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Want an indication of who someone really is? Figure out what her family life was like growing up.
 

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bigneil said:
Women start out sweet and unjaded, then around age 20 or so they realize they aren't a fairy princess and they hate the world, abuse men and dike out with women forevermore.
Lolz... That's not far off from what we're talking about, and I'll tell you why. You just opened a new can of worm beans.

Other than the loony tunes and degenerates, the ones who play the victim AND treat people like crap are the stuck up, spoiled, high maintenance *****es. Its not that their lives are so horrible and unfair, and everything always goes wrong for them - its that they expect to always get their way - only to pout and ***** and complain when it doesnt work out. They also over-exaggerate, and leave out everything they do wrong. They believe the world revolves around them. Thats why you hear a lot of I I I me me me in their whining.

Thats why a lot of victim types are attractive, or at least think they are / have the same mentality, and feel entitled to the world on a platter. They dont have any interest in being fair. Its always about them. Thats why, in lieu of playing the victim, theyre only talking about the things pertaining to themselves. All of the horrible things they are doing to others - that doesnt matter. Theyre the victims; the innocent nice girls in a world full of Demons. Now they are owed and entitled to everything, and can do whatever they want / treat people however they like / date whomever they please / etc. Meanwhile, everyone is expected to be nice, care about them, remain friends and doormats forever, give them all the control, etc. Otherwise they ***** and claim everyone is a selfish jerk. None of this is new, or the result of anything, by the way. They were always spoiled, whiney, annoying, retarded, and shouldve jumped off a cliff years ago. But again, theyre delusional and conceited.

Thats also why a lot of victim types complain about being controlled, thrown out of windows, etc. They cant be trusted, theyre not faithful, theyre selfish, they treat people like crap, they lie and manipulate etc. Real nice, eh? Of course, thats how they continue to view themselves - even as theyre causing all the problems. Nobody views themselves as the jerk, or at fault. Remember that before you sympathize. EVERYONE claims to be nice and victimised when things go wrong. You arent getting but 15% of the story at best - from their biased viewpoint . What an accurate way to assess the situation.

These are all things you have to watch for. Playing the victim AND feeling entitled with no fairness or reciprocality is very common. Its always about them - even with you, and whatever unfortunate situation you have with them (ie, doormat, back-up plan, FWBs...again, real nice). You will also likely pick off an arrogant vibe from them in their *****ing. Thats because they believe to be better than everyone else. Theyre always criticizing and judging others - while boosting themselves up at the same time. IE, hes a jerk; Im so nice. This also continues with you. Thats why I always say - EVERYTHING you see is them. Its part of their personality and character. Theyre not going to stop doing these things because you saved the ho....

That said, nobody is owed or entitled to anything. Its not what someone is *****ing about, but the person who is *****ing. Most of them are shallow ****s with no redeeming qualities (hence why theyre always *****ing - because everyone hates them).

A couple other types that play the victim are the drama queens and attention *****s. Both useless and deserving of death. Then you also have the jerks and manipulators. Some people live off these roles.

Another thing to keep in mind is the nature of a miserable person (ie, someone who *****es and plays the victim). These are the bullies, jerks, users, etc. Its not just fear and sadness running the show - theres also a lot of hate, anger, distrust, a revengeful mindset, etc. Always avoid negative people. Their bull**** is just going to get dumped onto you - then back onto them. Which is what crazy people live for.

So, yea... Avoid people who ***** and play the victim. No good is going to come from them. Theyre all crazy and useless. At best, theyre looking for sympathy and entitlements. Entitle my foot up your ass.
 

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The next time I find myself accidentally in the company of such lunacy I'm going to press her about taking responsibility, that it couldn't possibly be all the other guys faults..etc....

I'm going to have some fun with that....pushing buttons.

Not looking for it mind you, but if it seeks me out.
 

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pdx1138 said:
The next time I find myself accidentally in the company of such lunacy I'm going to press her about taking responsibility, that it couldn't possibly be all the other guys faults..etc....

I'm going to have some fun with that....pushing buttons.

Not looking for it mind you, but if it seeks me out.
Doesnt work. People only want to hear what they want to hear - as it suits their perspective. They also want sympathy, understanding, and being told theyre right / amazing people who can do no wrong, and that the other person is a jerk. Meanwhile, they continue the same patterns over and over.

