Young guys and older women

[seabreeze]

Why does it seem like young guys (18 - 28) are interested more and more in older women? This seems odd to me because when I was that age 38 years old was OOOOLLLD! Nowadays, young men don't seem intimidated by older women and are VERY aggressive when showing their interest in them. What's up with that? Why would they be interested in older women when there are so many gorgeous young women out there? Okay I guess what I'm wondering is if the young guys see the older woman as an easy lay or something.
SB

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Because older women don't usually play as many games as the younger ones. They know what they want and will tell you in no uncertain terms if you are lucky.

Plus have you really looked at some of these older women (women at least in their thirties)? They fricken' rock! Nice hard bodies, sexy and alluring... All of this without the drama. They are definitely worth considering.

 

[seabreeze]

Thanks, Francisco. But what I find interesting is that I am very attracted to guys my own age, but it's the YOUNGER ones that are bold and approach. The young ones are VERY aggressive with their interest. I end up looking at some of them like "WTF?" This nineteen year old guy keeps asking me out and i just thought "you can't be serious." He was so sweet about it and told me he wants to be a teacher too and loves books like I do. I can't believe he convinced me to finally meet him at a bookstore and shop for books. But does he honestly think that I'm going to sleep with him?
SB

 

[ScrewIt]

what francisco said is right. older women play less games and are more straightforward, plus they are more experienced.
you might even say they are much more mature. plus they are willing to settle for LTR's and some want to settle down unlike younger girls who get rid of dates they dont like, you might say they are picky.

i think older women in relationships are much more committed than younger ones are.

 

[seabreeze]

So, how should I straight forwardly make it clear that we are not going to have sex? I mean, he's been very respectful to me so far and has come across as very mature. I'm not exactly sure why he's so interested in me. I tried to sort of blow him off and he seemed to get a little hurt by it. The way i see it, we can be good friends and share our love of books and education. Do you guys think that this is really what he's after too? (By the way, he's a goodlooking kid and I'm sure has no problem getting laid by girls his OWN age).
SB

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by seabreeze
Thanks, Francisco. But what I find interesting is that I am very attracted to guys my own age, but it's the YOUNGER ones that are bold and approach. The young ones are VERY aggressive with their interest. I end up looking at some of them like "WTF?" This nineteen year old guy keeps asking me out and i just thought "you can't be serious." He was so sweet about it and told me he wants to be a teacher too and loves books like I do. I can't believe he convinced me to finally meet him at a bookstore and shop for books. But does he honestly think that I'm going to sleep with him?
SB

Hehehehe, I just have to laugh... I understand the apprehension and I agree that it seems a bit far fetched but... But I know from experience that strange things can happen.

I met my ex wife my sophomore year of college and she was a night student. We went through some of the same things that you described. Cutting a long story short, I was 19 and she was 30 something when we got married. No, she wasn't my sugar momma either. She and her daughter moved in with me.

So I don't know, I am of a rare breed and men were a bit different back then. But look at it as a complement when the pups are following you around. They may be fun to play with on the street but you know not to take them home because they probably aren't house trained.

 

[dookie]

There is something about older women, especially ones who are hot (but that goes for all (legal) ages...). I found a woman 13 years older more attractive than some of the other girls. Its not because she’s extremely hot, its just the small things that I like in a person and she seems to have most of em (as far as looks go and they way she does some things). I don't think I would get into a long-term relationship for the simple fact that I want to see other girls as well. There is also the admiration of your friends etc when you "bang" a hot/smokin older woman/milf. I find several women that I have worked with attractive and I would probably presume them if they weren't clients.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by ScrewIt
what francisco said is right. older women play less games and are more straightforward, plus they are more experienced.
you might even say they are much more mature. plus they are willing to settle for LTR's and some want to settle down unlike younger girls who get rid of dates they dont like, you might say they are picky.

i think older women in relationships are much more committed than younger ones are.

I agree with all of the above. My ex was worth commiting to because she was definitely all for a LTR without the BS.

 

[Rogerman]

I love older mature women.

 

[seabreeze]

Hey, what you guys are saying makes a lot of sense. But, I just don't think that a nineteen year old guy would be interested in a relationship with a thirty-eight-year old woman! I just have to shake my head. I had one eighteen year old send me a message on MySpace and I didn't even think twice about not answering him! I joined MySpace to join the "Thirty-Three Plus and Fabulous" group. But, most of my male friends are under the age of 28! Seriously, most of the guys who show bold interest in me are between the ages of 18 - 28. The guys my age just look I guess.
SB

 

[quest]

what i find interesting seabreeze is the fact that you came here asking 'why do young men go after older women?' then attempted to steer the replys into something about you, are you trying to impress us that a 19 year old is after you?
cause i'm not impressed.

your original question was fine.
and if u told ur story seperatly, that'd be fine.

but in answer to your question.
as a 21 year old.
older ladies are extremely attractive if they look after themselves, and simply men are attracted to what pleases the eye. put a 20 and 40 year old women next to each other, different guys would choose differently. same as if u had a blonde and a brunette.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

To generalize, most older women know how to fcuk, aren't dramatic, aren't demanding, understand life, can teach you things, are sexually open, treat you better than a younger girl around the same age.

