wow..perfect ending...merry christmas!

[.illadelph]

i hope you read this and can feel me....

my last post i was feeling like i messed up, but it was far from it. i hung out with the girl and it's going to be one hell of a memorable night. i'll surely remember itf or the rest of my life.

let me start it off...

i called her last night, and left a msg telling her to call me tomorrow....and she did, early morning. she told me that she was going to finish her christmas shopping with her mom....and i said great...we can hang out afterwards...(i had work) when i got off, i called her and we finally decided to play basketball since most places were closing early. we also decided on a movie afterwards...

anyway, b4 i went to her crib, i went to lindts chocolate and got her some truffles for 10 bucks or so....being christmas and all, i thougth it'd be sweet...when i greeted her, she was like awww...u shouldn't have...ect....(i know she loves chocolate)...

so we go to play basketball(she has told me how good she was, and i couldn't beat her....hahah, i dominated her....it was fun though...i straight up destroyed her....after playing a little ball, we get in my car and we just chill listening to cds....(we have same music tastes..it's crazy..anway....we went to the movie(i paid)..fun with **** and jane..(not as fun as i thoguth it would be.) anyway, onto the date...all through the night we teased each other playfullly...she kept playing w/her hair, and i teased her about that...i kept popping my collar...she kept saying...."yeah, you're so cool...i wish i were just like you" she knows i have a bangin' body and said "i wish i had your body"...ect...i tell her, " i don't even know why i'm hanging out w/you..." i used a lot stuff from this site....

i dont' wanna focus on negatives, but during the movie..i was so hands off....i wanted to hold her, but it was a comedy...it felt akward....(all thorugh the night she was giving me subtle clues to do something w./her..kiss or w/e....but making out in a movie is soo middle school....so dummy me towards the end of the movie, puts my arm around her and she rests on my shoulder...5 minutes later the movies over...lol.

after that, we head back to her crib...she invites me in...shows me around her nice ass house...i complimented a lot of things...then it's time for me to go, because of my cousins party...

so she walks me to my car, and it was so akward....(she previously told me that she never makes the first move and that she's never asked a guy out b4...ect..) i knew it was my chance and i had to go for it..now or never...

the perfect opportunity...Christmas Eve...cold out...under the clear, star lit sky....we just stand there..and laugh, i swear she knew i wanted to kiss her..i just didn't know how...because i've never kissed a girl b4...finally i go..."merry christmas, i hope you get everything you wish for"....

after that we hug....and then, YES....i went in for the kiss....it was soooo movie type stuff...not even funny. peftect timing....it was pure bliss....(my first kiss ever) we go for a good 20 seconds..then for some stupid reason, i turned my face and she laid a wet one all over my cheek. I HOPE she doesn't take that as a diss....i dunno why the hell i did that, maybe i wanted her to want more from me next time...i dunno, but i was enjoying it...*she even put tounge into it....it was something sooo sensual...now i get butterflies when i think about it...i regret not going longer...but we were standing outside...maybe if we were on a comforatable couch we could've went for longer...ahh, next time.

i'm so glad that i actually went for it, and she reciprocated..i'm thinking about asking her out come new years....i dunno. but it was surely an amazing night i'll never forget.

thanks for reading this..

 

[Badmannaz]

you make me feel like such a loser...

it's time to put in some work on the body


that story made me smile no bull two thumbs way up man great job

atleast some guys come out of this site with some great knowledge...i just hope to GOD i don't get some f^ckin socks tommorow for christmas

 

[Bible_Belt]

well done

 

[coaster]

women loves those movie moments that can be created and if you can from time to time create that, then you will stand out above the rest.

 

[Captain Popular]

Originally posted by Badmannaz
i just hope to GOD i don't get some f^ckin socks tommorow for christmas

i love socks!

 

[Alphathree]

Most people kiss so differently you would never be able to tell that it's their first kiss.

Actually that's not true, I kissed one girl who had never kissed before and man she was TERRIBLE. Not only that but even after I tried to teach her, she was still bad. Sigh.

 

[seroph]

lol alphathree.

hey delph, congrats man.

 

[.illadelph]

thanks for all your support and everything. this site has helped me a great deal....not only with women, but with my life in general, and that it's all about getting your life on the right track. living, eating healthy and just cherishing every moment.

to be honest, the initial kiss did not have as much effect on me as i would have thought...it being my first kiss ever, but the day after....WOW...every time i think about that moment where i hugged her, and looked into her eyes....then the kiss...wow, my stomach and whole body gets weak, and i feel immense pleasure throughout my body..it's indescribable. it was just so picture perfect..and i couldn't have imagined it any better.

i keep thinking about it, and it's a good thing. i'm thinking about asking if she wants to be my girlfriend....i mean, i know....relationships are stressful and time consuming..but they can also be the best thing ever..right? i dunno, i've never been in a relationship, so what better time than now?

being near the new year...i'm thinking about talking to her about resolutions..and then switching it up...asking her...