Assuming theyre selfish and conniving, they also expect for the sympathizer to provide all the things they feel entitled to (ie, having their cake and eating it, too) - lest they use guilt trips, and claim they are just like every other jerk who wants sex, and cant just be friends. Pretty clever, really. Now they are justified in using them.

If you dont do these things, and go the opposite route - theyre going to find someone else who will. Thats why the co-dependant nice guys are sought after for this purpose. They KNOW theyll listen, support, sympathize, and provide. Its their whole role.

People arent as stupid and naive as you might think. Nor are they as innocent as they want you to believe. Many victims are a wolf in sheep's clothing. Manipulators play the victim constantly.

Even if they arent evil and manipulative, and dont have ulterior motives or entitlements stacked up with their *****ing - theyre still only interested in their viewpoint , which simply enables their retarded decisions. Theyre not interested in the truth, logical advice, disagreements, facts that dont suit their positions, etc.

A good way to NOT be an emotional tampon is to do these things. Also, remain closed off, change the subject, dont really listen or respond, act uninterested, etc. Theyll never come to you for sympathy ever again. Same goes for a lot of other things.

Your behaviors determine how people are going to view and treat you. Dont give, care, listen, or sympathize so much that you end up being used by people. Its unfortunate , but most people WILL do whatever theyre allowed to get away with. Dont assume that they wont. Thats why people say to not act like a weak pushover, or youll be used as a doormat, be treated like crap, taken advantage of, bullied and controlled, etc. Its always up to YOU to prevent these things by not enabling them in the first place.

One area jerks are effective is this. Women dont use, bully, or manipulate them - because they CANT, and they know it. Thats why they go after weaker guys for these other purposes and needs - because they CAN, and know that, too. A bully needs a victim; a user needs a giver; etc. Just the way it is. Dont allow it, and it wont happen. Dont assume it wont, or put yourself in a position where it can.

A jerk also makes his intentions known (namely, wanting sex), and gets it. Simple as. No BS involved - because he wont allow it / doesnt care.

So, theres certainly some jerk-like traits that should be picked up. You dont have to be an actual jerk, though. You can still be great and wonderful without being a *****. Thats what its all about, really. Gotta man up.
 

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Even as an AFC I used to play these same games woman were playing unknowingly. I'd complain that my heart was broken, that woman were screwing me over, that I just wanted to find a "nice girl" to be my girlfriend to stay with me forever. This was all true. This was my mindset back then, and I verbalized it to many woman. I was a huge AFC, but a girl who was just feeling the same (maybe just got taken advantage of by a jerk) would cling to me. I literally had no game, but I was able to sympathize long enough with them so they could trust me. Like I said, a HUGE AFC, but I always had the balls to make a move though, so I did get laid from acting this way.

After learning game, it makes perfect sense why this worked. Woman run off of emotions, and they will only listen to what they want to hear as Floyd just illustrated.

Now knowing this, it's all a matter of pressing the right buttons. Telling them what they want to hear, even if you're lying through your teeth. Look at my signature, woman will sometimes KNOW when they're being lied to, but they really don't care. Spice up your words and make her good for the moment, then you hi-jack all her logic and go in for the kill. Yes, these woman are stupid. I guess I was stupid once too. Some people learn from their experience/mistakes, others never will. I have never met a woman who wasn't bound by their emotions either.

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to keep it real with yall i was in this situation. bitc h cheated on me with a prison cat who is an ex i took her back cheated on her with my ex. she left me after a year and a baby later. the sad thing is im going to become an real ******* and not bother with my son by her at all. im also not giving her anything but child support. im done my life is winding down and i have to help me first.
 

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i also want to point out she was upset when i cheated. cause im a loser but downplayed her part. i also am not an innocent victum. i still suffer from low self esteem. which is why i go for fat ugly chicks.
 

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Scars said:
Even as an AFC I used to play these same games woman were playing unknowingly. I'd complain that my heart was broken, that woman were screwing me over, that I just wanted to find a "nice girl" to be my girlfriend to stay with me forever. This was all true. This was my mindset back then, and I verbalized it to many woman. I was a huge AFC, but a girl who was just feeling the same (maybe just got taken advantage of by a jerk) would cling to me. I literally had no game, but I was able to sympathize long enough with them so they could trust me. Like I said, a HUGE AFC, but I always had the balls to make a move though, so I did get laid from acting this way.

