Wow just wow. Need some help brothers.

[Warrior74]

No it is not!!! TENANCY LAWS ARE STRICT IN SOME PLACES!!!!!!!!! It is hard to kick someone out once they have taken up residency and against the law just to throw her $hit out. It is hard to do and places the owner/ leaser in a bad situation.

It can be done, but it is a pain and you HAVE TO GET THE SHERIFF"S OFFICE and COURTS involved! Not as easy as some of you think.

Only if the person you are dealing with has any brains. Sounds like this one doesn't. I had a female friend living with me when I was younger, she was down on her luck and her folks had kicked her out. I got her a job and let her crash on my couch. I only had two rules. No drugs in my house, no people in my house that I didn't know while I wasn't there (I had thousands of dollars worth of musical equipment).

One day I come home early from work and its a god damn coke party and some dudes are playing around with my synths and drums and on my computer. I told everyone to get the fvck out. She told them "Hey guys you gotta go" I told her, "yah, and you gotta go with em, pack your sh1t". Done and done.

 

[SickOfItAll]

It's already in effect. She just needs to get gtfo. She's been partying every weekend including Thursday and Sundays. It's 11 am here and she still hasn't come back. The only time she is really here is when she has the kid. Disgusting. How the hell does someone who is almost thirty live like that. Going out every once in a while or on the weekends I can see. But every chance she gets she goes and stays out all night and crashes at her friends. Then says she has no money and there is not enough time in the day to get stuff done. Criminy, time to grow the **** up. Might wait til Monday when she has the kid though after he goes to bed, she won't blow up like I think she will with him here.

 

[teacha]

It's already in effect. She just needs to get gtfo. She's been partying every weekend including Thursday and Sundays. It's 11 am here and she still hasn't come back. The only time she is really here is when she has the kid. Disgusting. How the hell does someone who is almost thirty live like that. Going out every once in a while or on the weekends I can see. But every chance she gets she goes and stays out all night and crashes at her friends. Then says she has no money and there is not enough time in the day to get stuff done. Criminy, time to grow the **** up. Might wait til Monday when she has the kid though after he goes to bed, she won't blow up like I think she will with him here.

im starting to think you might be a troll because i simply refuse to believe anybody can be this pathetic. I don't feel sorry for people like you who get yourselves in sticky unimaginable situations just because of pu$$y and let things slide just because she's beautiful.

You need to grow a ****in backbone and kick this woman out before the situation worsens or get out of control. Stop feeling sorry for the b!tch and the kid, you don't owe them anything. The only reason she's preying on you is because she knows you are weak and probably woould be too pu$$y to do anything about it.

Stop being a cowardly-weak-pathetic excuse for a man.

 

[window]

I bet she doesn't pay rent...how long is your lease for ? The non confrontational way is to ride it out until the lease ends. Then simply tell her you are moving and it has been nice knowing you. Then pack your things and go. This gives her zero angle. I'd take this approach if you are inside 6 months of the end of lease.

 

[bmp2cpm]

How the hell does someone who is almost thirty live like that. But every chance she gets she goes and stays out all night and crashes at her friends. Then says she has no money and there is not enough time in the day to get stuff done.

Kind of sounds to me like the woman has a mental illness. That would explain all of her actions. Even a woman with a mental illness can figure out that if she looks hot, she can use guys.

 

[DanelMadr]

If you want her out and you are really afraid she will go nuts do this>

Pack your things and move elsewhere.
It is easier than to pack her things, changing locks, calling police, watching over your back, debating with child services etc.

If you want to be a good guy, tell and pay the owner to leave them living there for a few weeks.

Tell her that you are moving and that she should find a new place and that you don't feel it for her anymore. But remember you should have your stuff out by then or she could steal or break something (you know her I'm just planning for the worst case scenario).

P.S.>
If she is really Jerry Springer material do not debate anything with her for the sake of your good feeling. You have to put her in front of hard facts or she will mindf@ck you. Here are keys/money and 'bye it was nice, I'm out' before she does something chuildish.

 

[L B]

It's already in effect. She just needs to get gtfo. She's been partying every weekend including Thursday and Sundays. It's 11 am here and she still hasn't come back. The only time she is really here is when she has the kid. Disgusting. How the hell does someone who is almost thirty live like that. Going out every once in a while or on the weekends I can see. But every chance she gets she goes and stays out all night and crashes at her friends. Then says she has no money and there is not enough time in the day to get stuff done. Criminy, time to grow the **** up. Might wait til Monday when she has the kid though after he goes to bed, she won't blow up like I think she will with him here.

So did ya kick the b1tch to the curb yet?

Looks like the only way to fix this situation is to confront her and kick her out. There is no other way to do it, especially when you're dealing with someone with no self respect.