"how would you like a boyfriend to start the new year?"

i think that would be an awesome way....i just need to go w/my instincts..

thanks again, everyone...and Merry Christmas! *and i got socks for christmas..hahah*

 

[Bible_Belt]

Don't screw it up. As hard as it is, you have to pretend to her that she is no big deal, and you do this all the time. Don't ask to be her bf. Relationships don't start that way; they just happen.

Good luck not getting oneitis over the first girl you ever kissed. It is only natural and normal to feel that way. But it is not going to get you anywhere with her. Letting her know that you like her will make you less interesting to her.

 

[.illadelph]

i feel you totally...

i know she's a party girl, and she knows a lot of guys....her myspace is always flooded with comments from dudes, most that she knows from somewhere.

i checked her friends myspace, because her friend left me a merry christmas comment...and after our date, the girl i was out with posted a comment about going clubbing in NYC on tuesday....and grinding up on people....i'm like WTF? are u serious? i dont' know what to think @ this point....

i'm going to try hard not tobe hit w/oneitis or w/e it's called....i mean, i really like this girl, but she seems to be rreally friendly w/a lot of guys...it kind of makes me jealous...and i know i shouldn't be....

 

[WhitePimp]

Yeah bro, good job on getting where you did. Just let it ride out, don't try to rush anything and don't TELL her how you feel. Just gradually increase the kino and intimacy and you'll be fine and if it doesnt work out, it's definitely not the end of the world. It's all experience.

 

[.illadelph]

yeah..all experience...i just have to ride it out...and the next time i'm with her...i have to up the kino and up the intimacy...i wanna hook up for longer than 20 seconds next time..

 

[WhitePimp]

Just saw your next post...one thing I've learned and by no means am I a master of dating or anything, but I used to check out **** online like who the girl was friends with on myspace, analyzed what her comments "meant" and generally get myself all worked up by essentially spying on her through her comments and friends. My advice is to not even check her profile or communicate much through myspace with her. The girl may be friends with a bunch of guys but she may really want to be with you and all your reading into comments will cloud your judgment and get you unnecessarily paranoid and suspicious. Just follow your gut and if you feel like you can trust her, then trust her. If you feel like she's a liar, then she probably is and you'll find that out soon enough too

 

[Damian]

Keep up the push and pull tactics, don't just let yourself go. This girl is probably trained to weed out all the wusses, so keep up your game. Excellent job and a congratulations to you...

On the other hand...First kiss at 18 years old?! Hey, I'm not judging...everybody has their circumstances.

-Damian

 

[.illadelph]

i know! 18, fiiiiiinallly it happened....

whitepimp...great advice on not checking her profile....that **** really messes with my mind...the things i read really cloud my judgement.

but it's so hard not to tell her how i feel..u dont' even know...

this is my first experience w/.a girl, and it was soooo perfect too...i don't know if it meant a lot to her, but to me, it will always be something special.

 

[Badmannaz]

hahahah you got SOCKS!!!


i didn't get anything except some money....can't argue with THAT!!!

again great job --a GF?? ohhh i hope you know what your getting into!! it's a ride of your freakin life....it's incredible and it's ****ty all at the saaaaaame time!!

 

[.illadelph]

she probably wanted to make out at the movie...hence why she was the one that wanted to see a movie....all night she was probably waiting for me to lay it on her...she had this cd mix we were listening to and it was all freaky ass..."i wanna get down with u..raw sex..dirty type stuff" haha....

she's probably, what's wrong w/this guy, why doesn't he want me? oh i do. it's goin' down for sure next time...hollla!

 

[floydtheater07]

Way to go boy

Nice job man. I remember exactly what that feels like. And thanks, cuz sometimes this site depresses me, and makes me feel as though the only way to ever go is with a bunch of girls and not get attached. But your story inspired me to remember that at times, there are just those girls that are too cool for you to not want.

Don't worry about her being a part girl. My first gf was a massive part girl, and I have social anxiety. Weird mix? Apparently not. We got along great and she was surprisingly faithful.

 

[.illadelph]

i was on aim tonight and she sent me an im....is it kind of weird that she didn't mention the kiss at all? i dunno...she probably wants to just like i wanted to, but shes' playing the game, jsut like i'm trying to play the game with her.....

ahh...she mentioned that she wants to dance...then i said...."so you can shake that ass" and then she says...
"on some cool guy named (my name)"

she's so confusing...one instance i think she's really feeling me, then another, it's like i dont' exist or w/e....she's tough to win over i guess..

 

[ougoalie]

Congrats man and I must say finally there is a worthwhile post on this site with people not being fake. Good luck with this chick but don't think she is the only one for you there are millions out there and you just have to find the right one!!