After learning game, it makes perfect sense why this worked. Woman run off of emotions, and they will only listen to what they want to hear as Floyd just illustrated.

Now knowing this, it's all a matter of pressing the right buttons. Telling them what they want to hear, even if you're lying through your teeth. Look at my signature, woman will sometimes KNOW when they're being lied to, but they really don't care. Spice up your words and make her good for the moment, then you hi-jack all her logic and go in for the kill. Yes, these woman are stupid. I guess I was stupid once too. Some people learn from their experience/mistakes, others never will. I have never met a woman who wasn't bound by their emotions either.

-Scars
Im gonna turn this around on you right quick, because its exactly what Im talking about. A lot of people have this mindset, and play these games. Thats why I said a lot of victim types are manipulators and players. A lot of these types are the dysfunctional bad girl types - with a history of associating with bad people. They learned all of these things, because it happened to them before. Now, they are using it for their own gain.

So, dont ever assume or believe that the damsel in distress is an innocent victim acting out of self-defense. While youre buying into this - shes manipulating and deceiving the hell out of you - while acting oblivious to everything shes doing (on purpose). Thats how they operate. Bad people in general act this way towards everyone. They know how to manipulate. This is also how bad people are created. Which is why everything you are sympathising with (ie, history of bullies, abandonment, abuse, neglect, control, jerks, players, etc) are HUGE red flags.

Even beyond that - dont assume the best out of anyone, period. If they obtain control, or learn some tricks along the way - even unintentionally - they will likely use it to their advantage. Even, and especially those who hate being at the back-end of it. They only hate when it happens to THEM. So, dont allow it, and dont trust people so easily. They can claim ANYTHING, and you have no way of verifying it. There are bad people out there; always use caution, and hold your ground.

Dont get caught up in this mess, and find someone who's happy, healthy, and sane. Not broken, damaged, and insane. Also be wary of the game - because youll run into these types often. Players rule the game, and youll be attracting them, too.

I prefer to use the knowledge to recognize and weed out the bad - instead of using it against people. That **** always comes back to kick your ass - usually by someone who out-plays you. Or bullies you. Or whatever. You always end up attracting the same type youre trying to avoid - by becoming just like them. Hence, why bad girls attract bad guys. Just avoid them all.
 

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floydb25 said:
Im gonna turn this around on you right quick, because its exactly what Im talking about. A lot of people have this mindset, and play these games. Thats why I said a lot of victim types are manipulators and players. A lot of these types are the dysfunctional bad girl types - with a history of associating with bad people. They learned all of these things, because it happened to them before. Now, they are using it for their own gain.

So, dont ever assume or believe that the damsel in distress is an innocent victim acting out of self-defense. While youre buying into this - shes manipulating and deceiving the hell out of you - while acting oblivious to everything shes doing (on purpose). Thats how they operate. Bad people in general act this way towards everyone. They know how to manipulate. This is also how bad people are created. Which is why everything you are sympathising with (ie, history of bullies, abandonment, abuse, neglect, control, jerks, players, etc) are HUGE red flags.

Even beyond that - dont assume the best out of anyone, period. If they obtain control, or learn some tricks along the way - even unintentionally - they will likely use it to their advantage. Even, and especially those who hate being at the back-end of it. They only hate when it happens to THEM. So, dont allow it, and dont trust people so easily. They can claim ANYTHING, and you have no way of verifying it. There are bad people out there; always use caution, and hold your ground.

Dont get caught up in this mess, and find someone who's happy, healthy, and sane. Not broken, damaged, and insane. Also be wary of the game - because youll run into these types often. Players rule the game, and youll be attracting them, too.

I prefer to use the knowledge to recognize and weed out the bad - instead of using it against people. That **** always comes back to kick your ass - usually by someone who out-plays you. Or bullies you. Or whatever. You always end up attracting the same type youre trying to avoid - by becoming just like them. Hence, why bad girls attract bad guys. Just avoid them all.
I'm actually very well aware of all of this, and I now proceed with caution. Manipulating woman however, does not bother me in the least bit. Once you realize they're all amoral selfish creatures, you simply lose all sympathy for them. You have to fake it. In any way you look at it, it IS manipulation.

I realize I'm perfectly illustrating your point, but I'm fine with that. Most guys who have dated a crazy BPD women will usually be left somewhat cold and calloused. What comes around goes around. However, I don't like others mistaking people like me to be angry, upset, and jaded towards women. That might had been the case before, but I have accepted the amorality of women. I don't agree with it, but I understand it, and I've simply adapted to it. By adapting to it, I've learned to beat them at their own game.

