult life, especially raising kids).

Why not just go to hookers?