does anybody see whats wrong here?
i dont see that most of you are noticing the rookie mistakes that my friend .illadelph has done, its normal, nothing to freak out but why not give him the right advice instead of congratulating him on everything.
in my eyes this is a only a 25-30% succesful story, the rest is negative and full of red flags.
.illadelph, first of all, ok this was your first kiss, ok it was ''magical'' but now its time to stop thinking about it and start thinking of the second girl youre gonna kiss, then the third and so on. No offense but reading ''the kiss was so perfect'' makes me picture a chick saying those words, men dont think like that period.
second, its the first date and you wanna make this girl your gf already? BIG NO NO, you dont make just any girl your gf, in my opinion making a girl your gf is a big step, and i only make girls my gf's if they are worthy of, and if shes the kind of girl that one can introduce to a mom... all other girls are for dating, f. buddys, hanging out, ect. Dont get me wrong, maybe that girl can be a ''good'' girl but it takes more time to get to know a person.
Youre falling in love to fast, maybe not love but more like ''oneitis'' , dont rush things, dont force yourself into having a relationship just because you wanna experience it, its a good thing to experience but WAIT till its the right moment, for now keep dating her, dont venerate her, dont put her p()ssy in a pedestal, dont give gifts that easy, let her earn them.
I now you can do good .illadelph, just relax a bit, enjoy the moment but dont let your gaurd down.