The problem with the whole "finding a healthy, sane woman", is that even healthy women are still bound by their emotions and can be manipulated. Whether it's by me, or somebody else. You can't shelter them forever. That's not to say you shouldn't be looking for a sane woman. You should, if that's what you want. But for other guys who just want to get laid, why treat some ***-dumpster for more than she really is? It just makes no sense to me.

I think at the end of the day, it's all about what you're looking for. If you want to settle down with a girl and get serious, then by all means use the information to identify redlfags and avoid the crazies. If you have no morals against manipulating woman, and are confident in your abilities to out play them then do so. I think there's too many people here acting like running into a BPD/crazy is a death sentence. It only is if you let it.

"You can't save these hoes" <-- Exactly, there's no fixin'. So let's just make the most of it. :rockon:

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Scars said:
I'm actually very well aware of all of this, and I now proceed with caution. Manipulating woman however, does not bother me in the least bit. Once you realize they're all amoral selfish creatures, you simply lose all sympathy for them. You have to fake it. In any way you look at it, it IS manipulation.

I realize I'm perfectly illustrating your point, but I'm fine with that. Most guys who have dated a crazy BPD women will usually be left somewhat cold and calloused. What comes around goes around. However, I don't like others mistaking people like me to be angry, upset, and jaded towards women. That might had been the case before, but I have accepted the amorality of women. I don't agree with it, but I understand it, and I've simply adapted to it. By adapting to it, I've learned to beat them at their own game.

The problem with the whole "finding a healthy, sane woman", is that even healthy women are still bound by their emotions and can be manipulated. Whether it's by me, or somebody else. You can't shelter them forever. That's not to say you shouldn't be looking for a sane woman. You should, if that's what you want. But for other guys who just want to get laid, why treat some ***-dumpster for more than she really is? It just makes no sense to me.

I think at the end of the day, it's all about what you're looking for. If you want to settle down with a girl and get serious, then by all means use the information to identify redlfags and avoid the crazies. If you have no morals against manipulating woman, and are confident in your abilities to out play them then do so. I think there's too many people here acting like running into a BPD/crazy is a death sentence. It only is if you let it.

"You can't save these hoes" <-- Exactly, there's no fixin'. So let's just make the most of it. :rockon:

-Scars
Its not just women, though. EVERYONE is selfish - including the so-called nice ones. People will not do things unless theres a benefit or reward for them. Otherwise, I agree with your assessment.

Ive been thinking about preaching to the wrong choir for a while. People wouldnt be here if they didnt already adapt this mindset, and change from what they were. Most people do just want to get laid and play the field, because theyve been burned and what not. Its how it all starts. For women, too.

Usually people get caught up in bad people - then become bad themselves. Or, already were. A lot of stuff on here can be applied to us, as well. Nobody is innocent, really. This guy chases bad girl; gets hurt; becomes bad; etc. Its most everyones story. Otherwise, they wouldnt be interested in this stuff.

But, a lot of problems people run into only become worse once they "join em". The irony in their *****ing is pretty funny, though. Ex: "I want to pick up hot chicks at the bar... Damnit, all of these *****es are crazy! Im never gonna commit again, because of these bar sluts I changed myself to attract". ****ing people.

Ah well, thats on them. You cant save a bro, either. :kick: I'll probably be out of here soon. Still have that lifestyle in me, it seems. Gotta get rid of it completely.
 

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Its not just women, though. EVERYONE is selfish - including the so-called nice ones. People will not do things unless theres a benefit or reward for them. Otherwise, I agree with your assessment.

Ive been thinking about preaching to the wrong choir for a while. People wouldnt be here if they didnt already adapt this mindset, and change from what they were. Most people do just want to get laid and play the field, because theyve been burned and what not. Its how it all starts. For women, too.

Usually people get caught up in bad people - then become bad themselves. Or, already were. A lot of stuff on here can be applied to us, as well. Nobody is innocent, really. This guy chases bad girl; gets hurt; becomes bad; etc. Its most everyones story. Otherwise, they wouldnt be interested in this stuff.

But, a lot of problems people run into only become worse once they "join em". The irony in their *****ing is pretty funny, though. Ex: "I want to pick up hot chicks at the bar... Damnit, all of these *****es are crazy! Im never gonna commit again, because of these bar sluts I changed myself to attract". ****ing people.