It seems to me that most older women who love younger men know how to treat them well and will go above and beyond to make them happy. They want to feel attractive and wanted and the younger guys typically give them that.. also, most older women will agree that younger guys are 'hotter' than older guys.

Cheers!

Eric

www.tenderz.net/forum

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by seabreeze
Why does it seem like young guys (18 - 28) are interested more and more in older women? This seems odd to me because when I was that age 38 years old was OOOOLLLD! Nowadays, young men don't seem intimidated by older women and are VERY aggressive when showing their interest in them. What's up with that? Why would they be interested in older women when there are so many gorgeous young women out there? Okay I guess what I'm wondering is if the young guys see the older woman as an easy lay or something.
SB

Older women are typically more intelligent and provide more of a mental challenge. Older women know what they like and have no quams about saying what they are and going after it. Older women are more interested in having a stimulating conversation than making the group exodus to the ladies room to compare lipstick shades and discuss how big each other's a$$e$ and boobs are. Oh...and we are a lot more fun and knowledgeable in the bedroom. Combine all those things with not being totally self-absorbed like the young girls and what's not to like? Oh...and we can cook things that don't require the use of the microwave.

 

[No Escape]

Originally posted by seabreeze
Why does it seem like young guys (18 - 28) are interested more and more in older women? This seems odd to me because when I was that age 38 years old was OOOOLLLD! Nowadays, young men don't seem intimidated by older women and are VERY aggressive when showing their interest in them. What's up with that? Why would they be interested in older women when there are so many gorgeous young women out there? Okay I guess what I'm wondering is if the young guys see the older woman as an easy lay or something.
SB

Wow, didn't realize how many women post on these forums, yet again, what guy wouldn't suspect that a chick would be snooping around on a website like this, lol.

What makes me more attracted to older women is the way they carry themselves. They act more womanly and feminine, which gives them a lot more sex appeal. Plus, they're 10x that much better in every area of the sex dept. The only women i seem to attract are older women(35-55 yrs old). The older women i'm into range within the 40-50 year old range. I can't say i'm really looking to get serious with an older woman, i'm just in it for the fun and joy. I mean, if i really clicked well with an older woman then i'd consider getting involved with her.

 

[No Escape]

Might i also add that a nice MILFY 43 year old has got a fully developed womanly body that can't really be said about a chick in her early 20's.

 

[fieldman12]

Older woman are beautiful lovers

I am a 28 year old male and can honestly tell you an older woman is better in everyway..

Here is my list:

1. Are not out to party all the time and sleep around.

2. More experience in bed and often easier to get into bed. I know that sleeping part kinda contradicts line one above but its true.

3. Will take you out to dinner and have no problem paying for it.

4. Often have a house, good job, and now a good car.

5. Are most likely out of college and are ready to start getting into a serious relationship and know what their after.

6. Seem to be more caring and forgiving.

7. Can actually carry on a good conversation about things and are thinking serious about their future of what they want as far as family.

8. They tend to look at the whole package with you than just one thing like your body, money, or good sex.

Downside

1. Some of them have a kid or kids by now.

2. Their is a reason while their still not married or have been divorced.

3. Some but not all will look older in the face and as far as body goes..



It just is my experience that the younger ones have allot of personal issues and often make drastic decisions. They are focued on college mostly and the guy is usually left on the back burner. They most often dont have much money so expect you to pay for everything you ever do together no matter how little it cost.

I have dated as old as 34 and as young as 19 and I will take an older mature woman any day.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Yea, but those MILFY bodies are kinda saggy, wrinkly, and soft and squishy. I don't know if you've been with a woman of that age, but their boobs are really "floppy" feeling - kinda gross even.

One of the main reasons why I love younger women is because of their tight tight bodies.

Eric

www.tenderz.net/forum

 

[AverageFC]

Nowadays, young men don't seem intimidated by older women and are VERY aggressive when showing their interest in them

Well I'm not interested in OLDER older women, but I'd prefer to date a girl my age or up to 2-3 years older than myself.

I've just always found women within that age demographic more attractive, more mature, they don't play dumbass games and the other guys here said alot of what i feel too.

However I havent dated an older woman yet. Kinda pisses me off. Every woman I've talked to only likes dating older men for their goddamn shallow reasons.

 

[No Escape]

Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Yea, but those MILFY bodies are kinda saggy, wrinkly, and soft and squishy. I don't know if you've been with a woman of that age, but their boobs are really "floppy" feeling - kinda gross even.

One of the main reasons why I love younger women is because of their tight tight bodies.

Eric

www.tenderz.net/forum

Not the ones i've had...both 43 year olds i had, had incredible bodies! Nice and tight. One of 'em had implants, they looked great. Love chicks with implants, i recommend every woman gets 'em some time in their life. Both were nice and tan too. Nothing to complain about at all!

Maybe where you live it's different, but here in NY, particularly the tri-state area and Long Island, the MILFS are absolutely unbeatable!

 

[seabreeze]

Well, I guess I asked because this is something that I had never experienced before now. It's not about bragging Quest. Geesh, some of you guys really are pessimistic and cynical!

Hi WildFyre, I can see that you have had much more experience in this area. Please feel free to PM anytime.

Thanks for your answers guys. I still don't exactly know what to expect, but you guys have made things a bit more clear for me. I just wondered why this guy would make a hour drive out to my town without expecting something sexual in return. But, I'm probably wrong about that.
SB