 

[SickOfItAll]

Yeah she is outta here. The funniest part is I kept getting the lines you're so mean to me or you're such an ******* and you don't even care. In my mind I'm thinking don't you wonder why I would be being mean and I did care but now I don't. Lmao.
And another thing, the day before the shiat hit the fan I took her out to eat just as a ploy. We're sitting there and she keeps getting a call but doesn't answer it. Finally after about the third time the person tries calling she answer it. It's some dude that she got a tattoo done by. So she just proceeds to blab right in front of me while I'm eating. I overhear her say something to the guy about some old man that is trying to get into her pants. Saying he looks old and he's married. Oh yeah, lol. Retarded broad. Let the ho be a ho is what I always say. I mean honestly how can you be that far into a fantasy world in your own mind that you actually live it like it's reality.
All this crap in this thread I've told you guys had only been going on for about 2 weeks. At first I thought it's a fluke she just has stuff on her mind but after it went on for the second week. The true image came out in a short period of time thankfully.

 

[Solomon]

Yeah she is outta here. The funniest part is I kept getting the lines you're so mean to me or you're such an ******* and you don't even care. In my mind I'm thinking don't you wonder why I would be being mean and I did care but now I don't. Lmao.
And another thing, the day before the shiat hit the fan I took her out to eat just as a ploy. We're sitting there and she keeps getting a call but doesn't answer it. Finally after about the third time the person tries calling she answer it. It's some dude that she got a tattoo done by. So she just proceeds to blab right in front of me while I'm eating. I overhear her say something to the guy about some old man that is trying to get into her pants. Saying he looks old and he's married. Oh yeah, lol. Retarded broad. Let the ho be a ho is what I always say. I mean honestly how can you be that far into a fantasy world in your own mind that you actually live it like it's reality.
All this crap in this thread I've told you guys had only been going on for about 2 weeks. At first I thought it's a fluke she just has stuff on her mind but after it went on for the second week. The true image came out in a short period of time thankfully.

I remember a year or so ago Hooligan Harry telling me in so many words. that this section would be better of if "basic" game wasn't discuss because in the MM section most guys know the basics.

This thread is a perfect example why even in the MM forum "basic" game is needed, hell when it comes to "self-respect", that isn't game that's just something we as men need to know period

I'm glad you found this forum, because this story makes me cringe, and is a reminder why "screening" and "qualifying" is important, the biggest mistake you made was letting a chick with a kid move in.

No need to beat a dead horse just don't be a "white knight" again in the future

peace

 

[SickOfItAll]

The worst part was that I had to tell her in a text message because she was hardly ever even home. Basically sent it saying: This isn't working out. You need to move out. She sent a battle of bs texts. You know saying I'm an *******, I'm just like every other guy and that I don't care. Basically making it out like it was my fault on everything. Told her: Well you spend all your time at your friends or who evers place you go to see all night long, so you basically don't even live here. This isn't a flop house or a storage unit. Just pack your stuff up and leave. Mind as well stay at the persons place you stay at all the time anyway. You know people with a negative outlook and attitude rub off so easy and that's what she did to me, started making me negative and basically non-empathetic.
I know doing the text thing was not really a good idea but when the person is never here it was the best option to get straight to the point.

Solomon it wasn't an on going thing. It was the recent past weeks and she acted like it was no big deal even after I had told her and basically warned her. She dug her own grave.

 

[The Inside Man]

be a Good guy instead.

:rockon:

 

[Trader]

Yeah that is my objective. I like to live a simple life. Also she is 28. I'm like wtf, act your damn age. lol. I can't live like this. **** all over the place someone who is irresponsible and goes out partying more than taking care of business. Honestly I haven't had sex with her in 2 weeks because I am grossed out by her actions.

This is on you, not on her. You wanted sex, and lacked self-control thus you ignored the red flags associated with her which you noted below

I should have saw all the warning signs but I failed at that: Ex stripper, met the guy that knocked her up at the strip club years ago. He is in the military and is ugly as sin. Moved here because he got stationed here and obviously she was mooching the guy dry. Complains that she misses her family back from where she is from which seems like a total farce because she has chances to go see them but doesn't. Saying all she wants is her child support from him. Complete disregard to the consequences of doing something that is not right. Complete irresponsibility on getting things done. Expects for someone to pay her way and do simple everyday things anybody could get done. Admits she is a loser. Doesn't seem to know what is right and what is wrong on common sense situations. Lack of regard for other people. Complains about everyone elses faults but doesn't see her own which are clear as day. Completely different person around her child, like a total act. Blows money on partying and then complains she has no money left to pay for essentials. Uses her kid as a ploy.

So it really comes down to this, you are either a dumbass, which I doubt. Or you were horny and thus chose to ignore all the red flags. Unfortunately the latter is not much better.

Own it, check yourself, and move on.

 

[jophil28]

You know people with a negative outlook and attitude rub off so easy and that's what she did to me, started making me negative and basically non-empathetic.

NO, you allowed her to move in and therefore you invited her into your sphere.. Did you not know anything about her lifestyle or her character beforehand. I bet you had at least a 'snapshot' of how she lived.
MY guess is that your 'need' to save-a-ho, and fukk her occasionally, transcended whatever standards you had in place for selection, if indeed you had any standards or requirements of a woman in the first place.
And that is why she exploited you - because you sent her signals which invited her to do so.