Ah well, thats on them. You cant save a bro, either. :kick: I'll probably be out of here soon. Still have that lifestyle in me, it seems. Gotta get rid of it completely.
I agree. I have my own theories about the people here. We sit here and b!tch about cluster B's, but most of us are narcissists who attract these crazies in the first place. Even the few who aren't, learn these tendencies from all the advice here anyways.

Think outside the box for a moment. If you were truly looking for a GOOD girl, a girl who is faithful, and love you forever, you shouldn't need game at all. Am I right? No "being the best YOU", just being YOU should be enough, am I correct? Isn't that what true love is?

Either true love doesn't exist, or we're all crazy. For now, all I know is we live in a dog-eat-dog world. You can sit around hoping for the best. Others are going to take full advantage of the situation.

If you do leave, I hope the best for you and hopefully you find what you're looking for.

-Scars
 

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This is actually extremely common, fellas. I'm not suprised people can relate. Its the number 1 recurring theme on the interweb.

The scenerio usually plays out like this: so-called nice girl complains that every man she meets is a jerk, including the one she's currently *****ing about - to the nice guy she is using / stringing along for her own selfish gain, no less... Dumb**** nice guy sympathizes with her, believes her to be the victim because he's an idiot, and all she does is complain about everything that she CHOOSES to involve herself in / is a part of / everything is her own damn fault / she's insane... Nice guy pours his heart out - still being stuck in dumbass mode... Girl gets used / played / dumped, as expected (and for good reason)... Rejects nice guy... Dates another jerk... Nice guy goes insane, jumps on the internet to cry like a Susie... Claims nice guys finish last... Cries some more... Turns into a jerk to attract her type - not realizing he's still a dumbass, and that her type is garbage... Gets involved with all these crazy *****es seeking out jerks - only to realize his perfect relationship with a good girl is complete chaos / she's not a good girl / she's insane / she loves drama / is retarded and useless / he wants to stab her in the throat repeatedly with a fork... Goes back on the internet to complain about how all women are crazy *****es...And so on.

When someone plays the victim, this is ALL you hear: theyre good people who do all of these wonderful things (which they will detail, just to convince themselves and others that theyre really awesome and caring and nice, and can do no wrong, ever); while the other person is the spawn of Satan (which they will also detail). Thats it. Add in some self-pity and whining about how nice people finish last (since theyre so perfect and sweet and nice, as per their delusional, one-sided, self-absorbed mindset), and you have their side of the story. Its all crap.

Save yourself the trouble, and avoid the victim types who seek out and ***** about jerks. Never once have I met one that was worth a damn, and didnt have a slew of other issues (namely, bat**** insanity). The patterns never changed; becoming a jerk only attracts these lunatics to you, and makes you become crazy, as well. You dont want to be like the guy depicted above, do you? Or maybe you already are. lol skittles :crackup:

WOOOOOWW...The specifics are a bit off for my particular situation but you NAILED IT man... I know people who would go back in time and pay good money to read this post. brilliant
 

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So, dont ever assume or believe that the damsel in distress is an innocent victim acting out of self-defense. While youre buying into this - shes manipulating and deceiving the hell out of you - while acting oblivious to everything shes doing (on purpose). Thats how they operate. Bad people in general act this way towards everyone. They know how to manipulate.

WOW WOW WOW...Man I wish I could give you a high 5 right now.
 

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The problem is, these people are delusional, and not as good as they think they are. Nor are they innocent or victimised . What they do is, get with people like themselves, mirror their issues onto them, blame for everything, and play the victim. Meanwhile, they keep seeking them out so they can feed their misery and drama. Trust me, these people are dysfunctional and no different than the jerks they seek after. Just because they show their vulnerable side as theyre whining and playing the victim doesnt make them good people. Most are quite selfish and spoiled, and complain when they cant get their way.

Never sympathise with the damsel in distress. Theyre not as innocent or honorable as they claim. Theyre usually quite ****ing insane, actually. And yes, good people dont do these things - onl losers who think they are good do. Their true colors are typically right in front of you - what you see is what you get. All the *****ing, drama, victim playing, misery, bad boy seeking - thats THEM. Accept them just as they are, and DONT try to change them - not unlike they are doing with the jerks.

This is how people get caught right up in the jerk seeking jerk then becoming a jerk cycle. If these people didnt have issues, this wouldnt be happening. Thats why they never JUST date jerks - theyre usually crazy and worthless on top of it.

Remember: only losers date jerks, and vice versa. Just because theyre conceited and in denial, doesnt make it not true. The dysfunctional compatibility they share is always there. To quote Eminem from the song Love The Way You Lie, "you're the same as me".

Evidence: multiple kids, bars, **** buddies, jerks. Certainly there is more if you go deeper. Sounds like a loser to me.
I agree but "only losers date jerks, and vice versa." is not always true. Generous people find jerks attractive someway and make the mistake of getting involved with jerks by "believing" their lies or by thinking they may change them with "their love". People stupidly believe think that "love can change everything", not really.

In a way, generosity and selfishness are the two sides of the same coin. One feeds off the other! People believe that by being more generous the girl will retribute and be grateful for it, when actually it only makes her take you for granted and demand/expect even more, not to mention being cheated on or dumped eventually. Guess who she will dump you for? For the selfish type. :trouble: She receives your gifts, and give hers to the "bad guy". Sad but true...

So you either stop feeding the "troll" or keep being taken for a ride. They will either learn how to deal with that (albeit struggling) or will find another sucker to manipulate. I´m not saying you have to be selfish, but less giving. Being "too nice and understanding" kills the attraction as attraction tends to "aggression and selfishness".

If women are spoilt, it´s because somebody has been feeding the troll; mostly their parents, boyfriends, or friends.

Nowadays we see that women come with the looks, and men come with everything else. It´s not a very sound "investment", as their looks fade away and you keep with bigger expenses than ever (alimony, half of your assets taken away from you, your kids taken away from you, etc).
 

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floydb25 said:
The problem is, these people are delusional, and not as good as they think they are. Nor are they innocent or victimised . What they do is, get with people like themselves, mirror their issues onto them, blame for everything, and play the victim. Meanwhile, they keep seeking them out so they can feed their misery and drama. Trust me, these people are dysfunctional and no different than the jerks they seek after. Just because they show their vulnerable side as theyre whining and playing the victim doesnt make them good people. Most are quite selfish and spoiled, and complain when they cant get their way.

Never sympathise with the damsel in distress. Theyre not as innocent or honorable as they claim. Theyre usually quite ****ing insane, actually. And yes, good people dont do these things - onl losers who think they are good do. Their true colors are typically right in front of you - what you see is what you get. All the *****ing, drama, victim playing, misery, bad boy seeking - thats THEM. Accept them just as they are, and DONT try to change them - not unlike they are doing with the jerks.

This is how people get caught right up in the jerk seeking jerk then becoming a jerk cycle. If these people didnt have issues, this wouldnt be happening. Thats why they never JUST date jerks - theyre usually crazy and worthless on top of it.

Remember: only losers date jerks, and vice versa. Just because theyre conceited and in denial, doesnt make it not true. The dysfunctional compatibility they share is always there. To quote Eminem from the song Love The Way You Lie, "you're the same as me".

Evidence: multiple kids, bars, **** buddies, jerks. Certainly there is more if you go deeper. Sounds like a loser to me.
Absolutely CLASSIC thread and reply. (Should be stickied IMO.)

With these types the blame arrow always points to everywhere else but inward.

Good addition to this thread is the signs of a slvt checklist. The more signs that add up the higher the chance the chick you're dealing with is a slvt not wifey material even if she doesn't have kids...even if she plays the "good girl" role.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201188
 

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Dgwizdal said:
Goldmine.
Sure is, thanks for the bump.

All the girls I know were described here, guess there's no more "sane" girls and we're stuck with "a little insane" or "batsheet crazy".


Out of all the members of SS, can someone for the sake of mankind speak up if they've met a normal girl ever? If they presently have a normal, sane girl?


Looking back, I actually don't think all the girls I wanted something with were normal, more like pretty demons.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
the most normal girl I ever dated love male attention and basically broke up with me cuz I wasn't making enough money haha...then there was one I dated for a shorter. Of time that seems pretty quality but even she had a few red flags like a Bible verse tramp stamp haha
That's not normal.

Oh boy! if that's the most normal, then our fore fathers did indeed have it better and we are just stuck with less of two evils but no good.

But again, what's considered to be normal? is it possible for a girl to have zero red flags? none at all?
 
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