I have done something similar many years ago and it turned out badly too because the deal was NOT predicated on mutual respect and obligations.

Two people who come together out of desperate NEEDS will inevitable fail to meet them both in themselves and in the other person.

 

[SoldMySoul]

Two people who come together out of desperate NEEDS will inevitable fail to meet them both in themselves and in the other person.

This right here is like somebody putting a metal pan on my head when I have a massive hangover and banging the $hit out of it!!! Jophill, you sir, deserve a huge prize on this!!!!

The things we have to learn by doing it! Like you said, "you had a similar thing." We all have done some crap that we carry around with us that disgusts us. I am NO different.

Doing something out of desperation will really hang you out to dry. That is exactly why I have chosen to get me right before I even think about dating. I have junk that I have to clean up within me first. I am getting good with being without any woman in my life and by the time "the right one", even if she exists, comes around I will be ready. I know exactly what I DO NOT want so I am ahead of the curve.

 

[MatureDJ]

On my trips I met this girl that this whole thing is about. So whenever I'm here we hung out and you know the whole shimbamboozle and all. She was in a bind for a place to live due to being evicted and she hardly knows anyone here besides a few friends or so she says. Unfortunately I let her move in with me. Dont ask why i know it was a bad move on my part and kinda fast. To make a long story short she has a 6 year old boy who stays at my place whenever she has him.
Shes only been living at my place for a month and its obvious this was a bad move on my part. Most of the time when she doesn't have her kid she spends the night at a friends house. She expects me to watch the kid when she goes to work. Works 2nd shift Wednesday to Friday only. The whole place has her **** all over the place. Told her 3 times to get it cleaned up but she procrastinates around and then goes and parties with her friend.

She really hit the cuckold jackpot on this one. It sounds like you get to house and watch her kid - the product of another man's seed - and she won't even refrain from going out socializing, as opposed to properly sexually servicing you, which is THE reason that men agree to be with single mommies in the first place (against their innate behavioral tendency to avoid provisioning a woman who has a child from another man's seed.)

The best bet is to talk to your landlord, who will enforce that she not live there anymore. At the right time, the locks will be changed, and the landlord will demand that she leave the property (subject to being arrested for trespassing if she were to not leave.) Whatever you do, don't break down and allow her to open her womb to you. She will try to commandeer your seed so that she will have an 18 year lease on your wallet!

 

[SickOfItAll]

het hold on fellas dont rip me a new one. I got her out of here and outta my life. Recieved some awesome text messages from her though if you know what i mean. lol. I responded with who is this? She stated her name and some other derogatory comments. Texted back: Sorry I dunno anybody by that name. You must have the wrong number.

 

[Solomon]

Enforce NC and get better women in your life

peace

 

[backbreaker]

this is pretty interesting


first, a thought about the kid. hypothetically, i would think, if she left you with the kid, you have no choice to watch him, rather you want to or not. you can go to jail if you left him there and somethign happened to him, even though the kid is her responsibility


secondly, generally, when you meet a woman and within 2 weeks she is getting evicted.. that's a huge red flag. unless she says yeah i worked for Lehman brothers and they axed my job or something like that, there is not very much you can say to justify this.

they type of women i **** with, have houses lol. why would you want to f uck someone who can't even keep a place of residence?

het hold on fellas dont rip me a new one. I got her out of here and outta my life. Recieved some awesome text messages from her though if you know what i mean. lol. I responded with who is this? She stated her name and some other derogatory comments. Texted back: Sorry I dunno anybody by that name. You must have the wrong number.

you still don't get it.


BLOCK the ****ing number. you are playing with fire. it's like, you are telling her you dont' want to talk to her becuase you secretly wish things were different and that she would get her act together and you want her to realize she ****ed up. **** all that. block her number. move on. this woman is a 30 year old bar slut. nothing to see here.

 

[nismo-4]

Judge nismo is staring at a sequel to Fatal Attraction as opposed to a Jerry Springer episode.

The police have a heart for women, so set up hidden cameras and that way, you'll have video evidence. The tape don't lie. Maybe this tape will appear on TruTv at some point.

Also, what's wrong with kicking this girl out? Kick her ass out if she ain't upholding her end of the bargain. You shoulda made her sign a contract.

What you're doing is essentially watching another man's doing while your woman's doing another man. Judge nismo don't babysit unless he's getting paid. Otherwise, he is working on getting his money up. Kids can wait. What do I look like, your f**kin' Captain Save-A-Ho?

You are guilty of failure to prescreen, being Captain Save-A-Ho, Clipping off your balls, and displaying desperation. The fine is no sex, getting used, getting abused, and a trip to Horny Rock, Texas. I'm also gonna send you to Wussyborough, Massachusetts as well as Abuseland, Maine. Dump this girl no matter how fine she is. Cut off all your goddamn contact with her. Move on. Do it now.

Thank you OP, but your princess is in another castle!

Case closed.